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pls i need ur help

pls bear with me.

i've been with Ryan for 5years now. i've been accepted by his family and vice versa. sobrang close ko sa mga kapatid nya, and his 2younger sis trusts me with everything!! in fact, ndi lang accepted, his dad trusts me with everything din. ung dad nya pa e sobrang mapili when it comes to trusting a person; kya i was so happy to find out he trusts me.

ryan's dad left the country for a business trip feb2008, and will be back 2weeks from now (nov 14). before he left, he had asked me a favor. he left me $5,000.00 to keep for emergency pra sa bf ko and his siblings (older bro 28, younger sis 24 and another younger sis 21) just incase they need it. Hindi nman kinailangan ng mga kapatid nya.

My dilemma is, I sorta used $3,000.00 of the $5k their dad left me. Ndi ko alam kng paano ko sasabihin, altho may pamalit nman ako. And prob nga lang is makikita s bank statement na i withdrew money. 4sure mgagalit un. **** ako nman e. i know what i did was sooooo bad. ndi ko lang **** alam ngaun kung paano ko sasabihin. ayko mawala trust nila sken. i value them sooooo much.

pls help me. thank you sooooo much pexers

Comments

  • lifetripperlifetripper Member PExer
    Parang it's a sort of test from your bf's dad. Bakit naman ipagkatiwala sa yo instead of his kids, di ba nya trusted sila. Kaya pwedeng sinusubukan ka nya and you failed the test.

    Palitan mo kaagad ang pera as soon as possible at sabihin mo ang nangyari. The sooner the better. Ask his forgiveness.
  • ka_denizka_deniz bagong buhay ✭✭✭
    ibalik mo lang. ok lang naman magamit mo basta ibabalik mo agad. just tell them it's an emergency.

    basta sabihin mo agad pagdating, dont wait for him to ask you.
  • dragonjointdragonjoint Member PExer
    may kapalit naman pala.ala problem yun.
  • the_icewolfthe_icewolf in the DMZ... PExer
    I sorta used $3,000.00

    never trust women with that kind of money!!! hehehe!!!

    ibalik mo na lang o sabihin mo ng direkta...
  • RetroManilaRetroManila Pushing Daisies PExer
    Sabihin mo ginamit mo.

    At pinalitan mo.

    Problem solved.
  • XxAnGeLxXXxAnGeLxX Member PExer
    ty for all the posts.

    idk if its a test. his kids are trustworthy nman. pero ung oldest has his own family and nag out of the country din. ung 2 youngest sis nman ayaw pumayag na sknila ipatago kc ayaw nila ng responsibility. bf ko nman ayaw dn ng responsibility.

    ang prob is kahit plitan ko, makikita pa din ng father nila na i withdrew $3,000.00. plus he will ask kung bkit ndi ko kaagad sinabi sknya, or nagpaalam man lng.
  • lostsoul17lostsoul17 Member PExer
    maybe pagbalik ng dad ng BF mo, tell him agad what you have done, that you don't want to bother him on his vacation kaya di mo agad sinabi. Tell him its an emergency and you had to make a decision. Kung pwede, tell him also where you used the money. Dapat din syempre napalitan mo na yung money before pa sya bumalik.

    Just be honest. Goodluck.
  • baklitabaklita taas kilay PExer


    kung sa akin ipinagkatiwala ang pera... siguro
    magbakasyon grande rin ako. gagastos ako sa
    spa, sa shopping at sa pagkaing seafoods.

    sarili kong pera ang gagamitin ko, noh!

