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sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.
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  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

    sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

    wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

    So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

    haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.

    Hija, ang ibig sabihin niyan ay INVISIBLE ka sa asawa mo. Halos wala kang INFLUENCE kaya SUBCONSCIOUSLY wala ka. Kaya wala ka sa eksena ng mga photos.

    Anong dapat mong gawin? Dagdagan mo ang PROFILE mo sa asawa mo para "MAKITA" ka niya.

    Ano bang hanapbuhay mo, hija?

    -Just_JT
  • eizejeizej PExer
    wui ouch yun ah... ask mo muna si hubby bakit ganun ang account niya.. unfair yun... hindi naman sa nanggagatong ako ha.. pero yung mga ganyang senaryo, may timatago ang asawa mo.. nakakapagtaka nga naman yun.. updated ng kung sino sinong tao ang profile niya tas ikaw wala...? pero kausapin mo muna siya girl.. know his side muna.. pero wag ka din pabola agad.. try to study his explanation before ang violent reaction.. goodluck! sana nga mahusay ang pagpapalusot niya este ang pagpapaliwanag niya...
  • karlo_12karlo_12 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

    sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

    wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

    So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

    haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.

    sa akin naman.. ni wala nga kaming pictures together sa friendster account ng girlfriend ko eh.. yan din ramdaman ko kinakahiya nya ako. pero kilala ako ng mga kaibgan nya ikaw ba kilala ka ng mga friends nya and colleague??. kami. di pa kami legal eh. her father and grandmother doesnt approve of our relationship. only her mother and her auntie na nagpapaaral sa kanya ang tangap ang relasyon namin. yun ang sinasabi nyang dahilan. baka daw mahuli *** relasyon namin at isumbong sya.
  • bakit naman ganon? ask him. tell him your sentiments.

    ako naman, my bf and i just had 1 photo taken, out of company christmas party pa. hindi lang talaga niya trip ang photos, even with his exes wala silang pictures.
  • sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

    sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

    wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

    So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

    haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.

    hi silk spectre, ano ba status nya sa friendster/facebook/myspace nya? Kung ang status nya dun ay "single" pa rin ibig sabihin nun nagpi-fishing pa rin sya for possible fling/MU/fubu/online gf/real gf ..

    pero kung ang status naman nya ay "married" na then baka ayaw nya lang masensationalize ang private life nya ..

    pero tanungin mo pa rin sya, sya lang naman nakakaalam ng totoong dahilan eh .. unless bolahin ka nya at hindi nya sabihin sa'yo ang totoo ..

    :hmm:
  • stepehenyan@12[email protected] PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    pinakamaganda wag mo ibibigay o wag mo ipaalam sa gf o sa bf yung account sa social networking sites para walang away yang mga maliit na bagay na ganyan pinagmumulan ng tampuhan selos. meron nga ako classmate nung highschool nagselos yung gf nya kasi nakita sa friendster na me babae naka add sa list nagaway sila kaya binura nya account ayaw na nya gumawa uli na sa tingin ko isang malaking kalokohan.
  • hooneyhooney PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kung ang asawa ko ang gagawa sa akin niyan, kung ang asawa ko lang ha, yung parang sa 12 albums niya eh wala akong picture kahit isa magtatampo talaga ako, mabuti na lang at siya ang patay na patay sa akin:lol:, iisa lang ang primary photo namin:love:
  • slimbeechslimbeech PEx Rookie ⭐
    You have to ask him bakit ganon..mag-asawa **** kayo may karapatan ka **** na magtanong *** na nagsabi marami kayo pinagdaanan so better ask him why. Huwag mo hayaan na masaktan ka lang ng ganyan. *** sakn kasi hindi mababaw yan eh. ANd siya lang kasi makakasagot niyan. YUn nga lang you have to be ready sa isasagot niya negative man o hinde..
  • Pablo99Pablo99 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Don't be insulted. It's not that he's ashamed of you. Ayaw lang niya ipaalam sa lahat na may asawa na siya - para pumatol pa sa kanya ang mga babae. Tinatangal niya siguro ang wedding ring niya sa work.
  • lovie_02lovie_02 PEx Rookie ⭐
    sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

    sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

    wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

    So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

    haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.

