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boyfriend vs bestfriend

Last week, I formally introduced my bf to my bestfriend. To my surprise, my bestfriend bluntly told me that she doesn't like my bf. Hindi daw kami bagay. Beauty and the beast daw kami. :mecry: I really love my bf and for me he is the cutest and the sweetest guy! Should I tell my bf about this? Should I tell him that my bestfriend doesn't like him?

Thanks.

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  • Aww, sad naman nito.

    Sorry to say this, pero your best friend is kind of mean. Kung beauty and the beast ang sabi niya then she's judging your bf solely of his physical looks. Tell your best friend to try and get to know your bf more muna, 'di ba. And besides, kung ako best friend mo, as long as you're happy, then I'm happy for you.

    Pero kudos to your best friend for being brutally honest ah. Hehe.

    As for telling your bf, siguro you can tell him na medyo hindi siya feel ng best friend mo, pero wag mo na lang sabihin yung exact reasons. Hehe.
  • st.angerst.anger PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    show me yours and your bf's pic and let's see if she's right.
  • aba.. pustahan na ito... wala o mayroon. bestfriend mo lang siya. selos lang yun.
  • show me yours and your bf's pic and let's see if she's right.

    Sabi ko na nga ba may magrereply ng ganyan. Hehe. Anyway, thanks for posting a reply. :)

    I think that's beside the point. My bestfriend has formed a judgment. Whatever her reasons are, it's a fact that she thinks that my bf is not right for me. It hurts me that she thinks that way. But how do I not let it bother me?
  • your on the legal age to think. you breathe for yourself. kung magpapa-apekto ka sa bestfriend mo ask mo siya kung sino ang bagay para sa iyo? kakakilala palang niya hinuhusgahan na kaagad niya. baka naman naging sila hindi mo lang alam.
  • baka jealous lang bestfriend mo? siguro wala siyang bf..:glee: kung mabait naman okei lang kahit hindi kagwapuhan..:bungi:
  • st.angerst.anger PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    but seriously, you don't have to tell your bf. just take your best friend's comment with a grain of salt. time will tell if she's right. just prove her wrong.
  • la_bambala_bamba PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    st.anger wrote: »
    but seriously, you don't have to tell your bf. just take your best friend's comment with a grain of salt. time will tell if she's right. just prove her wrong.


    psst.. happy new year..

    happy new year everyone..

    anyways.. you don't need to let people affect you on your decision or whatever kasi you know to yourself what's good and what's not.. new year's resolution, choose the right decision kasi no such thing as right time or right person, it all depends on right decision and conviction :)
  • wazdogwazdog PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    TS, of course you need to take your best friend's comment into consideration. She's your BEST friend right? While there could be the possibility that she's jealous, it is equally likely that you are blinded by puppy love. Listen to any specific criticisms she may have and see for yourself if they're true.
  • lanie_rockslanie_rocks PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Sabi ko na nga ba may magrereply ng ganyan. Hehe. Anyway, thanks for posting a reply. :)

    I think that's beside the point. My bestfriend has formed a judgment. Whatever her reasons are, it's a fact that she thinks that my bf is not right for me. It hurts me that she thinks that way. But how do I not let it bother me?

    The question is, how does your bestfriend know that your guy is not right for you?:confused:

    Isn't she being unfair of judging the person without knowing him that much? She should be happy for you, instead of being overly protective (if that what she's trying to show off)

    I think what you can do here is to have a lil' bonding time with your guy together with your best bud. In that way, your bestfriend may be able to know your guy a lil' bit better and hopefully accepts him as your guy.
  • The question is, how does your bestfriend know that your guy is not right for you?

    Hmm I don't know. Sometimes I feel like I can't share anything with her about my relationship with my bf because she will just argue with me. One time, I told her that my bf is quite the jealous-type, then sabi niya, "Naku, kahit naman magalit yun eh ano naman? Itsura niya noh." Sabi ko na lang, "bad ka..." Tapos sabi din niya "Hindi ko akalain papatulan mo yung ganun..." I wish she could just see that I'm happy and accept it. Hindi naman yun papayag na lumabas kami with my bf. Kakahiya daw. :mecry:
  • ^^ ganu ba siya kapanget and ganu ka kaganda?:confused:

    kilala ba niya boyfriend mo? i mean what's her basis para i-judge niya yung bf mo? if she doesn't have enough basis then maybe, she's just jealous.. siyempre divided na yung attention mo..if she's a real friend she'll accept your decision..hindi niya dapat dictate sayo ang dapat mo gawin dahil ikaw lang naman makakaramdam kung karapat dapat yung bf mo or not..
  • ganu ba siya kapanget and ganu ka kaganda?

