Curious lang po ako.

amor19

Sa pagkakaalam ko usually when guys only want girls to go to bed with them (getting to know each other stage o kakakilala pa lang talaga), ipupursue na nila kagad yan sa first or 2nd 'date/hang-out' pa lang nila. lalo na when you can tell na gusto din nang babae. but how about if you still want to keep dating her, ginagawa nyo rin ba yan minsan? tinatry nyo bang me mangyari sa inyo sa 1st or 2nd 'date' ninyo?


magulo ata tanong ko? :D ah basta pakiintindi nalang po.

riandrew

nirephrase ko nalang sa utak ko yung tanong mo. haha

I may not be a guy, pero a guy with a good intention would never ask you to do that. Jerk yan!

JUST_JT

amor19 wrote: »

Sa pagkakaalam ko usually when guys only want girls to go to bed with them (getting to know each other stage o kakakilala pa lang talaga), ipupursue na nila kagad yan sa first or 2nd 'date/hang-out' pa lang nila. lalo na when you can tell na gusto din nang babae. but how about if you still want to keep dating her, ginagawa nyo rin ba yan minsan? tinatry nyo bang me mangyari sa inyo sa 1st or 2nd 'date' ninyo?


magulo ata tanong ko? :D ah basta pakiintindi nalang po.

Anuman ang hangarin sa iyo ng lalaki, kasama sa dating game ang SEX. Kung ayaw mo makipag-sex, baka isiping maarte ka kaya hindi na makikipag-date ang lalaki sa iyo.

Iyong lalaking hindi ka yayain makipag-sex tatlo lang ang dahilan:

1. Sobrang naturn-off sa iyo;
   
2. Isa siyang BADING; o,
   
3. Kasapi siya sa isang RELIGIOUS CULT na bawal ang sex.

-Just_JT
Maski.torpeng.lalaki.naghahangad.ng.sex.

blue_tracer

boys will be boys. sex should always be on the menu.

siyado

meh. with girls i take seriously, i only expect sex when we're in a relationship already. we don't have to rush things

GrieverLion

there are still good guys out there.

RocktheRep

yes, it's possible that you pursue someone after the 1st/2nd hang out that led to the bedroom.

trust me, that happened to me. and we are still constantly seeing each other, and i don't mind if it leads to the bedroom or not. most of the time, it doesn't anymore. but i still like being with her kahit hang out na lang talaga.

siyado

happened to me too, sex on the 3rd date. she became my girlfriend back then. but i still prefer reasonably conservative women.

if women don't value themselves in this regard, why should guys?

mothra_hater

GrieverLion wrote: »

there are still good guys out there.

go with the nice guy and it will never happen to you but if you go with the JERKS,,,,

your question have finally an answer and there's nothing to curious about..

JUST_JT

mothra_hater wrote: »

go with the nice guy and it will never happen to you but if you go with the JERKS,,,,

If you dismiss all men who make sexual advances as JERKS then you will lead a sad and sorry life....

-Just_JT
A.jerk.is.someone.who.DOESN'T.make.sexual.advances.

issella

JUST_JT wrote: »

If you dismiss all men who make sexual advances as JERKS then you will lead a sad and sorry life....

-Just_JT
A.jerk.is.someone.who.DOESN'T.make.sexual.advances.

come again?

ka_deniz

ako din curious.

kung talagang nasa australia si just_jt, bakit manila ip ang gamit nya?

Toutaku

JUST_JT wrote: »

Anuman ang hangarin sa iyo ng lalaki, kasama sa dating game ang SEX. Kung ayaw mo makipag-sex, baka isiping maarte ka kaya hindi na makikipag-date ang lalaki sa iyo.

Iyong lalaking hindi ka yayain makipag-sex tatlo lang ang dahilan:

1. Sobrang naturn-off sa iyo;
   
2. Isa siyang BADING; o,
   
3. Kasapi siya sa isang RELIGIOUS CULT na bawal ang sex.

-Just_JT
Maski.torpeng.lalaki.naghahangad.ng.sex.

You are spot on on most of your posts, but you missed one possible reason. When a man doesn't invite a girl to have sex could also mean that he is a man that respects the woman and wants the girl to signify that she is ready. Being a gentleman, you don't go up to your date and say "sex tayo mamaya ha?". That would be plain wrong in my book. You can only do that if you are in a relationship for a few months already, but never on the first or second date.

Usually if a girl is ready a guy would know. There are signs that women give that will signify that she wants you to do it. You don't need to demand it from them or ask them. It will happen naturally without even having to say a word. Body language is all you need sometimes.

I've never had to ask my past gf's to have sex, they will unconsciously signal to me that they want to. You seem experienced, so you should know what I'm talking about. It's in the look she gives, the gestures, the way she touches you, or even in the kiss, etc..