    neng, he's not ashamed of ya. he's got some secret. you know.. his girls might catch him na "me asawa na pala" or "he's taken" .parang ganun.. some men are like that talaga. haay.
  • nakakapagtaka lang mag-asawa na sila di man lang nila napapagusapan yang mga ganyang bagay bagay pag nagkukulitan sila o sa normal na usapan.

    yung tipong "baby upload tayo ng mga pics paguwi ha" (kunwari galing sa bakasyon)

    o dedma lang sa mga ganyan? parang walang connection.. pag gf ko gusto ko bestfriends din kami hindi lang lovers.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    pinakamaganda wag mo ibibigay o wag mo ipaalam sa gf o sa bf yung account sa social networking sites para walang away yang mga maliit na bagay na ganyan pinagmumulan ng tampuhan selos.

    Iyong mga palihim-lihim na ganyan ang sanhi ng maraming away. Dapat WALANG SIKRETO ang asawa sa isa't isa fuera na lang kung SURPRISE PRESENT o PARTY.

    -Just_JT aka "Boss Pogi"
    Password.lang.sa.trabajo.ang.secret.ko.
  • i already asked him and he said he just want to have his own space p rin daw kc. kala ko wen u got married ur considered as one.

    gnu *** tlaga ***** ang buhay, sometimes u'll find someone who will love u so much but u just can't reciprocate tpos u'll find someone na mahal n mahal mo pro mas mahal mo kaysa mahal ka.

    nway, thanks to those who posted their insights.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    i already asked him and he said he just want to have his own space p rin daw kc. kala ko wen u got married ur considered as one.

    Hindi kasama ang photo mo dahil gusto niya ng sarili niyang space? Bakit COSMONAUT ba siya at kailangan niya ng space? :lol:

    Sa halos 50 taon kong nabubuhay sa daigdig na ito, eto na siguro ang isa sa pinakamalaking B.U.L.L.S.H.I.T. na nabasa ko. Halatang-halata naman... nangingisda ng babae sa social network sites ang asawa mo. Nagpapanggap na binata para may mabingwit na dalagang kakagat.

    Mawawalan ako ng tiwala kapag ganyan. Ano ba ang nagustuhan mo sa asawa mo? Pinikot mo ba?

    -Just_JT aka "Boss pogi"
    Sa.Facebook.MARRIED.ang.status.ko.pati.si.esmi.
  • i already asked him and he said he just want to have his own space p rin daw kc. kala ko wen u got married ur considered as one.

    gnu *** tlaga ***** ang buhay, sometimes u'll find someone who will love u so much but u just can't reciprocate tpos u'll find someone na mahal n mahal mo pro mas mahal mo kaysa mahal ka.

    nway, thanks to those who posted their insights.


    whaaaat!!? muka niya .. space space... dapat nag astronaut siya.. gusto pala niyang space eh.. nag fifishing lang yang hubby mo.. ay naku girl.. wake up!
  • dear, coming from a person who feels the same as you husband here's what I think of the scenario.

    There are people who prefer to have personal space. Its more for their self-assurance na hindi pa nawawala ang self-being niya. Its not that he is not proud of you (one test, ano ang nakalagay under relationships sa kanya? if it says single... yun lagot!), its just that outside of that small cyberspace, ikaw na ang buong buhay niya.

    Ako ganon as a person. I tend to revolve my world around my S.O. and forget about everything else. So para ma-balance naman yun, I maintain a site where my friends and acquaintances can catch up on me.

    Sometimes, people need to be alone. Its good for their well being.

    Now, kung mahuli mo siya na may ka flirt sa cyberspace, ibang usapan na yan... :P
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    limpbwisit wrote: »
    Ako ganon as a person. I tend to revolve my world around my S.O. and forget about everything else. So para ma-balance naman yun, I maintain a site where my friends and acquaintances can catch up on me.

