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I still can't believe you've found somebody new.

I could've just denied the truth and lied.

How do you deal when your ex has a new partner? :depressed:
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  • ...or when your first love has somebody new...

    I know, it's been 4 months, but, erm, males have it easy on finding someone else. Kasi kaming mga babae, hanggang hintay lang. :(
  • Yeah that can be tough but really, you have no choice but move on. i hope you've cut all communications with him coz if not, that'll make it harder.

    Everything's about the right time. Just believe that no matter how painful or difficult things are right now, IT WILL GET BETTER. And yes, pray :)
  • Two words for yah..

    Move on *okay*:glee:
  • RedhotOneRedhotOne PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    iwuvme wrote: »
    ...or when your first love has somebody new...

    I know, it's been 4 months, but, erm, males have it easy on finding someone else. Kasi kaming mga babae, hanggang hintay lang. :(

    That's true, but you don't need to be so passive habang naghihintay. After you decide to move on, make yourself attractive and desirable both physically and emotionally. You'll be amazed at how many guys could find you interesting. But as long as you look and sound depressed, and constantly pining for your lost love, there won't be too many guys who will be romantically drawn toward you.
  • Sometimes, you just have to show you're happy for your ex kahit hindi... para sa ganon siya maging masaya ng tuluyan at hindi ka maging hadlang sa kanyang kaligayahan.
  • Time heals all wounds, sabi nga...just let it pass,,,there will be better persons that will come along....
  • st0icst0ic PExer
    minsan kala mo na-hurt k kc mo mahal mo p.. pero minsan din nakk-hurt kc nasanay k ng ikaw lang dati..

    you'll get over that feeling soon..
  • you should move on. i know it's hard but that's the only solution.
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    hindi naman kasi contest o paunahan yan. nagkataon lang. concentrate on your own life, how you ought to make things better for you.

    most of my exes are now married with kids, ganun talaga eh.

    you are responsible for your own happiness. ;)
  • slimbeechslimbeech PEx Rookie ⭐
    just move on...
  • intsik siomaiintsik siomai PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Pursue other things that brings out your passion. Don't be passionate with a man, be passionate with activities.
  • iwuvme wrote: »
    ...or when your first love has somebody new...

    I know, it's been 4 months, but, erm, males have it easy on finding someone else. Kasi kaming mga babae, hanggang hintay lang. :(

    male here, it depends. i've been single for almost a year now.

    pray, move on, and make yourself better. ;)
  • move on kahit masakit pa para sa iyo .. try to make urself busy with different activities etc etc ..
  • _Zei_Emu__Zei_Emu_ PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    iwuvme wrote: »
    I could've just denied the truth and lied.

    How do you deal when your ex has a new partner? :depressed:

    wala ka na magagawa dyan, just MOVE ON and FIND(or WAIT FOR) ANOTHER ONE
  • siyempre masakit talaga yan pag may iba na siya ibig sabihin wala ka ng part sa puso niya pero anu nga bang magagawa mo alangang guluhin mo sila diba..

    magsyot aka na rin ng iba.
    ganun lang yun.
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Eh di look for someone new din. Not necessarily serious relationships. Go out on dates, have fun.

    One of the easiest way to move on is to have someone new to keep your mind off things...
  • ., move on.. mahirap?, *** lang magpapahirap nyan eh, if you will still of him, ganun talaga.. isipin mo na lang na sya nakahanap na nga di ba so ganun ka na lang din.. lahat ng relationship nagdadaan sa ganyan..

    be brave enough.. kaya mo yan..
  • mcsteamy17mcsteamy17 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    hmm...

    ...wag mo na kaya subaybayan ang tungkol sa kanya...


    ...starting now, ngayon, today, this minute, this second, kaput, zip...:shutup:


    ...ngayon mag-start ka mag-Pex sa amin...


    ...di ba men...yeh wey! *okay*
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    nasanay na lang ang katawan/isip na laging nandiyan ex mo.. at yung emotion may momentum pa. magkakaroon ka ng series of flashbacks ng mga good memories ninyo. mahihirapan kang matulog.. maiiyak ka ng maraming beses.. etc. normal reactions naman ito halus pag meron mga hiwalayan.

    of course, nandiyan naman lagi mga sound/good advices.. gawin mo ito, gawin mo yan.. etc.. but experience will teach us.. na kahit pala wala kang gawin at all, mag a-adjust rin ng kusa mga sarili natin pag nag consume na tayo ng sapat na panahon para sa 'realization' at 'grieving period'.

    between now and tomorrow.. wala naman mababago sa situation: wala na yung dati mong partner. pero, cluttered pa ang vision mo sa ngayon.. at yan siguro ang malaking factor kung bakit di ka mapakali.

    pag nahimasmasan ka na.. :hiya:.. humupa na ang emotion at umakyat na ulit ang logic mo. yan na siguro ang time ng move on mo.

    everytime na merong mga aksidente sa kalsada, pag inaayos at nililinis ito hindi naman necessarily para ma-save pa ang damage. ang damage ay damage na.. kundi marami pang dadaan na ibang sasakyan.

    'marami pang dadaan'.. doesnt necessarily mean mga lalaki na dadating pa sa buhay mo.. :hiya: kundi yung mga ibang magagandang bagay sa buhay mo na almost unrelated sa hiwalayan na ito, pero puwedeng madamay. you still have your job, friends, family, etc.. life goes on.

    walang 'storm' na nag-i istambay sa same place ng matagal.. :lol:.. lilipas at lilipas din ito.


    goodie lak! :)
  • Hindi ko din alam e. masakit ano?
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