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I have a guy friend and at the same time officemate for about two years now. He is nice and very serious type of guy. We both belong in one circle of friends... at first im not closed to him pero lagi nga lang kasama sa lahat ng lakad. After how many months from the time na ngstart sya sa office, i felt something that I never felt before to my other guy friend... i always look at him in a different way, i became very comfortable being with him (yung tipong feel na feel ko kapag hawak ko kamay nya at kapag katabi ko siya) before i go to sleep naiisip ko sya. then i notice i am falling to him. sobrang hirap kasi ayoko mangyari na ma-fall ako sa kanya kasi nga mgkakaibigan kami but my feelings going stronger as time goes by.. until one day may dumating na bagong staff sa building namin na gusto nya may hurt ng konti pero naisip ko na since gusto nya yung gurl tutulungan ko sya na mapalapit dun sa gurl kahit alam kong may ex-bf yung gurl na mahal nya parin.. isa ako sa tumutukso at ngseset-up ng date sa kanila until i noticed myself na sobrang nasasaktan na pala ako all the while i thought makakatulong sakin yun para nawala yung feelings ko towards him pero hindi ganun yung ngyari:mecry:

Na-end of contract na yung gurl sa office which i expect na kahit wala na yung gurl sa office eh magkakaroon parin sila ng communication (hindi nga me nagkamali) i became very sensitive pagdating sa kanya yung tipong kahit wala me karapatan masaktan at umiyak eh nasasaktan at umiiyak me ng wala syang kamalaymalay.. i can't keep alone my feelings (luv na nga ata ito eh) so i decided na sabihin ko yun sa ibang friends namin na alam kong mapagkakatiwalaan ko (actually lahat ng friends namin alam na, sya nalang ang hindi nakakaalam). He became very quiet if we ask his status with the gurl which i think ganun nya kamahal yung gurl para maging private sya pgdating dun sa gurl.

Now, i have a suitor who is my classmate and crush during my highschool days. I entertain him and give him the chance to court me dahil nagbabakasakali ako na magustuhan ko ulit siya at makalimutan ko yung gusto kong friend.

This is now my questions:

1.) Is it right to entertain my suitor while i have a feelings with my friend?

2.) What would be the best way para ma-fall out of luv ako dun s guy friend ko?

3.) Do you think possible na magustuhan din nya ako or sa movie lang talaga nangyayari yung magkaibigan na nagkakatuluyan?

I really need your advice kasi sobrang nahihirapan na talaga ako kasi habang tumatagal nararamdaman ko na sobrang nagugustuhan ko na siya! Sobrang nahihirapan na ako everytime na kasama at nakikita ko siya... naiinis na ako sa sarili ko....:depressed:

Thanks a lot and sensya sa mahabang message..... God Bless to all!:)

Comments

  • kung iyo ligaw klasmeyt huwak ikaw sagot. alamin iyo talga kung sino mas timbang iyo puso. pak mahal mo pa iyo kaibigan huwak ikaw sagot sa klasmeyt. pak sigurado ka iyo damdamin saka iyo sagot.

    pwede ikaw sabi sa kaibigan mo may ligaw iyo na dati iyo crush. pak matauhan siya... baka ikaw ligaw kaibigan na.

    bili ka akyen benta... cd, dvd at marami pa abubot. ilan order iyo?
  • 1. it's right.. pero kung ala sya aasahan sayo, wag mo na patagalin..
    2. don't feed your feelings.. self control..
    3. possible.
  • go with the flow, but make decisions with your mind and heart.
  • regarding your questions:

    1. no i don't think you should entertain your suitor kung wala ka naman feelings for him. why strung him along kung wala naman siya mapapala later on? spare him the heartache and let him find the right person for him.

    2. kung walang future sa friend mo, then let it go. why be strung along diba? masasaktan ka lang lalo.

    3. pwede naman magustuhan ka rin niya bakit naman hindi? if you are meant to be together, it will happen kahit wala kang gawin.

    goodluck!
  • 1.) Is it right to entertain my suitor while i have a feelings with my friend?
    **i find nothing wrong naman with this, specially if you're decided naman to forget your feelings for the other guy and you have plans of giving this suitor a chance to win your heart. pero kung way mo lang to para di ka mashado masaktan eh tama si marge24, "spare him the heartache and let him find the right person for him."

    2.) What would be the best way para ma-fall out of luv ako dun s guy friend ko?
    **best way?is there such? hehe. for me, it's a call for "mind-over-matters-thingy". kseh if you're dead serious about forgetting whatever romantic feelings you have for this guy, then you'll use your head everytime na he's around instead of your heart. well, this is from experience. i dont know if this will work for you, but it did for me, so God bless kid!

