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you cant force friendship?

Back then in HS, i was not that friendly.
I only had a selected amount of friends.

5 years after graduation, i saw a note
posted by one of my batchmates saying
that im a loser,stalker, some "unfriended"
me in FB, & some even posted rude comments.

AFAIK, FB was made for use to keep in contact
with our friends, relatives,etc. the most ive done
was probably post on their profile or post a
comment on some of their photos.

so what do you think?
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  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    no comments?
  • well, start being friendly now. its not too late yet, anyway!
  • hmmm.. 'wag mo na lang silang pansinin. maybe they're just too insecure kasi nga gusto ka nilang maging freind and yet di sila nabigyan ng chance. we really can't do anything about those people who post rude comments on our FBs but to block them. don't go down to their level.

    me also, medyo hindi rin ako palakaibigan nung kabataan ko ( as if naman i'm that old na) pero i have friends naman na super close ko until now. and hindi naman ako nagsisi na sila yung naging kaibigan ko. choosy din kasi ako nun pagdating sa pakikipagkaibigan. i don't make friends with girls na maarte, gusto ko yung simple at cowboy. ayoko din sa mga lalaking hindi nag-aaral ng mabuti at puro yabang lang. ang motto ko eh kung" ayaw mo sakin, mas lalong ayaw ko sayo".
  • kreukkreuk PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ok lang yan!!! people who don't matter to you should not affect you.

    ur right friendship cannot b forced. we don't choose our friends... they choose us.

    in a way... we choose our friends by the person that we are. it's like karma. like attracts like.
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    dati ko silang ka batch
    pero ngayon parang lumabas yabang nila.

    ngayon eh kala mo kung sino.
  • for sure naman TS may iba ka pang friends na nakilala along your journey after high- school kaya not your loss. that only proves na hindi sila true friends and they're not worth your attention.
  • well yeah.. we cant force people to be our friends. just dont mind them. they dont deserve your friendship and for sure you have more good friends
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Yeah i know. Ano kasi ako eh,takot magkarun ng kaaway.
  • hindi naman ikaw ang nang aaway eh. not unless patulan mo sila. again, don't go down to their level. try to be classy pa rin kahit inaaway ka (kung inaaway ka talaga). hayaan mo sila. hindi nila nare- realize that they're just making you even more popular dba. if they don't want you fine. dami pa naman gibang maf- friend dyan eh.
  • it's just easier for some people to hate, unfortunately. :(

    we don't know the whole story but If you didn't do anything for them to hate you then just move on. If you did then you must understand the reactions of some.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Avoid people who give you negative vibes.

    -Just_JT
    Stick.with.people.who.give.positive.vibes.
  • saweverythingsaweverything PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ts: stay away from them. nako sasakit lang ang ulo mo sa mga yan. act as if hindi mo na sila kilala, then find friends. kung choosy ka sa pagpili ng friends ok lang yun dont feel bad about it meron talagang taong ganyan. at least quality friends diba? *okay*
  • orangepinkorangepink PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    they called u a loser/stalker just for that?!? kaya nga may comment box eh. tsk tsk tsk parang ang babaw naman.

    ot: ewan ko ba jan sa facebook na yan. since when is fb a basis of social status?!?
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Yun nga eh labo din. Nag post lang ako ng
    comment sa profile nung isang friend ko.
    Then he said bakit friend ka ba namin akit ka umeepal? LOL!
  • Hmmm.....tama ba intindi ko: you were the 1 who made the first move by commenting on their pic/profile tapos ang sagot sa yo kung friend ka ba nila? Ganun ba?

    Kung tama intindi ko, you made the first move. Were these people your friends before? Baka kasi they found it off na nagcomment ka tapos di naman talaga kayo friends.

    Either way, a reaction like theirs is simply immature and uncivilized. Magreply ka nalang na di mo sila pwede patulan. kasi kung sila utak HS parin, ikaw pinaghandaan mo na ang sunod mong promotion. *okay*
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    yup hinde ko sila friends nung HS. PM ko siya tas ayun.
    yari daw ako sa kanya. hahanapin daw ako.
  • mindweavermindweaver PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ilang taon ka na ba TS?

    Bakit it sounds na HS pa ang utak ng mga kinukwento mo?
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    30 ako pre. same age un pre hs schoolmates ko un pre
    Mali *** post ko sa topic. Oo nga eh *** iba maangas talaga.
    Mag post ka lang sa profile nila galit sila
  • malaki ka na pala kuya kala ko college ka palang. but anyways hayaan mo na lang sila. tinitignan lang nila kung masisindak ka nila. not unless nasisindak ka nga. some people are created just to annoy you. there's a thread about the different kinds of FB posters and its quite interesting. buti na alng wala ako FB.
  • kpogikpogi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    anong thread? pde patingin?
    oo nga *** FB nagsisisi ako dapat di nako gumawa dun
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