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mu, bf/gf, or simply dating....

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I know this is a stupid question but i would shoot it anyway...Me pagkakaiba b kapag, mu, friends & bf/gf?

Kse dis guy im seeing is acting like one,,,, but when i asked him kung he was being friends or nanliligaw sha, sabe nya ligaw daw....
I gave him signs naman n i like him... And im falling for him coz he is so sweet....But when i asked him kung bf/gf n kme, parang yaw nya iconfirm... coz accdg to him, nagiging complicated daw pag me bf/gf based on his previous relationships dat didnt end nicely....:)

he is an ofw and stays here in the phils only for 2 mos....

me patutunguhan *** kme....:)

hehe

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  • yuel0022yuel0022 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    nakupo.. opinyon ko lang ha! pag-isip-isipan mo muna.. ano purpose ng panliligaw niya sayo kung ayaw niyang makipag-relasyon sayo? aba'y ewan ko lang ha... pero tanungin mo muna siya..
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    girl... ang role mo sa tingin ko PAST TIME, or no strings attached
    relationship habol niya
    . :hmm: wala pa siyang deeper feelings para
    mag-COMMIT sa iyo., girl may patutunguhan yan kung MAG-
    COCOOPERATE siya na dapat EXCLUSIVE siya SA IYO
    ., may
    COMMITMENT
    ., kasi pag ganun, may future na kayong napag-
    uusapan... kasi dapat naman talaga yun yung patunguhan ng relationship diba? Kahit you're not sure if you're going to end up with each other pero your working out things to get there:D:D


    wala rin yan sa age.. may kakilala ako early twenties
    pero OMG! As in seriousness talaga yung lalaki sa relationship NILA kahit LONG DISTANCE yun, 2years ng LD relationship plus tuwing uuwi yung lalaki bumibili talaga ng diamond ring every anniv. nila;) alam ng friend ko na talagang
    ONE&ONLY siya, kasi ginagastusan siya talaga-nag-iipon para sa kaniya/ di naman mayaman pamilya ng BF niya, working student pa lang BF niya nun, tapos lalo na ngayon as in working na talaga--tapos ngayon lang sila naging LEGAL sa side ng friend ko(communication nila *snail mail-palihim*/email/ym/webcam/text or call sa cellphone dati) pero side ng BF(accepted na siya-matagal na), may singsing nanamang naghihintay sa friend ko, uuwi yata BF niya.

    Naiingit ako di dahil
    sa nakukuha niya sa BF niya, pero BILIB ako sa relationship nila,
    (long distance??-tapos parehong stressful course nila, at effort DAW ng lalaki mosty communication nila, at ang STRESS lang ng friend ko eh, napaka-conservative BF niya, restricted SOCIAL ACTIVITIES niya, pati ATTIRE/ physical presence ng BF:lol:) parang suwerte ng friend ko sa BF niya, etong friend ko na ito lang ang lapitin ng tukso kasi maganda talaga siya..
    .
  • freshbabe wrote: »
    girl... ang role mo sa tingin ko PAST TIME, or no strings attached
    relationship habol niya
    . :hmm: wala pa siyang deeper feelings para
    mag-COMMIT sa iyo., girl may patutunguhan yan kung MAG-
    COCOOPERATE siya na dapat EXCLUSIVE siya SA IYO
    ., may
    COMMITMENT
    ., kasi pag ganun, may future na kayong napag-
    uusapan.. wala rin yan sa age.. may kakilala ako early twenties
    pero OMG! As in seriousness talaga yung lalaki sa relationship NILA kahit LONG DISTANCE yun, 2years ng LD relationship plus tuwing uuwi yung lalaki bumibili talaga ng diamond ring every anniv. nila;) alam ng friend ko na talagang ONE&ONLY siya, ginagastusan siya-nag-iipon para sa kaniya, to think working student pa lang BF niya nun, tapos lalo na ngayon as in working na talaga--tapos ngayon lang sila naging LEGAL sa side ng friend ko pero side ng BF(accepted na siya-tagal na), may singsing nanamang naghihintay sa friend ko, uuwi yata BF niya.