    Ikaw, bosing, maski isang photo wala ang S.O. mo sa social site?

    -Just_JT aka "Boss Pogi"
    Ako.ang.hari.ng.tahanan.si.misis.ang.alas.
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

    di ako nagbabasa ng text messages. sasagutin ko na laang base
    sa title niya.

    babae... selosa ka, noh? halata, eh!

    bakit ka bitter kung yun ang gusto ng iyong bf/asawa? controlling
    ka yata at selosa sa maraming bagay kahit di dapat pagselosan o
    gawan ng isyu. maghunosdili ka! huminahon ka!!

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklits
  • sa mga girls : what wud u think or how wud u react if u saw ur bf/husband's public profile account such as friendster, myspace & d likes has photos of him alone and photos of him together with his friends, relatives, some female celebrities, or even some female ofismates.. except you.

    sa mga guys who do d same thing: what wer u thinking para gawin un?

    wel my story is - it's been some time since the last time i checked his account tpos bigla ko lang naisipan i-view. D old pictures with his relatives, friends and some female celebrities which he posted before are still there. They are old photos, it was already there even before we met so it's ok. i just wonder y sa dmi n ng pnagdaanan nmin, ng mga things we did together and places we've been through ni isa dun wala man lang ako nkita. Ni anino ko nga d ng-appear. Pero mga pix nya with his ofismates s recent job nya nkapost. Updated s lahat except me. Feeling ko mas proud p b cia dun compared sa mga events s buhay nmin lyk d wedding, d honeymoon or d arrival of our son? I feel hurt and insulted. Am i not good enough for him? My god, during college days i got lots of admirers. Even at d ofis though alam n nilang taken n ko there are some n ngpupursue p rin. Even now dat i'm married mron p ring umaaligid pro ciempre nmn i don't tolerate dem though somehow i feel flattered. I may not be as gorgeous as the celebrities but i'm sure i got looks, truth is minsan din akong ng-aspire i got two tv guesting (xtra lang nmn) but that was all kasi nung nkilala ko cia bmaligtad n mundo ko. I fell head over heels with him kc. I became so busy with him. Sbihin ng looks is not dat important.. e im a graduate naman from the best university in d country and at my age 2day i earn big bucks din naman. My career is going well only im' still underboard. I believe dat i'm a good person din naman actually I came from a well-mannered family.

    So my dilemma is i don't know what to do think/do about it. I got theories though. First, kinakahiya b nya ko? Pro d koma-dig un, there's nothing dat is shameful abt me dat i cud think of. My ex-bf thought of me as a trophy gf tpos cia n minahal ko treats me dat way. Second, ayaw b nyang mkita ako ng mga ex-gf's nya? but y? Minsan nga i caught him browsing d account of his ex-gf's - sbra sakit nun. It makes me feel n kakumpetensya ko p ***? Ako nga, i deleted my account wen i found out dat my ex-bf is viewing it. I lost contact to some good old friends but i did d sacrifice dhil ayoko n ng gulo or issue. Ayaw *** b nya tlagang i-publicized *** personal life nya? But i think OA naman nun.

    haay... Did i make any sense? Am i overreacting? Pls enlighten me.

    iha,meron ba facebook asawa mo??kung wala..gawan mo at ikaw gumawa ka rin tpos iadd mo si mister at yun na..itag mo na sya dun sa photos mo..sa ayaw man at sa hindi,pagkatapos mo sya matag eh mag aapear lahat ng pictures nya na kasama ka dun sa profile nya..da best di ba??o di kaya,comment ka lang ng comment dun sa friendster or multiply ng asawa mo like "honey,naghihintay kami ng anak mo sayo.uwi ka na po" o kahit na ano na lang basta may i sabat ka dapat..:rotflmao:
  • intsik siomaiintsik siomai PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Some men need space. Masyado kasing partner-centric ang girls. They lose their identity when they have no bf/lover/husband. Get a life! Your own life!
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