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklita



  • patogenicpatogenic Member PExer
    pde po ba itanong kung bket un pang perang ipinagkatiwala sau ang ginasta mo kung meron ka naman sarileng pera?... bka nga po mawalan ng tiwala sau ang erpats ng bf mo.
  • XxAnGeLxXXxAnGeLxX Member PExer
    actually naubos na ung savings ko, and hinintay ko lang magbayad sken friend ko that owes me $2,500.00. since i needed the money to pay for bills, un na muna ginamit ko hanggang sa nakabayad na ung friend ko sken last week.
  • patogenicpatogenic Member PExer
    oic... e di ganun n lng po ang ipaliwanag mo... chka lumuhod ka at paagusin ang luha habang humihingi ka ng tawad. :mecry:
  • jerikacasandrajerikacasandra getting out of funk PExer
    it was not your money and you weren't supposed to use that for your own personal needs.

    kung ako ang nagtiwala sayo ng ganyan kalaking pera at di ka man lang magpaalam na kinailangan mong humiram, magagalit talaga ako sayo. kahit pinalitan mo pa yan.

    fact is, hindi ka nagpaalam.

    if i were you, stop pexing right now, deposit the money you borrowed and call your bf's dad. tell him what you did.

    hindi ko maintindihan sayo bakit hindi ka pa nagpaalam. tsktsk. andali sana ngayon ng buhay mo if you had respect enough with your bf's dad, para hindi kunin yung pera sa banko ng walang paalam.
  • tontontonton Let's stop and talk awhile. PExer
    Better flee the country.
  • XxAnGeLxXXxAnGeLxX Member PExer
    grabe nman tonton!
  • tontontonton Let's stop and talk awhile. PExer
    You have no choice but to tell the truth. But don't expect the same old trust will be retained. They'll be thinking "Hindi pala mapapagkatiwalaan to pag dating sa pera."
  • RedhotOneRedhotOne Member PExer
    Trust must be earned. Once it is lost, it is very difficult to regain it. This is so true in our private and professional lives.
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer soundscapes ✭✭✭
    right.. tama naman mga posters. return the money as soon as possible. and tell your bf's dad about it.

    wala.. nakaraan na. nagamit mo na eh.

    saka mo na problemahin kung ano impact niyang pag gamit mo ng pera nila. malay mo, wala. di mo masabi pa eh.

    kung mauwi man sa distrust, then so be it. ganun lang ang buhay.
  • nangyari na ang nangyari. may solusyon ka naman. at may pamalit. pero siguro, next time, baka hindi ka na pagkatiwalaan.

    ako dati, nagpatago ako ng jewelry sa friend ko. wala kasi akong bag non at hindi ako mahilig magsuot ng jewelry. binigay pa yun sakin ng ex-bf ko. tapos mga 1 week, kinukuha ko sa kanya. sabi niya sige, ibibigay ko na next week. nasa manila ako, siya naman sa province. sa sobrang busy ko sa work at pinagkakatiwalaan ko naman siya, hindi ko na nakuha kasi iniisip ko na sa kanya naman. tapos nagresign ako. bumalik ako samin. nagkita ulit kami at paulit-ulit kong kinukuha sa kanya. hanggang sa inamin niya sakin na sinanla nila yung bracelet ko. sinanla nila yung bagay na hindi naman sa kanila. syempre, nagalit ako. sabi ko hindi naman akin yon at ibabalik ko na sana yun sa ex ko. nakakuha sila ng Php 10,200. ngayon, wala naman silang pambayad at ang masaklap pa don, yung mama niya e ang laki ng utang sa mama ko. nakakainis. nakakainis yung mga taong mahilig gumamit ng pera o ng bagay na hindi naman kanila. well, yung nangyari sa akin e may similarity sa situation mo. yun nga lang, ikaw ang nanloko at hindi ako. galit ako. at ngayon, never ko na sila pinagkakatiwalaan. kahit Php 1 pa.

    napalaking bagay niyan. sa tingin ko, hindi ka kayang pagkatiwalaan kahit sa maliliit na bagay. kung sa malaking bagay nagawa mo. pano pa kaya sa maliliit na bagay. sorry pero nagsasalita lang ako dun sa side ng daddy ng bf mo.
  • XxAnGeLxXXxAnGeLxX Member PExer
    i completely understand all the comments. im glad all of ur comments makes perfect sense.
  • RedhotOneRedhotOne Member PExer
    Ganyan talaga kapag pera na ang pinaguusapan. I can't explain it fully but, for some people, money makes them do irrational things which often leads to broken relationships. This happens even among close family members.

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