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Very strict and seloso BFs

girls, please share your opinions, feelings and experiences. many of my friends say this is one of the biggest turn-off or most hated issue of girls when in a relationship.
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  • hahaha!! ur right!!.. before ganun ung probs namin ng bf ko.. ngayon,, ako na ung super selosa!.. hehehe.. :P
  • torch'dtorch'd PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    does it bother you a lot when un pinag aawayin nyo? ung nakakasakal na...
  • csmarycsmary PEx Rookie ⭐
    The last bf i dumped before i became free again was very insecure and seloso. He thinks he's the master franchise holder of good time. One of the good things about our relationship tho was that we tell each other whenever we go solo to any event, be that a concert, party, seminar or going to church. Most times he wont allow me. I've just had it with him. First thing I did was celebrate with my kachikas. I even got drunk eh, and I was only on my second bottle. Mahina ako sa booze. :eyecrazy: :dazzler: *party*

    Take note of that boys !!!!! :lol:
  • torch'dtorch'd PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    hehehe! goood thing you we're able to realize how much fun you were missing. sometimes the problem being in such a relationship is you wont be able to go out and have some clean fun. you lose having a chance being able to enjoy the company of others. even if we are in a relationship we should have our own identity, do the things we want and remember that there is life outside the two of you. *okay*

    how about the others..care to share your experiences and opinions.
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    awa mg Diyos wala pa naman ako naging bf na ganyan..pero yeah, corny nga ang ganun, parang wala ng tiwala. the most an ex did to me was pinilit ako pagbihisin kse naka backless ako :glee:
  • ayos lang yang pagiging seloso... as long as hindi ka niya pinagbubuhatan ng kamay...
  • Nakakaasar talaga ya. Yung BF ko medyo seloso. LDR kasi kami. Minsan na-mention ko lang sa kanya na kumain kami sa labas num male cousin nya kung ano na inisip. Kainis. Told him na he has to learn how to trust me kasi hindi naman madali ang LDR. Kung hindi... ewan ko na lang. :D
  • i once had a bf super seloso up to the point na pinapalipat nya ako ng branch kasi may lalaki daw sa branch namin (heller! pahanapin ba ako ng all girls na branch? chaka as if naman eh maiiwasan ko magkaroon ng officemate na lalaki.)

    gusto nya pag alis ko sa bahay sakto lang ang dating ko sa opis. pag napaaga sasabihin nya may sumundo sa akin kaya maaga ako.

    pag late naman ako nakauwi sasabihin nya may kikitain ako.. dapat 530pm sakto ang out ko sa opis. at oorasan nya ang uwi ko.. pag nalate mega away na..

    hay hay hay.. after 5mos na naging ganun sya.. ah eh iniwan ko nga.. tama na ang pagtitiis at pagiintindi *okay*
  • jharrrdyjharrrdy PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    bf ko ngayon sobrang seloso...

    ~practicumer kasi ako sa restaurant where he works, sa kitchen naman sya regular employee. nauuna sya mag-out sakin so pag ganun umuuwi sya tapos sinusundo ako. one time nasa back area kami nung co-barista ko. eh pinagseselosan nya yun nang walang dahilan. nakita nya kami nakaupo.. ni hindi nga kami magkadikit nun. nagkukwento lang sya about sa away nilang mag-asawa. eh sumilip si bf. nakita nya kaming nag-uusap aba ni-f?ck you ba naman ako! gigil na gigil sya at minura pa ako. tandaan ko daw ang ginawa kong yun. sabi ko hello? bawal bang may kausapin akong lalake? to think na barista kami pareho alangan namang di kami mag-usap.

    ~same guys... pag nasa bar area kami nung pinagseselosan nyang guy, mega titig yun samin, kung ano ginagawa namin. eh syempre kelangan teamwork dun noh. pwede bang hindi magpansinan?!

    ~kasama ako sa outing nila... syempre singit lang ako dahil practicumer lang ako. on the way na kami, may katext akong male friend na sinabi ko lang na may night swimming kami nun. nagalit naman itong si bf. bakit kailangan ko pa daw ipaalam dun sa katext ko lahat ng pupuntahan ko. ayun.. di pa kami nakakarating sa resort magkaaway na kami. iniwan ba naman ako mag-isa, at sabi nya uuwi na daw sya. buong gabi hanggang madaling-araw iba tuloy ang kasama ko magswimming.. hehe :D
  • farkasfarkas PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    matakot kayo pag di seloso ang bf niyo! :lol:
  • i want to share this story..

    i had a bf before na "superduperseloso" as in to the highest level talaga!:D

    Magkausap kami sa fone mula paggising sa umaga hanggang matulog sa gabi,yung tipong umiinit na fone sa inyo..

    kapag nagigising naman sa madaling araw dapat tawagan mo din sya para alam nya pero sweet naman kasi usap-usap ulet then he'll make you pick up a song then he'll sing it for you hanggang sa maging sleepy ka ulet. pero in fairness very promising namn ang voice..:naughty:
    you also need to inform him if your about to eat breakfast,lunch or dinner already and take note kapag natagalan at hindi ko nasagot tawag nya duda agad yun.:eek:

    you cant even watch tv sa sala dapat sa room ka lang. kahit iihi lang o jejebs dapat alam nya,hindi rin pwede bumaba ng bahay dapat sa taas ka lang. you cant wear shorts or sleeveless lalo na spaghetti kahit nasa bahay lang.. :grrr:

    Wheew! Gravee.. very traumatic talaga.. Thank God wala na kami.:bop:
  • Provided it can work both ways, I think it is fine with me. Paranoid ako pag hindi seloso.
  • sweetwahmsweetwahm PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    jharrrdy wrote: »
    bf ko ngayon sobrang seloso...

