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MY story:.. I met this guy from work started from just a simple hi to having lunches together to talking and then finally resisting the urges of my superego, we did get intimate. only problem: he is married, with kids.
I feel like i'm trapped. i'm at the end of the spectrum and it's just too hard to fathom how i got into this mess. I feel like I am falling in love with him and I just don't know what to do.
He is very inlove with his family or i would guess the idea of being in a secure relationship all so loved and accepted by society but our passion is just mind blowing.
gusto ko lang malaman ang opinion ninyo, advise ninyo criticism ninyo.help!!!!:(
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  • definitely that is a BIG NO-NO kind of relationship...:eek:

    i also had a relationship with a guy before who has two children
    but he is not married with the girl, kya mdyo malakas ang loob q...
    preggy pa yung girl nun when we had r relationship...
    but then, i did the initiative to stop watever goin on between us...

    jst thnk of dis scenario: wat f n d future, ur husband will do d same thing?
    will you be able to survive it?...

    jst consider the welfare of the children...

    but then sometimes, its really hard to resist such kind of feelings,
    but u can find ways and reasons f u r really decided to end it up...

    hay...nmiss q 2loy c ex, he..he.. :D

    but that is a serious problem, coz it involves children...

    nk2long b q??? :hmm: o lalong nkgulo???:hmm:
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Why are you trapped? All you need to do is END IT and BE FIRM about it.

    Ikaw lang din masasaktan in the long run because he is NEVER leaving his family for you. Why do you even want a guy you have to share with someone?

    You'll be able to find passion with someone better.

    Alam mo naman gagawin eh. Ayaw mo lang makinig sa sinasabi ng utak mo.
  • ~gIrLnXtDoOr~~gIrLnXtDoOr~ PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    better stop it while you still can. it'll be for your own good.

    pero kahit na ano pang opinion, cristicism at advice ang i-post dito ng mga tao to help you, the decision is still up to you.

    try mo basahin to so you'll have an idea what's in the mind of the women na tinanggap at pinanindigan ang pagiging kabit:

    http://www.pinoyexchange.com/forums/showthread.php?t=121920
  • skichick wrote: »
    MY story:.. I met this guy from work started from just a simple hi to having lunches together to talking and then finally resisting the urges of my superego, we did get intimate. only problem: he is married, with kids.
    I feel like i'm trapped. i'm at the end of the spectrum and it's just too hard to fathom how i got into this mess. I feel like I am falling in love with him and I just don't know what to do.
    He is very inlove with his family or i would guess the idea of being in a secure relationship all so loved and accepted by society but our passion is just mind blowing.
    gusto ko lang malaman ang opinion ninyo, advise ninyo criticism ninyo.help!!!!:(

    HUWAAAATTTT????? Lagot ka, isusumbong kita, makonsyensya ka naman :bop:

    :lol: sumisilip lang po... o sige na, off topic na ako :rotflmao:
  • Skichick ikaw lang ang makakatulong sa sarili mo. You know yourself what is the sensible thing to do. You just need confirmation from others that what you are doing is wrong. Read the thread similar to this okay.
  • ...YES OR NO???..is it the SEX??..is it that good??
    hey u need to go out and try 2 date other single men
    ..who are not involve with someone else.. why buy
    a whole cow..when you can get it by the kilo..
    mabigat kaagad karga mo sa umpisa palang..
    keep this in mind..you think he will choose you over
    his wife and kids???HMMM???nooottt.. JUST THINKING
    OUT LOUD..:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: YOU DECIDE..
    ..YOU HAVE THE LAST SAY..ITS YOUR CHOICE..*okay*
  • Madaling sabhin mahirap gawin....
    Ang pinkamasaklap iba kung ikukumpara ang passion na dulot nitong relasyong ito sa akin. I strive to be better each day. I feel like I'm a new person.
    Ang hirap kasi number one, magkatrabaho kami. WE see each other everyday. I have worked so hard for this job and I can't leave this job just to avoid him.
    Number two: He is just so perfect..... or not, which makes me want him more......
    Number three: I tried to break up a couple times in the past, kaya lang siya ang gumagawa ng paraan para magkabalikan kami.
    Talaga lang ***** siguro ako, mali ang taong iniibig ko. o mali ang pagakakataon....gulong gulo ako....:depressed:
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    skichick wrote: »
    He is very inlove with his family or i would guess the idea of being in a secure relationship all so loved and accepted by society but our passion is just mind blowing.
    gusto ko lang malaman ang opinion ninyo, advise ninyo criticism ninyo.help!!!!:(

    passion as in lust :p

    learn to differentiate muna, ala lang pero gusto ko talagang sabihin na "may gana ka pa talagang mag sentimeyento :bop: "

    but then sige, i'll do my best to understand you more, the thing lang is alam mo na from the start na may asawa, bat ka pa kumagat. at since mahala pala niya family nya, ano yun, ikaw nag entice sa kanya? :shrug:

    siguro nga great sex can be too hard to just forego pero isip-isp na din siguro :p
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐


    huthutin mo na lang ang lalake na yan.
    may pamilya tapos kumekerengkeng pa.
    member ba sya ng pex... at tadtarin ko
    ang kanya ng pino-pino. hudas talga, noh!

    kung makisabi ka... peste rin kalabasan mo...

