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Boldness vs. Finessing: Which one wins?

This is the most confusing part of the initial stage, let's settle this once and for all.


When you're finesse. The problem is this:

You will stir doubt and confusion. Since most people fear what they do not understand.


When you're bold. The problem is this:

You will seem needy, clingy and desperate.


So, what is best?

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  • adjust, adjust, adjust what fits

    remember, different women have different tastes

    what works for one doesn't work for the other
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  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mlee1501 wrote: »
    adjust, adjust, adjust what fits

    remember, different women have different tastes

    what works for one doesn't work for the other

    there goes the magic word. *okay*
  • there goes the magic word. *okay*

    Ang problema kasi sir eh yung "first impression" kapag nai-set na yon tapos ka na, kaya hindi pwede yang adjust, pero alam ko possible naman yan, pero diba mas maganda kapag perfect ang galaw mo?..:bashful:
  • jed_allanjed_allan PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    para maging "perfect" ang galaw mo, kilalanin muna yung pagpapakitaan mo ng boldness o pagkademure mo ( nakakatawa yung finessing btw),then,malalaman mo kung alin sa dalawa ang magwowork.

    i dont' understand why you think hindi applicable sa first impression yung sinabi ni blue tracer
  • ka_denizka_deniz PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    This is the most confusing part of the initial stage, let's settle this once and for all.


    When you're finesse. The problem is this:

    You will stir doubt and confusion. Since most people fear what they do not understand.


    When you're bold. The problem is this:

    You will seem needy, clingy and desperate.


    So, what is best?


    if you stir doubt and confusion then you have no finesse. you try, but not successfully.

    if you seem needy, clingy and desperate, then you are. you are not bold, definitely. when you seem to forward, then that's probably bold. crass, but bold.

    so sabit nanaman yung tanong mo totoy.

    and don't use that "people are afraid of what they don't understand" shite. people are afraid of you because you are a pervert and a weirdo who likes kids in a biblical way.
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