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guys what do u think about my ex bf?

hello there!
i have an ex boyfriend kase..1 year and a half na kaming wala,pero may gf na sya ngayon and 7 months na sila..nagkikita pa ren kami minsan kase yung mga kakilala ko ay kakilala nya ren..Kaya pag nagkikita kita kame syempre kwentu kwentuhan..So lage nyang binibida or kinukwento yung gf nya sa amin as in walang time na hinde nya binibida or nababanggit yung gf nya ngayon keyso maganda raw blah blah blah,basta halos lahat ng pangyayari sa kanila ata kinukwento nya samen,,in short bukang bibig nya yung girl..To be honest,nasasaktan pa ren ako pag naririnig kong kinukwento nya n ung gf nya,minsan nga i make myself busy para kunware d ko naririnig kwento nya para kunwari hinde na ko affected kase na hu hurt talaga ako pero konte lang naman,,hehehe!
One time nagkita ulet kame so as usual rinig ko nanaman na nagkukwento sya about sa gf nya tapos nabanggit nya na ikakasal na raw sila..Ewan ko ba ganon yun kahit hinde naman namin sya tinatanong..After nun niyaya nya ako na mag usap daw kami.So pumayag naman ako..Bale nakikipag balikan sya sa kin,so bale hinde ako pumayag kase nga sa mga kwento nya parang love na love nya talaga yung gf nya ngayon kasi obvious naman dahil bukang bibig nya yung girl.Ang sabi ko lang may bf na ako para wala ng mahabang paliwanagan at usapan pa.

Bale ang tanong ko po,,ano sa tingin nyo ang ibig nyang sabihin sa ganon?Lage nyang kinukwento ung gf nya tapos nakikipag balikan naman sa akin? As in hinde daw nya itutuloy ang kasal nila pag pumayag daw ako na magkabalikan kami..Nakakalito diba?Tapos after 2 weeks nagkita kita ulet kami ng common friends namin,as usual bida nya ulet yung gf nya.eh diba kung talagang willing syang makipag balikan sa kin dapat hinde na nya babanggitin ung girl..Kase sa totoo lang medyo nasasaktan ako pag naririnig kong nagkukwento nanaman sya about dun pero as in never ko talagang pinapahalata.

Ano sa tingin nyo guys ang ibig nyang ipahiwatig sa ganong sistema? as in hinde ko talaga sya ma gets..nakakalito ehhh...hehe! tnx a lot po!
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  • paselos lang yun.
    mamili ka: 1. balikan mo siya. 2. laruin mo rin siya ie paselosin mo rin. (i dont like this approach) 3. ignore mo lang ang paselos. and ask your friends to tell him what he was doing was childish. hopefully he'll - be more sensitive to your feelings; regroup and get his acts together; and court you again.

    bakit ba kayo nagbreak?
  • double posts
  • thank u dr. fail ha..
    bat kami nag break? hmmm bale sya ang nakipag break saken kase masyado daw akong selosa na i think nasa lugar naman yung pagselos ko..
    sa ngayon nagseselos pa ren ako pag nagkukwento sya ang kaibahan lang sa ngayon ay hinde na ako nagrereact hinde katulad noon nung kami pa.kase naman obvious naman diba na wala na akong karapatan magselos..huhu!
    any comment po?!!!tnx!
  • Without knowing the other side of the coin, it's hard to tell who's at fault in your failed relationship. Pero nakaksira talaga ang sobrang selos sa relation. If you were a typical selosa, then what you have done was just drove him away from you and into the arms of his current gf. But then he realized that he still loves you.

    So do you want to take him back?
    Pagusapan ninyo muna ang root cause ng break up ninyo - jealousy. Was your jealousy with or without cause?

    If with cause (meaning player siya?), then it's up to you to decide of whether to take him back.

    If without cause, then you're one lucky lady he wants you back. BUT you should work on getting your jealous rage under control.

    If you're through with him, then you may want to consider the advice I gave you earlier.