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklita

  • i think you're matured enuf to think about it...

    wag naman puro puso ang pairalin,...:angry:

    place yourself naman poh dun sa wife ng 'like/love' moh... what if malaman nia na [sorry for the word] nilalandi moh asawa nia, mas malaki problema pa ang papasukin moh, kea habang maaga pa, end whatever relationship you have with him.. :bop:

    gusto moh bang matawag kang KABIT???

    nagtatrabaho ka pa naman & u act like an unprofessional.... eeewwww
  • ..dami dami mo ginamit words 2 describe him..involve sa family
    ..perfect..mind blowing..atbp.. gumising kana umaga na at papasok kapa..bka malate ka..
    you imagine yourself na ikaw ang asawa nya..aminin mo..sorry ha
    truth hurts..ilan na na boyfriend mo??sbi mo he makes you feel young n alive 2 that effect..naku!! sarap nga yan kahit bawal n against all odds
    but...sakin ha!!BIKTIMA kalang..you think mahal ka talaga n ikaw lang
    besides d wife??m sure dami kyo sa work..deadma sya sa trabaho n tago tago kayo..tma na..inis nko..:grrr: :grrr: :grrr:
    KUNG UNFAITHFUL SYA K WIFEY..SA IYO PA???:bashful:
    WAKE UP CALL!!!




    ..PEACE TAYO..;) ;)
  • hi skichick... i'm in the same situation. the thing is pinilit lang sya magpakasal and he never loved the girl kaya nagloko sya. i told him to go back to his wife and son pero ayaw talaga nya. then nalaman ng wife nya yung tungkol samin, inaway ako sa text. nung nalaman ni bf ko na inaaway ako ng asawa nya, inaway nya ang asawa nya and sinabi nyang tigilan na daw ako.





    :flower:
  • you know what to do... you should stop this stupidity... ikaw ang talunan dito.

    fake it till you make it... it wont be easy but you will eventually get over him.

    bakit naman kasi pumatol ka pa... alam mo namang may asawa and anak na yan.
  • waterwellwaterwell PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    more or less alam mo naman ang mali sa relationship nyo. so di na kita igi-grill about that. so enjoy mo na lang kasi katulad ng ibang relasyon na mababaw ang foundation, di rin yan magtatagal. kaya todo enjoy mo na lang at wag ka magpapabuntis!
  • Men, if you see it in a way that he is just using you. I wouldn't be that hard... Having another woman is just boosting a male ego. You're making him feel like he's Brad Pit or equivalent. So, he won't let you go and let you linger in suffering. Until you realize that you're mistaken.

    Ako na lang?
  • Advice from someone who's been in your shoes: end it now, while you still can and while you're not in too deep. If you prolong it it will only be much harder. Mahirap gawin, but you have to give yourself some respect. If he really loves you, he'll make things right before he goes into a relationship with you. If he stays with his family, then it just means he's not really for you and you saved yourself a lot of trouble, heartache and wasted time. End it, it's what's best for all parties involved. Goodluck!
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐


    masarap talaga ang bawal, noh!

    kung enjoy ka sa kasalanan mo... alam naman ng lahat
    na nasa huli ang pagsisisi. ilang supling ang hindi mo
    maplano ang kaya mo?

    di ka laang mabansagang kabit... querida pa, mang-aagaw
    ng asawa na may asawa, homewreaker, kontrabida, parausan,
    the other woman, disgrasyada, etc...

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklita



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  • jharrrdy wrote: »
    hi skichick... i'm in the same situation. the thing is pinilit lang sya magpakasal and he never loved the girl kaya nagloko sya. i told him to go back to his wife and son pero ayaw talaga nya. then nalaman ng wife nya yung tungkol samin, inaway ako sa text. nung nalaman ni bf ko na inaaway ako ng asawa nya, inaway nya ang asawa nya and sinabi nyang tigilan na daw ako.


    :flower:


    You are not in the same situation.

    Ikaw, ayaw na ng bf mo doon sa asawa niya.

    Siya, yon bf is very inlove with his family.

    Pareho lang kayong mistress, but in different situation.
  • ang mga kabit nga naman, have some self respect! kumuha kayo ng lalakeng WALANG asawa noh. married=off limits. makonsensya naman kayo...
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