Decoding a dudette..........................
I'm really dying to ask this, and I need all your opinions especially the ladies in the house..
Basically, her (Selena's) behavior towards me is passive but positive.
Matapos ng lahat ng pagpaparamdam ko and other actions (which means alam na talaga niya na gusto ko siya)....
1. I text her, kamusta ka, etc. She replies after 5 minutes, her message quite long. She also sometimes asks me in her reply.
BUT she never texts me first.
Sometimes, we had like 5 exchanges of text messages, lasting up to 2 am or so.
2. Recently, we had 2 dates. She agreed to both. I ask her out, she says yes sure.
3. She does eye to eye contact when she's with me.
BUT she never touches her hair, fidgets, or something like that.
4. I offer to take her home, to go with her to her work, etc. She says yes.
BUT one time she said, "Ok lang magaan lang 'tong books ko".
5. She introduced me to her family and her close friend in church.
6. She mentioned three times, "siya si Pierre, yung nabanggit ko sa iyo" to her friend, or parents.
7. She laughs at my hard-earned efforts at jokes.
8. I ask her if texting her Bible verses everyday is ok with her or nakukulitan siya, she says, "ok nga yun no para naeencourage ako."
9. I ask her "can i join your church activity" and she says sure. You can also invite your friends.
BUT she sometimes calls me bro in her text.
Sure I call her my dear sister in Christ, but that was before. I stopped calling her that. Yet she still sometimes calls me bro.
Does she really like me, or not so much?
Basically, her (Selena's) behavior towards me is passive but positive.
Matapos ng lahat ng pagpaparamdam ko and other actions (which means alam na talaga niya na gusto ko siya)....
1. I text her, kamusta ka, etc. She replies after 5 minutes, her message quite long. She also sometimes asks me in her reply.
BUT she never texts me first.
Sometimes, we had like 5 exchanges of text messages, lasting up to 2 am or so.
2. Recently, we had 2 dates. She agreed to both. I ask her out, she says yes sure.
3. She does eye to eye contact when she's with me.
BUT she never touches her hair, fidgets, or something like that.
4. I offer to take her home, to go with her to her work, etc. She says yes.
BUT one time she said, "Ok lang magaan lang 'tong books ko".
5. She introduced me to her family and her close friend in church.
6. She mentioned three times, "siya si Pierre, yung nabanggit ko sa iyo" to her friend, or parents.
7. She laughs at my hard-earned efforts at jokes.
8. I ask her if texting her Bible verses everyday is ok with her or nakukulitan siya, she says, "ok nga yun no para naeencourage ako."
9. I ask her "can i join your church activity" and she says sure. You can also invite your friends.
BUT she sometimes calls me bro in her text.
Sure I call her my dear sister in Christ, but that was before. I stopped calling her that. Yet she still sometimes calls me bro.
Does she really like me, or not so much?
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TS naman, i think you are over analyzing na. She is a human being, dynamic, vibrant. hindi naman manika yan na de susi, de numero na may specific and predictable responses sa bawat situation o gagawin mo. in your other thread mukhang medyo okay na naman ang flow eh, tuloy mo lang.
you are thinking too much it is almost scary.
matulog ka na!
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Di ba pwedeng sa isang thread na lang ilagay ang concerns mo?
Pare-pareho lang naman lahat at isa lang ang pinag-uugatan ah. Wala akong masabi kundi baka one of the children of God lang ang tingin at turing nya sayo kaya bro pa rin tawag nya even after you stopped calling her your sister in Christ.
Why can't you just tell her your real feelings. Lagyan mo na lang ng palabok na "I seek divine intervention for my revelation." Kakasawa ka na, dude.
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isa pang thread at kakasuhan ka na namin ng trolling.
o kaya ha-huntingin namin email ad niyang si Selena at ipakita mga threads na ito na naway sagutin ka na niya (not necessarily a YES!
) at ng matapos na ito. 
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ok i'm sorry.0
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"bro" hehe0
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mr. ts
you have to be patient.
tsambahan ang ligawan. para kang nag-a apply ng trabaho.
i noticed you've already put up lots of threads.. hmmm.. napaka ideal ng settings mo. delikado kung unsuccessful ang outcome. baka masaktan ka ng todo.
relax lang.. tuloy ang ligaw pero prepare mo sarili mo sa positive/negative result. minsan kasi, may mga mixed signals ang mga babae. baka ma-misinterpret mo.
masyado nang microscopic ang analysis mo sa bawat sequence ng pangliligaw mo.. baka di mo makita tuloy ang 'whole picture'.
tuloy lang ligaw.. just go with the flow. but avoid being overly optimistic.
goodie lak!
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first time mo ba manligaw? masyado ka nga nag-iisip mostly worst na baka you did something wrong or whatever. that makes you a newbie talaga. kung ako sa iyo, magre relax lang ako. mapapagod ka lang magisip. ang isip ng babae mahirap i interpret. kung iinterpret mo lahat ng detalye, makukurta ka lang. why don't you just hit and hit and hit. di mo kailangan tignan lahat ng reaction. huwag mo isipin kung may mali kang ginawa, nagawa mo na rin naman.0
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TS, with so many threads on the same subject, this is starting to become tedious. If you're playing baseball, you seem to be forever waiting for a "walk on balls" para ka makarating sa first base kahit na ma opportunity maka home run with the tempting pitches you are being served.