JUST_JT

ka_deniz wrote: »

ako din curious.

kung talagang nasa australia si just_jt, bakit manila ip ang gamit nya?

Why is it important to you what my IP address is and where I am?

-Just_JT
Do.you.have.a.crush.on.me;if.so.sorry.but.I.ain't.a.poofter.

JUST_JT

issella wrote: »

come again?

Yep, a jerk is a man who won't make a woman come again ... and again... and again.

-Just_JT
Premature.ejac=big.turn-off.

JUST_JT

Toutaku wrote: »

You are spot on on most of your posts, but you missed one possible reason. When a man doesn't invite a girl to have sex could also mean that he is a man that respects the woman and wants the girl to signify that she is ready. Being a gentleman, you don't go up to your date and say "sex tayo mamaya ha?". That would be plain wrong in my book. You can only do that if you are in a relationship for a few months already, but never on the first or second date.

Usually if a girl is ready a guy would know. There are signs that women give that will signify that she wants you to do it. You don't need to demand it from them or ask them. It will happen naturally without even having to say a word. Body language is all you need sometimes.

I've never had to ask my past gf's to have sex, they will unconsciously signal to me that they want to. You seem experienced, so you should know what I'm talking about. It's in the look she gives, the gestures, the way she touches you, or even in the kiss, etc..

Subtlety is a TRUE MARK of a Mr. Suav?. Mr. Suav? would initiate sex in subtle ways and NEVER force a woman to have sex. Sex will only happen because his woman wants to and is ready for some hot action.

Only a jerk would go "Sex tayo mamaya, ha!"

-Just_JT
And.Mr.Suav?.always.carries.condoms.with.him.to.prevent.unwanted.pregnancies.

Toutaku

JUST_JT wrote: »

Subtlety is a TRUE MARK of a Mr. Suav?. Mr. Suav? would initiate sex in subtle ways and NEVER force a woman to have sex. Sex will only happen because his woman wants to and is ready for some hot action.

Only a jerk would go "Sex tayo mamaya, ha!"

-Just_JT
And.Mr.Suav?.always.carries.condoms.with.him.to.prevent.unwanted.pregnancies.

100% true. Men who don't carry condoms or refuse to use protection if they are not fit to start a family yet are idiots.

blue_tracer

pag labas ni garfield sa bahay for a date.. given na yun ready for action siya lagi.

imo, pag nasa play mode ang guy, wala siya kabalak-balak makipag relasyon (either wala siya sa position to do so or simply, ayaw lang niya talaga) natural, as much as possible gugustuhin talaga na may mangyari sa 1st.. 2nd meeting/date. sayang ang time..

pag nasa ligaw o kaya serious mode ang guy.. may gusto siya talaga sa girl at nag hope/expect siya magka relasyon, honestly, gustuhin man namin na may mangyari na sana kahit sa 1st meeting pa lang ().. ang iba o karamihan sa amin, nag a-apply naman ng restraint.

for me, doon sa 1st 2-3 dates halus naka focus ako sa pag papakilala (serious date). eh kung relationship ang aim mo bakit doon ka kaagad sa baba, may proper time naman para diyan.

kung ano usually ang gusto ng ilang guys, given na yun.

kung ano at kung may mangyayari man sa 1st.. 2nd date, be it a non-serious, semi-serious, very serious date.. in the end hawak pa rin yun ng girl. nasa kanya na yun kung gusto niyang may mangyari o wala.

kahit 1st date pa lang yan, kung pumayag ka mapunta kayo sa isang enclosed space na dalawa lang kayo.. common sense na lang, mataas nga ang chance na may mangyari.

alrem

I asked several girls for a date before but sex has never... I'm really serious, never on my planed activity...

but I know I'm not a Jerk
for me that's RESPECT... I got many female friends here in PEX...
maybe their in better position to tell if I'm a Jerk for being me

pushpop

JUST_JT wrote: »

Anuman ang hangarin sa iyo ng lalaki, kasama sa dating game ang SEX. Kung ayaw mo makipag-sex, baka isiping maarte ka kaya hindi na makikipag-date ang lalaki sa iyo.

Iyong lalaking hindi ka yayain makipag-sex tatlo lang ang dahilan:

1. Sobrang naturn-off sa iyo;
   
2. Isa siyang BADING; o,
   
3. Kasapi siya sa isang RELIGIOUS CULT na bawal ang sex.

-Just_JT
Maski.torpeng.lalaki.naghahangad.ng.sex.

yung naghahangad, given na yun. pero yung expressly yayain ka on the 2nd date yata ang tinatanong ni amor eh

jeffpadilla

SEX is just part of the entire process which everybody can decide if you'd want to do it or you're against it... you guys are just making it so complicated...