Top 10 things you should never say to a woman
Top 10 things you should never say to a woman
Sabi ko na ngaba mali2x yung mga sinabi ko dati sa prospect gf
Sabi ko na ngaba mali2x yung mga sinabi ko dati sa prospect gf
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hmm... wala dito ang
"your *** is getting bigger."
oh yeah, i onced paylfully asked
"bakit? virgin ka pa ba?" because she wouldn't let me get to third base. needless to say, i got a home run that night.
but you shouldn't say that. it's cheesy and you'll probably get slapped half the time. 0 -
can someone please paste the contents of the link?
thank you! di ko kasi maview eh.
The article in its entirety:
No.10 - Anything bad about her guy friends
One of the ways a woman marks a guy as insecure the fastest is if he starts dissing her guy friends, especially if he hasnt met them and doesnt know her very well. Heres the deal: Even if they are more than friends, you are only making yourself look like you are scared of competition from them, which to a woman screams insecurity. Best to just keep your mouth shut when they are mentioned and focus on your game instead.
No.9 - "I'll call you Friday"
Ending a phone conversation with a next step is a good technique if youre trying to sell someone something, but not when you are talking to a woman. First of all, you are killing any spontaneity by being predictable. Second, you are also killing any chances of her calling you, as she has to now wait for your call or risk looking desperate. Not good.
No.8 - Anything that hints at a "future"
Often when guys are hanging out with a woman for the first time and she mentions something she likes or likes to do, a guy will use that as an opportunity to hint at a future date. For example, she might say she loves Thai food, so you say, Wow, so do I. We should go get Thai food sometime. Stop, stop, stop, stop! While this sounds good in theory, you must remember that women not only want but need a guy who is somewhat of a challenge. If partway through the first date you are talking about hanging out again and again and again, she knows that you are really into her, which means the game is over and she has won. Sure, its nice to connect with someone when you first hang out with them, and of course you should want to do some fun activities together, but dont let her know that she has won you over too quickly or youll come off just like every other guy shes gone out with that is ready to put a ring on it after date No. 1.
No.7 - "How many guys have you slept with?"
First of all, do you really want to know? Second of all, again you are showing insecurity, especially if you ask this in the beginning. Sure, if she asks you first, go ahead. But trust me, you dont want to be the one to start this conversation. You can only lose.
No.6 - "I left you a message the other day, but didnt hear back. What happened?"
This might be the most common mistake guys make after not hearing back from a woman, and while it sounds trivial, it is a big one. It took me a long time to figure out what to do when a woman didnt return one of my messages, but I finally figured out its best to just ignore it and proceed as if it never happened. If you mention an un-returned message to a woman you are doing two things: 1. Showing that you care that she didnt return it. (Hint: If you just met a woman it is too soon to care!); and 2. Giving her a guilt trip, which women see as insecurity.
No.5 - "Do you like me?"
If I had to pick out a single phrase that shuts a womans attraction switch off permanently, this is it. Asking a woman a question like this is the opposite of being confident. So dont ask, just assume she likes you, and go from there. I mean, hey, who wouldnt?
No.4 - "What do you want to do tonight?"
There is a saying that a woman likes a man with a plan, and it is absolutely true. When you call a woman to hang out, make sure you have a game plan. Dont put the burden on her or she wont see you as the type of guy who can show her a good time.
No.3 - Anything about your car, job or house that sounds like you are trying to impress her
Do you know what kind of guys brag about their cars, jobs and houses to women? Well, the truth is a lot of different kinds of guys, but women put them all in one category: guys who have nothing else to offer. Im serious, ask any attractive woman about this and shell agree. Sure, you may attract some women, but even those women will be far more impressed by your material possessions if you don't mention them in conversation.
No.2 - "Can I take you out on a date sometime?"
Similar to No. 1, a woman wants to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her. Dont ever ask a woman if you can take her out, just ask her out. But do it in a confident way. It can be as simple as saying, We should hang out. Whats your number? Or even telling her a specific place you want to take her: Hey, lets take a salsa lesson together, it will be fun!
No.1 - "Can I kiss you?"
