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"Kuya.."

It has been my most impossible lifelong dream to have an older brother (biologically), unfortunately i was the first-born so there's no way i can have one. I envy my classmates and friends who have Kuyas, thinking "if only i had one..." Naiinis sila sa mga kalokohan ng kuya nila, yung iba gusto ng itapon at ipaampon. Ako naman, kung pwede lang kuya ko nalang yung kuya nya...

Share naman kayo ng experiences/bonding moments with your kuya, especially the girls out there. Haaaay I really envy girls with a Kuya,.

c'mon flood me with your "Kuya" stories.. mamatay nako sa inggit! :depressed:
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  • i know how you feel...eldest rin ako and i longed for an older sibling,esp a kuya...

    but over time, ngka-kuya din ako, not biologically nga pero brotherly naman yung relationship...:bounce2:
  • pantone #000pantone #000 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ aww, thanks you understand how i feel. i hope i do find a kuya,
  • ...wakaranai...wakaranai PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    my kuya is 3 years older than me. nung mga bata pa kami, wala kaming ibang ginawa kundi mag-away, to the point na nagsasapakan na kami. galit-galit ako sa kanya, pati na din dun sa younger brother ko (middle child ako among a brood of 3, at ako lang ang babae). lagi kong hinihiling na sana only child na lang ako o kaya babae yung mga kapatid ko. nakakatuwa kasi yung stories ng mga friends ko na merong ate or kapatid na babae. tapos, lagi pa kong inuutusan ng kuya ko. hay...

    everything changed when he went to high school. nagkaron ng mga sariling buhay. nagkaron siya ng mga gf, ng mga kabarkada, at bihira ko na siyang makita sa bahay. nung nag-high school ako, lumalala pa kasi madalas na din akong wala sa bahay. pero instead of growing apart, we became more like friends. nagkukwentuhan kami about our problems sa school, sa mga crush. nagtatanong siya sa'kin kung anong magandang iregalo sa mga gf niya. it became better nung nag-mature na din yung younger brother namin. we are all in the same wave length, and we truly understand each other.

    hanggang ngayon, close pa din kami ni kuya, kahit ng weekends lang kami nagkikita kasi i'm living in a boarding house tapos siya dun pa din sa house namin. pareho na kaming nagwo-work, kaya work experiences naman ang topic ng kwentuhan namin. para ko din siyang pangalawang tatay dahil sa mga "pananakot" niya sa mga nagiging bf ko.

    basta, i feel very happy and blessed to have two great brothers. i love them both so much! :love:
  • pantone #000pantone #000 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ ;)

    --too short--
  • Masarap ang may kuya lalo na kung mapag-bigay. Nung naoperahan ako, 2 kuya ko ang naghati sa pagpapaopera ko, walang tanong-tanong nung sinabi kong kelangan kong magpaopera, padala agad sila ng pera, although malayo ang mga distances namin, andun pa din yung tulungan naming magkakapatid sa isa-t isa.
  • X-windX-wind PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    may kuya ako pero 5 years gap kami at malayo ang interest ko sa interest niya kaya never kami naging close hehe
  • -gelay--gelay- PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    thanks be to my Kuyas... bcoz of them, i never run out of money. :laugh: :lol:
  • kuya ko 4 years ang tanda sa akin. madami kaming masasayang childhood memories. pasimuno kasi ng kalokohan kuya ko at likas na komedyante talaga.

    pero noong mga bata pa kami lagi din kami nag-aaway, natadyakan ko na nga sya sa balls sa sobrang inis ko eh. tapos one time, inihian nya yung pinitas kong kamias na kinain ko. lagi ko winiwish nun na sana wala na lang akong kuya.

    pero nung nag-college na kuya ko hanggang sa nagka-work at pansamantalang humiwalay sa bahay, hindi na kami masyado nakakapag-bonding.

    may time dati na nakikitulog sya sa kwarto ko, sinulatan nya yung pader ko ng "Dis is da rum op ___ en ___" at dinikitan ng used cotton bud. hehe

    sya rin ay instant driver kapag kailangan ng maghahatid o susundo.

    inaasar ko rin sya dati tungkol sa course nya at magiging trabaho nya pagtapos mag-aral. ngayon ako na ang nahihiya sa kanya kasi malaki ang sweldo nya at nakakabili sya ng kung anong luho na gusto nya. hindi rin sya naging madamot sa amin kahit hindi kami nanghihingi.

    nung unang beses na magaabroad kuya ko, iniyakan ko pa yun. pabalik-balik sya sa abroad kaya nakakamiss. lalo pa ngayon nag-asawa na sya, at hindi sila madalas mag-stay sa bahay namin tuwing umuuwi sya ng pinas. huhu.

    basta dabest ang kuya ko. hindi ko ipagpapalit ang kuya at kapatid ko para magkaroon ng ate o kapatid na babae. hehe mas gusto kong only girl ako.
  • firebenderfirebender PEx Rookie ⭐
    ang kuya ko ay 12 yrs ang tanda sa akin, kaya ayun pag nagkulang ang bigay sa akin ng parents ng allowance, sa kanya ako manghihingi :glee:
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    It has been my most impossible lifelong dream to have an older brother (biologically), unfortunately i was the first-born so there's no way i can have one. I envy my classmates and friends who have Kuyas, thinking "if only i had one..." Naiinis sila sa mga kalokohan ng kuya nila, yung iba gusto ng itapon at ipaampon. Ako naman, kung pwede lang kuya ko nalang yung kuya nya...