    Naiingit ako di dahil
    sa nakukuha niya sa BF niya, pero BILIB ako sa relationship nila,
    (long distance??-tapos parehong stressful course nila, at effort DAW ng lalaki mosty communication nila, kumbaga NORMAL pa rin tulog ng friend ko-(pwera kung sa studies) at ang STRESS lang niya napaka-conservative BF niya, restricted SOCIAL ACTIVITIES niya pati ATTIRE/ physical presence ng BF:lol:) parang suwerte ng friend ko sa BF niya, etong friend ko na ito lang ang lapitin ng tukso kasi maganda talaga siya..
    .

    he is not seeing someone... actually, he is very busy with training and his family recently bought a house.... he always texts/calls me everyday and we see each other once a week despite our buzy skeds...

    siguro, from a girls point of view, i just want to know where i stand...
    yun lang naman siguro s akin...

    exclusivity is not an issue, but more of commitment since he will be away for 10 mos...
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    he is not seeing someone... actually, he is very busy with training and his family recently bought a house.... he always texts/calls me everyday and we see each other once a week despite our buzy skeds...

    siguro, from a girls point of view, i just want to know where i stand...
    yun lang naman siguro s akin...

    exclusivity is not an issue, but more of commitment since he will be away for 10 mos...

    i don't know girl, di ka ba na-inspire sa nakwento ko, 2years na LD
    tapos ... yung age pa nila,yung outside factors*family,distance, time difference..

    Kasi iba pa rin yung may communication
    di ba?? For 10 months diba?? Makakatiis ka bang parang almost
    1year siyang di makikipag communicate sa iyo?? Na I'm sure pwede
    naman yata. Yun nga physical presence niya yung WALA.

    Compromise na lang girl, if HE'S NOT INTO COMMITING edi
    let go na... dapat kasi maramdaman mo presence niya kahit'
    di mo siya nakikita.:hmm:
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    saka girl.. akala ko nga di kayo exclusive kasi... sa post mo
    ni hindi kaniya considered as GIRLFRIEND:hmm:. Nagtanong ka
    sa kaniya ... are we GF/BF tinanggihan ka!? Wala pang kuwenta
    rason niya, lahat naman ng relationship if it's not meant to
    be ganun talaga.


    Linawin mo na rin yang status mo, sa buhay niya
    kung ako ginanyan, mawawalan talaga ako ng gana.. i'd feel
    offended tapos maaiinis ako.. eh MAG-ANU TAYO?
    Ano ba ko sa iyo???:lol:
    Niligawan ka nga, nagka gusto ka na't lahat...
    wala ka pa rin pa lang title!:hmm:
  • freshbabe wrote: »
    saka girl.. akala ko nga di kayo exclusive kasi... sa post mo
    ni hindi kaniya considered as GIRLFRIEND:hmm:. Nagtanong ka
    sa kaniya ... are we GF/BF tinanggihan ka!? Wala pang kuwenta
    rason niya, lahat naman ng relationship if it's not meant to
    be ganun talaga.


    Linawin mo na rin yang status mo, sa buhay niya
    kung ako ginanyan, mawawalan talaga ako ng gana.. i'd feel
    offended tapos maaiinis ako.. eh MAG-ANU TAYO?
    Ano ba ko sa iyo???:lol:
    Niligawan ka nga, nagka gusto ka na't lahat...
    wala ka pa rin pa lang title!:hmm:

    Yun n nga eh, i understand n mejo careful sha kse he was hurt in the past, but my point is parang hindi naman ako yung mga previous relationships nya, and i think ganun naman din di b everything is a gamble....
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Yun n nga eh, i understand n mejo careful sha kse he was hurt in the past, but my point is parang hindi naman ako yung mga previous relationships nya, and i think ganun naman din di b everything is a gamble....

    ewan ko girl, baka in the end mag back lash pa sa iyo na...

    patutsadahan ka pa na : eh bakit, di naman kita gf diba? walang tayo.. mga ganung effect girl... lalo na pag tinopak di mo rin masasabi:rolleyes: iba na kasi yung "clear" ang roles niyo sa isa't-isa., kaya mag-isip ka rin... balikan ka na lang niya pag GF (na talaga status mo). Sa 10 months girl, sure naman marami pang mangyayari sa iyo.., baka may makilala ka pang iba... di rason yung nasaktan dati:rolleyes:(please lang?!, sino bang hinde:lol:)
  • lanie_rockslanie_rocks PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Hmmm...

