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may gusto kang maging friend

guys, naxperience nyo ba na may classmate or kakilala or schoolmate or whatever ka na guy or girl na gusto mong maging friend (hindi crush ah).. kaya lang wala kayong chance para maging friends? share naman kayo ng stories nyo... u want him/her na friend kasi gaan ng feeling mo sa kanya or bilib ka sa kanya due to his intelligence, talent, rich, etc...

ako, madali akong makipagkaibigan pag classmate mo, kasi may mapag- uusapan kayo like "ano nga bro/ miss assignment natin? at first, classmate tawag mo sa kanya then few weeks/ days, friends na kayo..

pero pag neighbor, na wala talaga connection, hirap makipagkaibigan.. unless friend ko ang frend niya at ipakikilala kami...
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  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    pang LCM to ah :glee:
  • chevy_camaro23chevy_camaro23 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^^ yan nga den nasa isip ko parpol, naunahan mo lang ako magcomment.. :lol:
  • ok eh di ilipat, calling mods. :glee:
  • I can relate. May mga tao akong madali kong makagaanan ng loob but there are some circumstances na di talaga maiiwasan.

    RIght now, dito sa office, I have good teammates in a professional sense. PAg may mga tanong ako about our processes, they give answers. Pero hindi sila yung mga taong hindi ko mapagkuwentuhan ng personal stuffs.

    Yung mga taong gusto kong maging ka-close pa, eh hindi naman ko naman ka-teammates. :( Kaya kapag may mga events kami sa work, dun lang ako nakakapag-mingle sa kanila.
  • ermonskiermonski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    yung crush ko sa school gusto kong maging kaibigan hehe (diba bawal nga crush? hehehehe pero di maiwasan eh hehe)

    kelangan bago matapos tong sem makapagpakilala na ako sa kanya!!!!

    argh ermonski torpe mo! *bangs head*

    anyways

    nung first year college ako... gaan ng loob ko sa kanila noon, saya nilang kausap tsaka madaling lapitan...

    now they're the best bunch of friends I've ever had... joking, power-tripping, making noise and drinking buddies hehe
  • einhandereinhander PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    is it alright for a person to exert an effort to befriend a person from opposite sex? wouldnt that sound like you like to court her?
  • ^ it's alright... merong tao na ex. guy , nakikipag- friend sa girl pero wala siyang gusto dito... & vice- versa...

    one factor siguro, "awa".. siguro napapansin nung guy na loner si babae or si girl na loner si lalaki kaya kinakaibigan nila ito... pero wala silang gusto dito...

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    ako , may gusto kong maging friend yung:

    1. guy na lagi kong nakikita sa bilyaran dito.. mukhang mabait
    2. yung girl na kalugar namin at madalas kong kasabay pababa papuntang waiting shed.. mukhang mabait..
    3. yung guy na nagtitinda ng chicharon.. high school pa ata ito.. mukha kasing mabait.. at wala sa itsura na mahirap..
    4. yung girl na kilala ko sa mukha, pareho kasi kami suki dito sa internet cafe..

    at marami pang iba... :glee:
  • may kasabihan nga, kung sino ang mga nakikilala mo, ayun ang handog sayo ng diyos , na nararapat sayo at magbibigay sayo ng gandang aral sa buhay...

    for me, it's not true...
  • sa office, one of my subscriber, masayang kausap and mabango kaso lang, i was deployed to another branch thus, i don't see him anymore.

    ung classmate ko na maraming kwento anything under the sun, nakakatanggal ng stress but no longer have communication..
  • ermonskiermonski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    einhander wrote: »
    is it alright for a person to exert an effort to befriend a person from opposite sex? wouldnt that sound like you like to court her?

    that's what I'm trying to do hehe... but me is scared
  • well i have the same desire pero lumipas na. she was a trainee back then and i like to be friends with her kasi nakikita ko na mabait siya, matured mag-isip and mukhang makakasundo ko. kaya lang wala na siya sa company so hanggang dun na lang siguro talaga yun :)
  • Saw & Perz wrote: »
    may kasabihan nga, kung sino ang mga nakikilala mo, ayun ang handog sayo ng diyos , na nararapat sayo at magbibigay sayo ng gandang aral sa buhay...