    Share naman kayo ng experiences/bonding moments with your kuya, especially the girls out there. Haaaay I really envy girls with a Kuya,.

    c'mon flood me with your "Kuya" stories.. mamatay nako sa inggit! :depressed:

    The problem is your mindset. You should be grateful for what you have, not sulk on what you don't.

    -Just_JT
    Gratitude.is.one.of.the.keys.to.happiness.
  • -gelay--gelay- PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    It has been my most impossible lifelong dream to have an older brother (biologically), unfortunately i was the first-born so there's no way i can have one. I envy my classmates and friends who have Kuyas, thinking "if only i had one..." Naiinis sila sa mga kalokohan ng kuya nila, yung iba gusto ng itapon at ipaampon. Ako naman, kung pwede lang kuya ko nalang yung kuya nya...

    Share naman kayo ng experiences/bonding moments with your kuya, especially the girls out there. Haaaay I really envy girls with a Kuya,.

    c'mon flood me with your "Kuya" stories.. mamatay nako sa inggit! :depressed:


    JUST_JT wrote: »
    The problem is your mindset. You should be grateful for what you have, not sulk on what you don't.

    -Just_JT
    Gratitude.is.one.of.the.keys.to.happiness.

    duh!! girl ka ba? :glee:

    actually she doesn't have any idea on how it feels like to have an older bro especially from a girl's point of view, that's why she started this thread in the first place. :rolleyes:

    and puhleasee, don't flood us with your messianic complex. :lol:
  • BadAssGoddessBadAssGoddess PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    I have 3 Kuyas::

    The eldest:
    we used to fight when we were a lil but now that we're grown ups, maybe nagmature na rin.. we rarely argue nor have serious fights. He's married and close kami ng sister in law ko and I love their son so much. sooo cute too. :)

    The second kuya: he's my bestfriend in the family, we get along with a lot of things. I can tell him whatever I want to say or make kwentos with a lot of stuff about my life.. yeah even boys. ;) too bad he's working out of the country right now.. personal choice. He always wanted to have a life of his own and I envy him for having that right now.

    The third kuya: he has "sariling mundo". we dont argue nor fight but you can say we're not close. we just respect each other's business.


    I never regret having 3 kuyas but sometimes I wish I have an older sister too.
  • Ako I have a brother, 11 years older than me. Okay ang bonding kaya lang sobrang may kulang. Kahit close kami may barrier pa din dahil siguro sa age gap, hindi ko siya makwentuhan ng kung ano ano. Ngayon may asawa na siya, ako na lang mag isa. Kung may kuya siguro ako ng 2-3 years older mas maganda ang samahan at kwentuhan, ka-barkadang kuya kumbaga. Eh wala eh, laki ng age gap namin.
  • PiNaYfLaVPiNaYfLaV PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Same here! I'm the youngest of three girls. Gustong gusto ko din magka-kuya, someone to protect me and be there when a guy breaks my heart. LOL. Kaya i have a lot of older guy friends eh. kahit hindi kadugo, may kuya pa rin :)
  • pantone #000pantone #000 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    -gelay- wrote: »

    and puhleasee, don't flood us with your messianic complex. :lol:

    :rotflmao: korak!


    just read your posts, sabay "awe..(buntong hininga).."

    :hmm: pwede ba mag-ampon ng kuya. :D

    thanks to all who posted, and keep on posting!
  • I'm in a reverse situation, I've always wondered how it would be to be a "kuya". Well in truth I have an idea but still I think that it must be fun with more siblings to insult err i mean take care of.
  • ...wakaranai...wakaranai PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    PiNaYfLaV wrote: »
    Same here! I'm the youngest of three girls. Gustong gusto ko din magka-kuya, someone to protect me and be there when a guy breaks my heart. LOL. Kaya i have a lot of older guy friends eh. kahit hindi kadugo, may kuya pa rin :)

    that's nice. ang kuya naman, hindi kailangang kapatid. pinsan or friend, basta malapit sa'yo, pwede mong maging kuya. :D
  • jed_allanjed_allan PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    i think malaking epekto ng pagiging panganay ko sa ugali ko. naging independent ako, mapagparaya,mediator sa away ng ibang kapatid,etc...hindi ko masasabing gusto kong may kuya ako.parang destined akong maging kuya lang.di ko maimagine sarili kong may kinukuya sa bahay.
  • LimpBwiZitLimpBwiZit PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ako din walang kuya, ate lang.

    pero when i lived in a dorm before, na lahat sila ay at least 4 years older than me, andami kong naging kuya :)
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