    Sana hindi mo na lang siya tinanong, some guys go "gaga" or pressured whenever a girl asked them about their "status".

    Isa pa, feeling ko, hindi siya seryoso. Ganito lang yan.. A guy whose truly inlove wouldn't think twice about being in a relationship with a girl even if we say he had bad experience from the past..

    Baka mas komportable siya sa ganyan, tipong "no strings attached" kung ako sa'**, sabayan mo lang, enjoy your time with him. Don't take it seriously until he decides to take your so called "relationship" into a deeper level.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Hmmm...

    Sana hindi mo na lang siya tinanong, some guys go "gaga" or pressured whenever a girl asked them about their "status".

    Isa pa, feeling ko, hindi siya seryoso. Ganito lang yan.. A guy whose truly inlove wouldn't think twice about being in a relationship with a girl even if we say he had bad experience from the past..

    Baka mas komportable siya sa ganyan, tipong "no strings attached" kung ako sa'**, sabayan mo lang, enjoy your time with him. Don't take it seriously until he decides to take your so called "relationship" into a deeper level.

    with this post... mahirap mangyari yata na you can't take him seriously, eh lalo na girly sabi mo like mo na nga, mahirap kasi sa tin mga girls na NOT to take things lightly if "feelings" are involved or talagang admiration mo dun sa guy umaapaw.

    So if I were you girly
    i'd stay "plain FRIENDS", na lang. It's for you not to expect too much from him & for HIM to think things through & malay mo eventually ma-develop yung relationship NIYO & HE'LL REALIZE what he's been missing.
    Para girly may option ka lang na "hindi umiikot mundo mo sa kaniya, you can still be available and baka may dumating na guy na seriously will consider you HIS GIRLFRIEND."
  • lanie_rockslanie_rocks PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    freshbabe wrote: »
    with this post... mahirap mangyari yata na you can't take him seriously, eh lalo na girly sabi mo like mo na nga, mahirap kasi sa tin mga girls na NOT to take things lightly if "feelings" are involved or talagang admiration mo dun sa guy umaapaw.

    Yeah, but then again, you have to use your head this time.. Yan kasi ang mahirap sa 'tin mga babae. Pag deeply in-love, hindi na makapagisip ng tama.. :bop:

    Kaya nga your seeking for some advise to help you decide diba? If you think you're being fooled already, then why let yourself be TOTALLY fooled diba? Parang kinuha na nga *** kamay mo, pati ba naman braso ibibigay mo pa?
  • pristonpikerpristonpiker PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    hehehe.. natawa naman ako sa thread na toh.. kulit ah.. nanligaw tapos.. ano un? ayaw makipag relation dahil naging komplikado yung mga nakaraang relationships niya.. interesting.. update naman jan.. :D
  • hehehe.. natawa naman ako sa thread na toh.. kulit ah.. nanligaw tapos.. ano un? ayaw makipag relation dahil naging komplikado yung mga nakaraang relationships niya.. interesting.. update naman jan.. :D

    Hi,

    *** i did was i gave him an ultimatum... like i said we were dating and kissing and those things mean a lot to me.... its either tau or hindi... hehe....

    happy ending naman so far... he chose to be with me... at least for this time kse nga po he will leave in a month...we said i love you's and address each other gf/bf

    i dont know yet if he has plans to stay in touch kapag asa barko n sha...
  • that's called FLIRTING :)

    sweet pero ayaw maging GF
  • that's called FLIRTING :)

    sweet pero ayaw maging GF

    hindi po, gusto ko nga n official kme eh...

    :)
  • it's a typical fling. move on. :lol:
  • aalis na pala yung guy in 2months. maybe he doesn't believe in long distance relationship. that's what you'll both be pag nag abroad na siya ulit.
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