    for me, it's not true...

    quote ko lang, usually it's not true
  • naalala ko yung classmate ko sa college my complete opposite kasi pag manamit astig spike ang buhok then may buntot sa dulo but not for any reason i simply liked her so I befriended her kahit at that time she had a best friend na ask pa nga ako ng bf ko that time why i wanted her to be a friend baka ma BI pa ako

    ayun we became friends at sya ang na influence ko and the next sem she was lady like na at a pretty one at that. pati bf ko nagulat galing ko daw :lol:

    sad to say after college we drifted apart i believe we met friends in different parts of our journey but when u developed different interests it is time to move on

    parang sa mag asawa di ba sometimes a couple simply discovered that one day they no longer have something in common except kids that bind them - but of course this view is for another thread :lol:
  • minsan kasi, it is hard to befriend someone, lalo na kung wala talaga kayong connection...

    I tried to befriend our new neighbor July of last year pa...eh ano na ngayon? April na...

    Pano naman kasi, pag nasa labas siya, may ginagawa naman ako, pag nasa labas ako, wala naman siya.
  • blue_03 wrote: »
    minsan kasi, it is hard to befriend someone, lalo na kung wala talaga kayong connection...

    I tried to befriend our new neighbor July of last year pa...eh ano na ngayon? April na...

    Pano naman kasi, pag nasa labas siya, may ginagawa naman ako, pag nasa labas ako, wala naman siya.

    i definitely agree,*okay*

    if u dont hav common friends ng neighbor mo na pwdeng magintroduce sa inyo, it's hard. buti kung mga kiddos na neighbors loang kau na after a few seconds, kalaro mo na.
  • einhander wrote: »
    is it alright for a person to exert an effort to befriend a person from opposite sex? wouldnt that sound like you like to court her?

    uhmm it depends. just try to be natural, hinde yong masyadong suggestive ang dating mo. tsaka, depends din yan sa interpretration ng opposite sex.
  • ako naman, i don't really try to befriend someone. i just go on with the flow, so to speak...
  • hello guys! i think it depends sa situation eh. but i really believe in "fate". it happens na lang. kumbaga, may dahilan ang lahat. i mean nakatadhana na ang lahat... ang p'wede mong makilala, nakilala at makikilala pa. but it's safe to say din na it's how you "play or draw the ball". i mean it wouldn't hurt much to show some guts and courage to befriend with someone you really like.... what matters the most is the first official "hello" - a very nice introduction and conversation. "connection" of course also matters. but then 'yun nga, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. if it's gonna work out then it's meant to happen.... :) besides, may timing ang lahat.

    one more thing, i realized too that we rarely regret the actions we take regardless of how they turn out, but often regret the things we didn't do, the things we wished we had done....

    say you want to befriend with him/her/them.. "don't be afraid to introduce yourself. kasi in the first place, paano nga magkakaroon ng connection kung wala namang effort?" hindi ba? dapat may action. do what you want to do. and make a commitment, yeah. commitment. :) carpe diem-seize the day! ;)

    based on my experience naman, i've had some friends na never in my whole life i imagined na magiging acquaintance ko and now can be considered close friends, too. and i'm proud of that. :) it just happenned. kaboom! fate was one reason, of course. though it wasn't easy at first but in the end, nag-swak na lang lahat, i think. trust and support are two real deals kasi eh. very important 'yun to build a strong foundation, especially sa friendship.

    the best thing about this whole experience kasi, you meet a lot of people, but only a few will bother to "stop, talk, and listen" to you. right? but it doesn't guarantee rin na this few people will stay there like forever... labo! haha. :) but i read it somewhere: you don't need to have a gazillion friends to be happy... in fact many of the friends you have (especially if you are popular) are not "true" friends. 4 or 5 close friends is really all you need. err... true indeed. aawww! :) so how's that? 'nuff said. *okay*
  • sa school may isa akong gustong maging friend kasi unang una maganda cya haha. Nakikisit in siya lagi sa class pero wala akong chance makilala siya since lagi nya kasama friends niya.

    One time nung high school may gustong gusto ako makilalang babae pero hanggang makagraduate ako di no kakilala. Pero pagabot ko college naging kaklase ko tapos yung nakilala ko hehe twist of fate.
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