Kaya ka siguro hindi maka score ke Selena, masyado kang tentative. Kahit may gusto ang girl sayo, she will eventually get tired of your inaction. If what you say is true that she's giving you positive vibes and responses, just go for it man.0 -
one thing i can say is that she's already making it easy for you. she gives very clear positive signals. girls could be a whole lot more vague and inconsistent
that 'bro' thing is nothing. it's just a demarcation line she's placing between the two of you cause you're obviously not her boyfriend yet. don't let yourself be affected by it.
and yeah i agree with the other posters here. don't think too much. that girl will marry you someday if you ask her. 0 -
Pierre-Laurent wrote: »1. I text her, kamusta ka, etc. She replies after 5 minutes, her message quite long. She also sometimes asks me in her reply.
BUT she never texts me first.
Sometimes, we had like 5 exchanges of text messages, lasting up to 2 am or so.
2. Recently, we had 2 dates. She agreed to both. I ask her out, she says yes sure.
3. She does eye to eye contact when she's with me.
BUT she never touches her hair, fidgets, or something like that.
4. I offer to take her home, to go with her to her work, etc. She says yes.
BUT one time she said, "Ok lang magaan lang 'tong books ko".
5. She introduced me to her family and her close friend in church.
6. She mentioned three times, "siya si Pierre, yung nabanggit ko sa iyo" to her friend, or parents.
7. She laughs at my hard-earned efforts at jokes.
8. I ask her if texting her Bible verses everyday is ok with her or nakukulitan siya, she says, "ok nga yun no para naeencourage ako."
9. I ask her "can i join your church activity" and she says sure. You can also invite your friends.
BUT she sometimes calls me bro in her text.
analyzation!!! here goes.
1.) masipag sya mag text. malamang ay o.c. sya. her messages are long because she doesn't do txt speak lyk ol d othr jol0gs owt der.
she never texts you first kasi nga palagi mo syang kinukulit. kung 2000 messages a day ang nasesend mo sa kanya, wala na syang pagkakataong unahan kang mag text. hinay hinay lang. *** kaya kung araw arawin kong itext at guluhin hanggan alas dos ng umaga, matutuwa ka kaya? patulugin mo naman paminsan minsan...
2.) nagugutom sya kaya pumayag sya. or kaya wala syang ginagawa. or kaya lyk ka nya. hindi ko alam. di ako psychic e.
3.) tumitingin sya sa iyo dahil hindi sya duling o banlag. mga ganun kasi, hirap tumingin sa isang bagay lang e.
she doesn't touch her hair because she's afraid that you might discover that she has dandruff. eewie!!!
5.) ibig sabihin pag mabigat ang dala nya, tulungan mo! pag magaan lang naman, bakit pa, may sarili naman syang mga kamay!!
6.) ma chika sya. madaldal. makwento. magandang senyales yun kasi pagmagkatuluyan kayo, alam mong di ka mabobore dahil di sya titigil sa kakakwento.
7.) corny rin sya. yun lang ang masasabi ko.
8.) sinungaling pala sya. kung ako yun, dinelete ko na kagad yun pagdating sa inbox ko.
9.) ok lang yun iho. kaysa naman tawagan ka nyang sis. ayun ang mahirap. at dun ka kabahan.
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^^^
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honestly i don't see anything special or unusual sa mga kinikilos ng girl towards you.
maybe she's just naturally nice to everyone..
i'm sure she texts back everyone who texts her..
it's only natural you talk about the people you interact with, and introduce them to your family & friends...
pati ba naman yung eye contact, of course it's rude not to look at the person you're talking to while having a conversation..
and naturally, it's ok for her to receive Bible verses everyday.. she's active sa church diba? kahit na sa iba pa manggaling yun.
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Ang sa akin lang naman ay "Stop second guessing the girl." If you like her then tell her. Di naman nagwowork yong mga subtle moves mo. Naaalibadbaran na ko sa mga style mo eh.
Sa kagaganyan mo baka maunahan ka pa ng iba. Move fast at di pakupad-kupad. Kung nagtatapat ka na eh di nalalaman mo kung may kahihitnatnan ka sa kanya. For sure separate thread na naman ang result nyan. 
Sus!
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eh anong magagawa nung babae mukhang alam na nya na gusto mo sha?
bigyan mo rin sha ng space / pagkakataon para mahalin ka.0 -
Pero bakit ganun, mahirap talaga i detect ang feelings ng mga girls, ganun ba talaga nature nyo or gusto nyo talaga na i challenge ang guys to prove the "we are into you"?
Ano ba talaga usual signs na pinapakita ng girls para malaman mo na interesado na sya sa iyo. Un bang early signs.
Un bang pumayag makipag holding hands eh sure sign na attracted na sya sa iyo?
Un bang sasama sya sa iyo in most of your activities and sinasama ka nya sa lakad nya, signs din un?
Un kasing subtle moves na sinasabi ni pierre, it is true, like paghawak sa hair and all, pero its a subtel gestures na sometimes na mimisinterpret ng guys...0 -
http://pinoyexchange.com/forums/showthread.php?t=404990
ts look at the link in that thread. hopefully that will help you 0
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