    Hehehe hindi po ako maganda. Kaya lang iniisip ko kasi na baka later on, mapapansin na ni bf, iniisip ko kung uunahan ko ba siya na sabihin na hindi siya feel ni bestfriend.
    Yung sa bestfriend ko naman, ganun na talaga sya - frank talaga. Hindi na mababago yun, oo medyo pintasera ang dating pero tinanggap ko siya as ganun. Kung jealous siya, hmmm hindi naman siguro, although brokenhearted siya ngayon. Hindi naman siya yung type na naiinggit.
  • well, that's good kung ganun..siguro hindi lang niya feel talaga bf mo..hehe.. for me, hindi mo na dapat yun sabihin sa bf mo..there are things better left unsaid..ang importante yung kung anu ang iniisip at nararamdaman mo sa kanya..

    sa tingin mo ba may magbabago if ever malaman niya yung sinabe ng bestfriend mo kaya parang natatakot ka?
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  • lanie_rockslanie_rocks PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Hmm I don't know. Sometimes I feel like I can't share anything with her about my relationship with my bf because she will just argue with me. One time, I told her that my bf is quite the jealous-type, then sabi niya, "Naku, kahit naman magalit yun eh ano naman? Itsura niya noh." Sabi ko na lang, "bad ka..." Tapos sabi din niya "Hindi ko akalain papatulan mo yung ganun..." I wish she could just see that I'm happy and accept it. Hindi naman yun papayag na lumabas kami with my bf. Kakahiya daw. :mecry:

    awww.. Just what like you said, your bff already created some sort of judgement to your bf. It'll take time for you to convince her that your guy is the right one for you..

    For a meantime, just take whatever criticism she might throw to your guy, show her that everything will be ok bet. you & him and if you can make a way for them bond with each other, then it'll be much better.
  • Ako feeling ko ngayon lang yan.

    Kahit naman ako before, may boyfriend yung friend ko and ayaw ko sa boyfriend niya. Pero hindi naman dahil sa hitsura. Bad naman kasi yung bf niya dati. Medyo magulo rin relationship nila nun, laging umiiyak friend ko. Very open naman ako sa friend ko kung bakit ayoko sa bf niya and naiintindihan naman niya.

    Alam rin nung bf niya na hindi ko siya feel, so medyo stir clear sya samin pag may get together. Pero ngayon kasi, okay na sila. Nagbago na bf niya and smooth sailing relationship nila. So ako, hindi ko na rin siya hate. Hindi ko pa rin sya super gusto para sa friend ko, pero like I said, masaya naman friend ko so I'm happy for her na lang.

    Just give your best friend time. Magsisink-in din sa kanya yan and she'll realize that your boyfriend isn't so bad. Lalo pa kung makikita niya na masaya ka sa kanya.
  • ganyan talaga ang best friends, protective masyado. nung nakikipagdate pa lang ako sa bf ko, tuwing dumadalaw sya, medyo protective ang mga friends ko...alam kasi nila nangyari sa amin ng ex ko. kahit wala pa kaming 1 month nagdedate sinasabihan na sya na alagaan ako. daig ko pa ang high school dahil bantay-sarado ang mga lakad ko :lol: tuwing nalalaman nila na kasama ko yung guy, tumataas ang kilay nila. but i told them that i know what i was doing and i was just enjoying my time with him. now, they can see me that i'm very much in love and happy with him kaya di na sila kumukontra...plus they can really see how he treats me well.
  • Sino ba ang beauty at sino ang beast?:p

    Seriously now, let him meet your parents and ask for their approval/opinion. Diba may kasabihang my family... myfamily... my family is the most important persons in my life..... Kaya kahit na mahalaga ang opinion ng bestfriend mo mas may timbang ang say ng parents mo and your whole family. :bashful:

    Ako kasi meron akong friend invite ko sa birthday ko kasama niya jowa niya. All my relatives disliked my friend kaya ang ending - banned na siya sa bahay namin. Never saw him again anyways.
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