Do Ladies Merely Select From Among Their Suitors? Kawawa Naman Sila Kung Ganun? — PinoyExchange

Do Ladies Merely Select From Among Their Suitors? Kawawa Naman Sila Kung Ganun?

I'm just curious about this. I have these thread in the other section about me trying to court this lady, and she's passively but positively welcoming all my advances so far.

My friends interpret this to me she also likes me.

But now, I'm asking.. do ladies merely choose from among their suitors? Kung ganun, eh di kawawa pala kayong mga babae? Paano kung talagang merong guy who has captured your heart, yung gusto niyo talaga, at hindi naman kayo nililigawan? Eh di hindi niyo siya mapipili? Paano yun, may mga paraan din ba ang ladies to get the guy they want?

Kasi sa akin, I"m thankful enough for the opportunity given me to try to court and pursue the woman I love.

But at the back of my mind is, "Does she really like me, or does she like me the best from among her suitors?"

I hope malinaw naman yung point ko rito. Thank you very much sa mga magpopost.
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  • nyahahhaha magbasa ka na lang po sa LCM nandun silang lahat

    o kaya dun ka na din magbasa
  • for thinking about that question,

    you need to have your man card taken away from you

  • But at the back of my mind is, "Does she really like me, or does she like me the best from among her suitors?"


    eh ikaw, hindi ka pa naman naawa sa sarili mo? :naughty:

    kung konti lang manliligaw mo at ang masaklap ay wala pala dun ang gusto mo eh wag pumili. wala naman sanang pressure.

    someone told me before na "the guy for you kinda lands on your lap when you least expect him." and i'd like to believe her. so finding the one person is something we don't really have to actively look for. minsan kasi pag masyado mo i pressure sarili mo to find "the one", it becomes more of a chore. nawawala ang excitement. whereas if you just let things go naturally and eventually working on it slowly but surely then it could possibly be it.

    the thing is, wala naman siguro hard and fast rules. who knows really. :)
  • kreuk
    kreuk amishuuu
    sa tingin ko kung kumatok na yung love... hindi mo na yun madedeny.

    lahat ng girls may ideal guy. kahit na anong ligaw mo kung hindi ka match sa vision nila ng ideal guy or adjusted vision ng ideal guy... di ka nila sasagutin. (siyempre may exceptions).

    nanood ako ng the buzz... and rica paralejo recounted how happy inlove she IS with her fiance: "it's the first time that i was pursued. and it's the first time that i was effortless, everything just felt right".

    now she's marrying that man whom she calls her dream guy or maybe even soulmate.
  • wow.. kreuk, thank you very very much for your post....

    your post truly touched my heart :)

    i was quite discouraged na kasi kanina....
  • LoL, after chvit singson has had his way with her, natural sasagutin na ni rica yung nanliligaw sa kanyang medyo disente
  • kreuk
    kreuk amishuuu
    ^^ totoo? haha balita ba yan... baka chismax lang yan. btw... bernard palanca yun ex ni rica paralejo.

    her current BF is a pastor.
  • I'm just curious about this. I have these thread in the other section about me trying to court this lady, and she's passively but positively welcoming all my advances so far.

    My friends interpret this to me she also likes me.

    But now, I'm asking.. do ladies merely choose from among their suitors? Kung ganun, eh di kawawa pala kayong mga babae? Paano kung talagang merong guy who has captured your heart, yung gusto niyo talaga, at hindi naman kayo nililigawan? Eh di hindi niyo siya mapipili? Paano yun, may mga paraan din ba ang ladies to get the guy they want?

    Kasi sa akin, I"m thankful enough for the opportunity given me to try to court and pursue the woman I love.

    But at the back of my mind is, "Does she really like me, or does she like me the best from among her suitors?"

    I hope malinaw naman yung point ko rito. Thank you very much sa mga magpopost.

    Sometimes they like you best among their suitors and sometimes they like you period.

    Nevertheless. It's still sad that girls have to choose from among their suitors. Instead of taking initiative and be on a more equal footing with men.
  • siyado
    siyado alisha's soldier
    lumalandi rin naman mga babae a. they're just more subtle and stay within the confines of deniability :lol:
  • ~Golliwog
    ~Golliwog Bann?d by Adm?n 3x ♫
    Ang mga tsik nagpapaganda, nagbibihis at nagpapapansin sa mga tsong na gusto nila. :rotflmao:

    Wag mong lahatin mga tsiks. Mga puting tsiks lumalapit yan at nakikipagkilala kapag gusto ka nila. Mahiyain lang mga pinay pero ang mga pinay kapag type nila isang tsong, sobra kung magpapansin. Magtetext ng mga quotes at greetings. Pasimpleng humahawak sa braso, sa balikat ng tipo nila, mag-sesend ng IM, mag-popoke sa facebook o sisilip sa friendster. Magpapasama kahit mag-yosi o bumili ng kape lang. Magpapatulong kahit hinde naman kailangan ng tulong. Basta mga ganyang papansin. bwahahaha. :rotflmao:

    Sa aming mga tsong, kung ginaganyan ng okay na pinay tsik, iniisip namin na may hope kaming sagutin kasi nararamdaman namin na parang may gusto to. Kaya yung ibang tsong diyan, kahit isipin nila ng isipin na sila ang kusang nanligaw, yung tsik ang unang naglaan ng patibong. :rotflmao:
  • siyado
    siyado alisha's soldier
    pwedeng lalaki, pwedeng babae ang nagsimula. depende sa sitwasyon hehe.
  • Unfortunately, most of the time, we choose among the suitors lang. What's good naman is we can passively pursue the man we are interested in. Magpacute, magrequest kuno, magpasama here and there..If the guy is also interested, he will definitely pursue a girl who makes paramdam. If wa pansin, eh di parang binasted kami ng guy. Essentially, pwede kaming makakuha ng wala sa suitors list. Technically, the guy pursued us, pero nagpacute ka na ng husto nun, at type ka rin ni guy.
  • Rica P. is not a virgin, yet she's postponing sex daw with her current bf. She'll wait till after the wedding daw bago makipagsex kay Pastor...

    Ok si Rica, may sablay sa taste sa bf. Una, drug addict. Now naman, pastor. (sobrang di ko type mga type nya) Oh well...
  • tilman
    tilman Happily married
    There is a saying: Woman is the only prey that ambushes her hunter.
    So for you that that means: don't worry, if she wants you she will make you get her. :D
  • "^^ totoo? haha balita ba yan... baka chismax lang yan. btw... bernard palanca yun ex ni rica paralejo. "

    nah.. it's an open secret is all. :)
  • tilman wrote: »
    There is a saying: Woman is the only prey that ambushes her hunter.
    So for you that that means: don't worry, if she wants you she will make you get her. :D

    someone said
    it's the man that chases the girl, but it is the woman that catches him.

    but actually sometimes a woman's pride will not let her chase the man, even hint sometimes.
  • siyado
    siyado alisha's soldier
    ^ the women who are experts at flirting will always have a deniability clause with every move they make. essentially, they can do all the flirting they want without letting go of their pride because they can just deny it all anyway. if you try to confront one about it, you'll get an answer similar to 'oh really? prove it in court'. and you wouldn't be able to.
  • silvermug
    silvermug it's a boredom thing
    But now, I'm asking.. do ladies merely choose from among their suitors? Kung ganun, eh di kawawa pala kayong mga babae? Paano kung talagang merong guy who has captured your heart, yung gusto niyo talaga, at hindi naman kayo nililigawan? Eh di hindi niyo siya mapipili? Paano yun, may mga paraan din ba ang ladies to get the guy they want?
    traditionally, yep. passive. medyo diyahe kasi yung mag umpisa. it might end up na take advantage lang si guy. so wait lang tapos select.
    But at the back of my mind is, "Does she really like me, or does she like me the best from among her suitors?"
    if she likes you, she does. she is not required to choose among her suitors. if she chooses one, it means she likes that one.

    Good luck :)
  • tsambahan kasi..

    kung nandoon pumasok ang crush/gusto ng girl sa batch ng manliligaw (naaaks.. batch ha ha ha :hiya:) eh di suwerte ng girl. kung wala, eh di sorry.

    in a discreet/subtle manner, puwede naman 'mangligaw' ang girl doon sa guy na gusto niya. yun nga lang, ibang-iba sa way ng pangliligaw ng guys sa girls. yan.. like mga papansin muna o mga parinig. o kaya giving some 'green lights'..

    i dont know if this old song is still being played on the radio/internet.. love comes from the most unexpected places.
  • Naawa ka? Kung lima kayong nanliligaw, apat sa inyo iiyak... baka nga lima pa kung wala talagang type.. tapos naawa ka sa babaeng nililigawan?

    Anyway majority ng kultura sa mundo, lalake ang humahabol sa babae. Ang puso ng babae gumagaan pag hinahabol dahil nakakaramdam sila ng value sa sarili. Kung hindi mo sila hinahabol parang wala silang halaga sa iyo. Alangang magpaka pok pok sila at manghabol ng lalaki? Sa tingin mo yung mga tipo ni Megan Fox hahabol sa lalaki? Anong nakakaawa dun?
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