Ask any woman and she will tell you; a man should never ask for a kiss. Asking for a kiss goes against everything a woman is looking for in a man. You may as well just tell her right there that you are a boy. Her answer might be yes if she's being polite, but her attraction meter on the inside will read a firm, no!
-Just_JT
I.think.some.of.the.tips.are.BS.0 -
i just don't see any harm telling or asking a woman bout those 10 thingies. except that bragging as in item no. 3 is really a turn off even with long time acquiantances or partner.
asking for a kiss even by your partner is sort of "lambing". reactions on those things depends on how they are asked or said, and how they are accepted. different people take things differently. like, why would you get offended when you knew your friend is as what he/she was described - unless otherwise.
being yourself, showing what and who you really are is what matters.0 -
don't follow the advices listed here. kung gusto ka ng girl none of these will turn her off.
siguro isa lang diyan yung totoo... don't ask the question can i kiss you kasi of course naman the girl won't say YES U MAY. that's ackward. and it kills the thrill
*** isa pang totoo diyan is... girls like leaders. it's okay to ask the question No.4 - "What do you want to do tonight?" but mas maganda kung may plans yun guy.
siguro kung nasa friend stage pa kayo ok lang ito: No.7 - "How many guys have you slept with?" pero siympre understood na ackward kung di naman kayo close friends.
kung gusto ka ng girl none of these will turn her off.0 -
don't follow the advices listed here. kung gusto ka ng girl none of these will turn her off.
siguro isa lang diyan yung totoo... don't ask the question can i kiss you kasi of course naman the girl won't say YES U MAY. that's ackward. and it kills the thrill
*** isa pang totoo diyan is... girls like leaders. it's okay to ask the question No.4 - "What do you want to do tonight?" but mas maganda kung may plans yun guy.
siguro kung nasa friend stage pa kayo ok lang ito: No.7 - "How many guys have you slept with?" pero siympre understood na ackward kung di naman kayo close friends.
kung gusto ka ng girl none of these will turn her off.
guys don't have to follow those things word for word. what i think is important to glean here is the proper attitude to take in dealing with/courting women.
i believe the ideas in the article are a bit more geared towards western women than the more conservative (and forgiving) pinay women but some concepts hold true in general, like the ones you mentioned.
i personally don't mind asking what the girl wants from time to time. i want a partner, not a puppet who will just go along with whatever i say.0 -
I once asked an american chick to go out with me, usual dinner and movie. I got a bit embarrassed when I asked her what time does she wants to go -- she replied with "I don't care, you choose".
Guys, be the man, you choose 0 -
Is it me or is a guy you just met for an hour or so inviting himself to your place the next day weird? That was a complete turnoff.
There was another guy who tried to act cool. We just started a casual conversation and in 2 minutes' time, he rubbed the side of my cheek near the corner of my lips with his thumb. What the hey was that supposed to be? That was weird for me. Is that kinda normal now????0 -
^ baka may booger na naligaw sa cheek mo 0
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Is it me or is a guy you just met for an hour or so inviting himself to your place the next day weird? That was a complete turnoff.
There was another guy who tried to act cool. We just started a casual conversation and in 2 minutes' time, he rubbed the side of my cheek near the corner of my lips with his thumb. What the hey was that supposed to be? That was weird for me. Is that kinda normal now????
Touching is not normal if you did not invite or want it. You should've reacted immediately otherwise the guy thought you were cool with it.
Bakit wala sa listahan yung: "Wow... Congratulations! Buntis ka na?" I received a really dirty look then she walked away.
Friend ko na girl na may ka-live in partner... lumalaki lang pala yung puson (gaining weight). Ang tagal akong pinagtampuhan.0 -
kung gusto ka ng girl none of these will turn her off.
oo naman.
baka mas maging 'rugged' pa ang words ng girl kaysa doon sa guy, if that's the case.
under normal situation, mag iingat naman siguro ang most guys na huwag maging tactless or disrespectful sa harap ng babae by asking offensive/intrusive questions.. o kaya mga uncalled-for comments. 0 -
ang agree lang ako dun sa top 10 is number 10 and number 3. i can't stand a guy who disses my friends, and i would be more impressed by a guy's intellect rather than his riches. but the rest of the statements are nonsense.0
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