    3.) Do you think possible na magustuhan din nya ako or sa movie lang talaga nangyayari yung magkaibigan na nagkakatuluyan?
    **shempre possible na magfall sha for you. but what i'm not sure of is if you'll end up together. *** ex ko eh ex-bestfriend ko but we did not end up together. he's now married and im now happy w/ my boyfriend. marami pa namang pwedeng mangyari. so don't get yourself too drowned in this situation. ;-)
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    iyesha wrote: »

    These are my questions:

    1.) Is it right to entertain my suitor while i have a feelings with my friend?

    2.) What would be the best way para ma-fall out of luv ako dun s guy friend ko?

    3.) Do you think possible na magustuhan din nya ako or sa movie lang talaga nangyayari yung magkaibigan na nagkakatuluyan?!:)



    1. pwede mong i-entertain ang iyong suitor kahit may feelings ka sa
    iyong friend. sana pareho kayo ng iyong friend na mga babae, noh!

    2. sabihin mo sa iyong friend na durugista ka, sadista ka, mangkukulam,
    mahjongera at lasinggera. papantayan ka kaya?

    3. baka ang movie ay x-rated. juice miyo!

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklita

  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    This is now my questions:

    1.) Is it right to entertain my suitor while i have a feelings with my friend?

    yeah, why not? you're not yet committed to anybody so it's okay. why imprison yourself to the guy you like most? you'll never know one of your suitors eh maging okay ang samahan nyo.


    2.) What would be the best way para ma-fall out of luv ako dun s guy friend ko?

    huwag ka na masyadong close sa friend mo. but since officemate mo sya mahihirapan ka so sa tingin ko huwag ikaw ang mag inititate ng anything. try to meet other guys. malay mo nga may magustuhan ka sa mga suitors mo and that way makakatulong yun for you to get over him basta sure ka na gusto mo talagang maka get over. try to get busy with other things kung nahihirapan ka man na kalimutan sya.

    3.) Do you think possible na magustuhan din nya ako or sa movie lang talaga nangyayari yung magkaibigan na nagkakatuluyan?
    fantasy ba? forget those old love stories and novels na nababasa mo. don't base it sa ganun. this is your life, real life to. but oo possible pero huwag ka umasa. maraming fishes in the ocean.
  • thank you s mga answer nyo... cencya na coz i wasn't able to open my account hir n pinoy exchage for more than a month..

    to update u guys, ndi kna **** cnagot yng suitor ko.. ang lam ko ngyon he is already committed with other gurl.. but bout my ofism8 and frend n gusto ko,eto ndi n *** msyado nguusap i dont know how we end in this kind of situation basta dmating nlng yng time n bigla nlng *** ngkailangan..

    before it happen, ngksama *** ng *** *** dalawa at tlgang sinulit ko yng moment n yun with him (daig p **** nmin ang mg-boyfriend) holding hands while walking, akbay, tpos he buy shirts asking me kng anu bgay s knya atbp. yng tipong alam nmin dlwa n my something ****...nung nghiwalay p *** pkiramdam nmin kulang yng araw nmin.. kinbukasan my pasok s ofis kaso ndi *** ngkita, the following day ngleave ako *** mgasikaso ng papers ko coz i hve plan to work abroad and the next day early in the morning ok n ok ***,dinalhan nya pa me ng cake as breakfast nmin.. we eat lunch together and then i sed "i already hve my passport" he jst reacted after 30 seconds n prang *** *** s knya tpos after nun ndi nya na me kinausap which is ngtaka **** me... after that day nging cold sya skin.ndi nya me msyado pnapansin *** hinayaan ko nlng kc naiicip ko bka my prob ***... until one day he invite our other frends na pmunta s house nla kc my occasion cympre klngan ko sumama and i thought mgiging ok *** dlwa but i was disappointed kc prang ndi ako ngexist dat day kc ndi nya **** me pinansin **** tingnan man ***..but still i tried to understand him...

    until now im still trying to understand him **** ang hirap na.. we hve same circle of frends pro prang ndi n nmin kilala ang isa't isa.. i cant even think kng my ngawa b me n ksalanan s knya but as i remember *** ****!isa *** ang naiisip k ngyon n reason mybe he already know that i like him...

    i dont know *** to do now.. lagi *** ngkikita pero ndi **** *** ngpapansinan. nhihirpan ako s sitwasyon coz we r n the same ofis and were frends.. anu *** dapat kng gawin?tnx po and GODLESS s inyong lhat!
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