    ~practicumer kasi ako sa restaurant where he works, sa kitchen naman sya regular employee. nauuna sya mag-out sakin so pag ganun umuuwi sya tapos sinusundo ako. one time nasa back area kami nung co-barista ko. eh pinagseselosan nya yun nang walang dahilan. nakita nya kami nakaupo.. ni hindi nga kami magkadikit nun. nagkukwento lang sya about sa away nilang mag-asawa. eh sumilip si bf. nakita nya kaming nag-uusap aba ni-f?ck you ba naman ako! gigil na gigil sya at minura pa ako. tandaan ko daw ang ginawa kong yun. sabi ko hello? bawal bang may kausapin akong lalake? to think na barista kami pareho alangan namang di kami mag-usap.

    ~same guys... pag nasa bar area kami nung pinagseselosan nyang guy, mega titig yun samin, kung ano ginagawa namin. eh syempre kelangan teamwork dun noh. pwede bang hindi magpansinan?!

    ~kasama ako sa outing nila... syempre singit lang ako dahil practicumer lang ako. on the way na kami, may katext akong male friend na sinabi ko lang na may night swimming kami nun. nagalit naman itong si bf. bakit kailangan ko pa daw ipaalam dun sa katext ko lahat ng pupuntahan ko. ayun.. di pa kami nakakarating sa resort magkaaway na kami. iniwan ba naman ako mag-isa, at sabi nya uuwi na daw sya. buong gabi hanggang madaling-araw iba tuloy ang kasama ko magswimming.. hehe :D

    Ganon, minura ka? Ako ewan ko lang pag sakin nangyari yun. Ok lang naman mag mura, wag lang ako murahin.
  • sweetwahmsweetwahm PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    On seloso bfs, I had 2 who were at least over ang pagka seloso. I like my man na medyo seloso, sweet and caring ang dating. Pero wag naman yung nakakasakal. Yung isa kong ex bf, he appreciates a lot of pretty girls, eh when I dress up in short skirts, shorts or a real nice low cut blouse, magagalit. Heh?! :lol: The other ex, lahat ata ng location ko gusto malaman. Tas may verification pa, as in tatawag sa kaibigan ko at itatanong kung kasama nga kami like I said, at kung dun nga kami pumunta sa etc., etc.... Obviously, di kami nagtagal.
  • Strict super seloso bf = red flag. Possible reasons: Insecure. Short pututuy. Or both :(
  • at a certain level I really do find it sweet. makes you feel you are wanted and exclusive. I sometimes get bothered pag di nagseselos or very lax. wag lang siguro to the point of being cursed at, being physically hurt, or ipahiya sa friends.



    :angelwings:
  • ako hinde seloso... lalo na kung busog...
  • For me personally I discovered that a seloso bf is an indication that he is insecure about something or himself.

    My ex bf was super seloso that he would ask me what I was wearing and if it was either too short, too sexy and simply not in par with what he liked he made me change. This didn't bother me intially, at first because I felt like he was looking out for me. There were other times when he was so seloso that he hacked into my account (email, facebook, friendster, blog and the like) changed the passsword and even sent an email to an ex boyfriend whom he was insecure about and passed it off as me.
    Another incident I can remember was that he was so seloso he made me change my phone number because several of my guy friends were contacting me, prior to this an ex bf just called to see how I was and that in turn resulted in a fight and him being so seloso that he broke my samsung d500 phone in half !!!

    I don't think being seloso is a good thing, like many things in life too much of something is bad for you - hence too much of being seloso is bad - it turned out he was so seloso because he was hiding something himself besides his insecurities he was also hiding the fact that he was cheating on me.

    Conclusion: Be wary of guys whom are too seloso and possessive...:)
  • mugadxmugadx PEx Rookie ⭐
    ^^^ me lugar yung pagseselos. kahit DIYOS nagseselos. I used to get jealous too.normal yun lalot LDR most of time sa akin lang sasgutin mu yung telepono pagnatawag ako kahit pa nasa bus ka. pag umabot sa 4 hours na ialng miscall aba eh ikaw hidne kabakakbahan?
    na baka may ngyri or may ginagawa? nkakaaning no?
  • mugadx wrote: »
    ^^^ me lugar yung pagseselos. kahit DIYOS nagseselos. I used to get jealous too.normal yun lalot LDR most of time sa akin lang sasgutin mu yung telepono pagnatawag ako kahit pa nasa bus ka. pag umabot sa 4 hours na ialng miscall aba eh ikaw hidne kabakakbahan?
    na baka may ngyri or may ginagawa? nkakaaning no?

    Stuck ka ata dun sa Diyos sa Old Testament. Yung seloso, saka palaging nagtatantrum. Badtrip yung Diyos na yun. :rotflmao:
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