Who does the asking out?

jlljlly

for bf/gf relationships. who sets the date? should there be a regular schedule for dates?:)

~Golliwog

parang appointment ha!
ineng, bata ka pa no?

jlljlly

hindi naman sa appointment. may mga couples kasi na may blocked day na in a week to meet, yung iba naman spontaneous dates.

amor19

whoever has a plan... wala nang hiyaan yan at wala nang 'unspoken rule' na dapat lalaki nauuna, since in a relationship naman na kayo.

there shouldnt be, unless if both of you are working/studying and has the same days off or whatsoever days works for you both. or also if you live far from each other.

Louise Biton

jlljlly wrote: »

for bf/gf relationships. who sets the date? should there be a regular schedule for dates?:)

1.Monday : breakfast date
2.Tuesday : lunch date
3.Wednesday : afternoon tea
4. Thursday : dinner date
5. Friday : movie date
6. Saturday : mag-isa ka!. . . .kakasawa ka!

LOL

prEttyNdisTress

...I can't wait to see the word "virgin" in this thread....

prEttyNdisTress

On topic!

base on my past relationship, wala naman kung sino nag se-setup eh... depends sa mood. Minsan pag meron ako gusto I just tell him or kung meron sya gustong restaurant or specific food ok lang naman sa akin. I'm not picky pag dating sa food.

Pero, I'm not fond of fine dining with bill that cost more than 1k na hindi ako nabubusog.. and ganun din yun ex ko...kaya magkasundo kami lagi sa food..and 98% of the time, he pays for the bill...

amor19

i sometimes ask my [ex] boyfriend na magdate kami. pero most of the time tlaga siya nagyayaya since i was always busy, everytime there was an opportunity for him to go out with me, he'd grab it. it was actually scheduled, once a week. . and some sneaking out before and after work. strict dad ko eh. nagrereklamo pa nga sa once a week na date na yan.

arvyt**

it really depends! heheheheheh

amor19

kung kelan pede kayong dalawa at gusto niyong magkita, then go!

siyado

it's usually the women who make this such a big issue

pantone #000

kung sino ang mag-yaya, depende kung libre yung isa at parehas may budget, go lang ng go.

java_chiq

parang ayaw ko yata ng date na scheduled...tipong... every saturdays ang date natin ha?

gawd... it takes out the thrill off dating.
it becomes obligatory.
and when one of you for some reason can't make it on that day, the other one will hold a grudge.

but if by scheduling you mean...boy 1 is for monday...boy 2 for tuesday and so on... well...:D nyahahha in that case...si girl ang gumagawa ng schedules...

psychosonicindy

..... scheduling dates "regularly?"


sounds like something a girl would do


.... so I'll give the "in-your-face" answer and say it should be the girl ....



.... but I'll also give the "desired" answer and say it should be the guy .... if he's so in love with you, he wants to see you "regularly"





note : if a guys so nitpicky about setting "regular" dates.... that's a red flag, mates .... it either means he's a control freak, super-OC or has a tendency to gayness but doesn't acknowledge it yet

bangie

hmmm.... nung magbf palang kami ng hubby ko...

nung college tuwing saturday usually magkasama kami kasi yun lang talaga yung free day namin. e kapag sunday naman strict parents ko minsan papapuntahin ko sya kaya lang ang kapalit nun magsusungit yung nanay ko at maglalayas tatay ko. so eventually hindi nalang para tahimik lahat. tsaka ayoko sa bahay namin... e kasi bawal kami magtabi sa upuan kung pwedeng sa dulo dulo kami ng kwarto e dapat ganon. tapos kapag nanonood kami sa bahay ng nakakatawa nagagalit yung nanay ko para daw akong malanding kinikiliti sa .... e pano kung talagang nakakatawa anong gagawin ko umiyak?

nung matagal na talaga kami basta may free time lagi kami magkasama usually sya nag aaya. galit pa yun kapag may plano kami magkita at bigla sya nagkasakit. sasabihin ko wag na kami magkita pero magpupumilit parin. e d sige sya naman nakakakilala sa katawan nya.

tsaka kapag biglang walang teacher at alam namin pareho kami walang klase magkikita kami.

shadowfox30

mag bf/gf naman pala eh.. wala na dapat hiyaan, kahit sino pwede na mag-ask.. like, gf tatawag kay bf, nood tayo sine, o di tapos..

kailangan pa bang magkahiyaan ang mag bf/gf sa pagyayaya ng date eh nagpapalitan na sila ng bodily liquid?

blkc4

wag naman pati date naka-sched hehehe. basta kung sino feel lumabas, sya magsabi. pag na turn-down wag naman magmaktol.