    Lastly, dont let the pressure of being dateless in the upcoming V-Day cloud your thinking and judgement :) Think things thru
  • only mean one thing, your ex is an a**hole. he's just playing with the other girl and you. he doesn't care how other feels. forget him... :bop:
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    paasa siya, paselos, wag mo na balikan, gagawin ka lang niyang ego booster/fan.
  • ubermenschubermensch PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    whether sobra ang pagkaselosa mo o hindi ay ibang usapan na kasi nag-break na naman kayo.

    pero if he said he will stick with his current gf but leave her once you agree to take him back, that speaks volumes about his character. deep down he may really want to go back to you, but he's still a jerk with the way he's doing things.
  • thanks a lot guys! lahat ng sinabi nyo ay posibleng tama..ewan ko ba ***** ren kase ako e,,parang bumalik yung loob ko sa kanya simula nung makipag balikan sya..pero pinipigilan ko naman emotion ko pag nakikita ko sya,,as in d ko pinapahalata na may feelings pa ko sa kanya..pero ill try my best...dapat na nga akong mag move on and forget him...huhuhu!
  • hmmm... Selfish ang ex mo! wag mo na balikan! He even toyed with another girl just to make you jealous or sommething... forget about him! That ain't fair!

    Kaya mo yan... mag move-on... same thing im telling myself every freaking day! :depressed:
  • just a question, have you asked him why he wanted you back (or what's wrong in his current relationship)?
  • pinagseselos ka nun... wag mo na balikan




    :flower:
  • oo nga e pinagseselos talaga ako..hmpt!
    kaya daw nya ako gustong balikan kase mas mahal pa ren daw nya ako,mahirap daw pala ung ganon na ung gf nya nga daw kasama nya pero ako naman daw ang nasa isip nya(possible nga ba yun?) tapos sabi nya pa wala daw dumaan na monthsary nila na di raw sila nag aaway..Pero bat ganon pag yung common friends namen ang kausap nya hinde nya nababanggit ung mga sinabi nyang yun sa akin...Haay kaasar talaga lungkot ng valentine's ko...kainis kase ang tagal kong makapag move on...huhuhu!

    www.friendster.com/cehz26
  • ^yan ba friendster nung gf nya ngayon. hahaha para namang magseselos ka dun sa itsura nya diba? pero kung sabagay, medyo nakakainis nga na malaman na ganun lang ipinalit sa yo... Suggestion ko na lang sayo ay tawanan mo na lng ang sinapit nya sa kamay ng gf nya ngayong mukhang ( insert your least favorite bovine animal here
  • ngeeeeek! friendster ko kaya yun...hehheheheheh! pinatawa mo ako...alam ko chaka ako...huhuhu!:lol:
  • heheh..tnx sa mga nag message sa friendster ko,,hinde naman daw ako chaka..hahaha!thanks po!
  • @Wiggle It: napatawa mo ako ahh..:glee:

    @prinsesa2007: *peace*
  • don't waste your time to a man like this ngayon pa lng he's being unfaithful na two timer tung mokong na 'to, for sure tinitest ka lang rin nya kung sasakyan mo mga sinasabi nya sayo.
  • correct, ego booster lang yan. alam kasi nya na selosa ka noon kaya tinitignan nya kung selosa ka pa rin. at ng hindi ka nagrereact sa pagbibida nya sa gf nya eh he test the other way around. Nung sinabi nyang gusto nya makipagbalikan, im sure he is waiting for u to ask kung bakit binibida nya parati gf nya kung ikaw pa rin mahal nya.

    Once u asked that question, alas ur trapped.
  • yup hindi ko na sya tinanong ng kung ano pa man basta ang sinabi ko na lang ay may bf na ako kahit wala pa...Buti na lang ren pala at pinigilan kong tanungin sya... :D
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^^but isn't saying may bf ka na kahit wala pa naman more like a deception? won't it affect him more na ayaw mo talaga sa kanya if you tell him wala ka pang bf but you still don't want him around just the same?
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