Online dating experiences... or outcomes ^^
what do you guys think about online dating/ finding your "true love" online.
any relationships developed through the net? serious or not, or maybe... even sexual encounters and fantasies fulfilled through the net.
hahaha.. care to share anyone?
kasi may kakilala ako nabuntis by someone she met online... you think it's still safe to try this online thing? kasi usually pgdating ng EB.. things get out of control
what do you think?
any relationships developed through the net? serious or not, or maybe... even sexual encounters and fantasies fulfilled through the net.
hahaha.. care to share anyone?
kasi may kakilala ako nabuntis by someone she met online... you think it's still safe to try this online thing? kasi usually pgdating ng EB.. things get out of control
what do you think?
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present BF ko nameet ko thru philslove,com.. 3 months na kami :love:
i agree with cheska, u jst have to be careful and smart... or safe
But then I found out that he already has a son, which he kept from me. It's no biggie if he has a son. He should have told me at first.
Anyway, what a waste!
oh boy.
till now, nagchachat pa rin ako pero sa mga kakilala ko na lang personally..
Too bad, he pretends he is a lawyer too. he pretends to be 25 or 26 years old but he's already 31. He's actual name is Jose ata. Be careful!
Advice ko lang to those who want to EB with someone for the first time: please don't do it alone... bring a trusted friend along with you. As they say, "there is safety in numbers."
He's a jerk.
the guy's in dubai and the girl is here in the phils. they were chat-mates for several months. when the guy went home to have a one-month vacation in the country, they met and copulated in a local hotel.
the guy flew back to dubai and never spoke again to the girl. a few months later, girl finds out she's pregnant. the girl didnt even know the guy's family and where he lives so she had no way of informing his family about the complication.
her kid's about 3 years old now --- not knowing the other half of his bloodline.
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it's nice to know people who meet their beloved via the internet or text-messaging -- im one of them. i met my bf coz of an online game.
BUT we have to make sure that we know the person really well before diving in deeper to avoid things like this.
there are a lot of POSERS and LIARS out there. one can pretend to be another person without us knowing it.
kung yung mga nag meet nga in person na, nagkasama na kahit papano, nag abroad lang ang isa.. nauwi lang sa ldr, ang laki na ng mortality, ano pa kaya sa online dating..?
convenient nga itong online.. meron siguro naging successful ang relationship, eventually. pero palagay ko lang, mas marami ang hindi.
malaki ang tendency dito na i-magnify ang sarili at personality. hindi mo kilala ang nasa kabila eh.. ilang percent lang doon ang totoo sa sinasabi ng kabila? how can you be sure?
pag nag meet na kayo in person, papano kung malaki ang gap between sa 'assessment' mo sa actual (upon meeting up) at doon sa 'nakasanayan' mong assessment based on your previous chats alone? o vice versa naman.. ikaw naman ang 'sablay' sa tingin niya?
a waste of time, isnt it? iba pa rin ang 'live'.. sa first few days pa lang kahit papano nandoon na yun 'feel'.. matatantiya mo na doon halus kung worth it ba na 'tumuloy' pa kayo o hindi.
ang mahirap tantiyahin sa online dating ay yung pag nag 'invest' na kayo ng feelings.. pag meet ninyo, wala pang 50% pala ang totoo doon sa mga sinabi ninyo. naloko na
mahirap na.. mabuti sana kung yung nasa kabila recommended ng isa mo ring kakilala.. yun, puwede pa siguro.
peace