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for girls, when you don't like a guy, would you accept gifts from him?

especially expensive ones? how about letting him treat you to dinner, fetch you from work, drive you home, etc.?
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  • its ok actually but i'd let him know beforehand that i only wanna be friends with him and nothing more than that..
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    i won't know rightaway if i like the guy or not, so while i'm in the process of knowing him better, i guess it would be fine to accept gifts from time to time or let him do stuff that would make me more interested in him.
  • of course i won't accept the gifts from someone i dont like. if he insist i keep them, then i will. if its really something costly i would try to give it back to him.

    as for driving me home, treating me out, stuff like that, i'd say beforehand too, that i only like him as a friend. i dont feel comfortable hanging out with someone i dont like to be with..
  • bored2deathbored2death PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    nah..never ever.

    if i really decide that he got no chance with me, i won't abuse his good ways and i won't waste his time and mine too.

    leave him to girls who will like him. just being fair i guess.
  • laarnilaarni PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    No, I won't accept gifts from the guy I don't like. Period.
  • girls...pag ininsist ng mga guys yung gift nila sa inyo, tanggapin nyo na lang... tapos PM nyo ko. ibe benta ko sa eBAY... libre ko na lang kayo ng chocolate fudge.
  • bny888 wrote: »
    especially expensive ones? how about letting him treat you to dinner, fetch you from work, drive you home, etc.?


    if i dont like the guy i dont go out with him for dinner,dont accept gifts,dont let him pick me up from work or drive me home. kinikilabutan ako eh hehe!:bop:
    but of course we can be friends..:D pero aside fron that hinde talaga.
  • Sometimes di mo kasi malalaman na may iba palang intention sa yo yung guy. For example, friend ko yung guy at mayaman yung tao kaya kala ko normal lang yung pagbibigay nya ng expensive gifts sa akin, kaya natanggap ko. Tapos yung pagdadrive nya papuntang bahay, kala ko normal lang din kasi same way naman kami. Yun pala iba na. Pero dyahe naman kasi kung sa umpisa pa lang tatanong mo na kung bakit namimigay sya ng gifts, parang assuming ang dating ko, hehehe.

    Pero kung una pa lang alam ko na intention nya and wala naman talaga syang pag asa kahit anong gawin nya, no thanks.:)
  • ok lang kung friends kami talaga na pero depende like anong ocassion bakt mo ko binibigyan ng gift? sympre expensive yun e..magtataka ako. if he's reason is valid then i'll take it kung type ko.. pero kung hindi ko sya gusto..dyahe naman sa kanya kung reject ko gift nya kung tanggapin ko din dyahe din kung di ko naman sya gusto talaga..ang hirap! hehe... but i'll explain para di naman ma offend or anything
  • i don't accept gifts from guys talaga.. especially kung walang occassion. baka kasi umasa sila na may kapalit yun. siguro kung friends kami ayus lang.. pero yun mga tipong lately mo lang nakilala it's better kung wag na lang.
  • If you are in high school, accept it, thank him and tell him not to do it again.

    If you are in college, same method.

    If you are both working, receiving them is not necessarily leading him on. Leading would be, you go on dates with him endlessly when in fact, he doesn't have a chance. But gifts? Basic courtesy would tell us not to give it back. Except of course if it is a diamond necklace and he is asking that you go with him to a hotel room.
  • ^^^ i agree with lady_macbeth, it would be discourteous if you would not accept small things from someone who likes you, accept it, thank him and tell him not to do it again.....he will probably know why...other girls kasi inaabuso nila ung mga generous suitors nila, ayaw nila pero sama sila ng sama, they accept all the gifts... the guy then will be lead to believe that he stands a chance, ending wala naman pala hay...
  • Alpha_GreenAlpha_Green PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Yeah right girls! Yeah right!

    Pwede na kong maniwala na you won't accept gifts from your suitors or guys who like you but I won't believe that you won't try to take advantage of their good natures for your own SELFISH benefits. You could still take advantage of them even if you don't accept their gifts.

    You girls may not like the guy but im sure that if there's something good you can get out of him, you will use him and manipulate him in every way you can. Alam niyo kasi may gusto sa inyo. Sus....mga babae pa?
  • sorry but not all girls are gold diggers. If that is the case alpha green, then that would include your mother and sisters. Kung aaminin mo sa min that they are then i guess it is safe for you to conclude.
  • CoolCucumberCoolCucumber PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    No. I have a friend na medyo nagpapa-cute. One time nagpunta siya ng Baguio at tinext niya 'ko kung anong gusto kong pasalubong. Sabi ko wala. Kinukulit niya 'ko pero ayoko talaga ng kahit anong galing sa kanya. I don't care kung mamahalin o mumurahin lang.

    [edit]: Teka... may bitter rito, ah... dun, o! :glee:


    :rpflag:
  • nope, unless he insists.
  • :naughty:samantalahin mo! habang bata ka pa,pag matanda ka na baka kahit mani walang magbibigay sa iyo,wag mong sayangin ang panahon mo dahil paglipas nyan wala na........parang artista.....
  • CoolCucumberCoolCucumber PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^Haha, kung babae ka mga type mo siguro mga DOM :D:naughty:


    :rpflag:
  • :hmm: gifts? di ko tinatanggap...

    date? hmmm..... i discourage the guy... if he still insists...
    oh well...i will go...but i will mke sure that i bring my friends with me...yung tipong buong tropa...mga 6 persons na papalamunin niya....ewan ko lang kung di pa siya madala! :rotflmao: :rotflmao: hahahahahaha:bop:
  • if hindi naman nagsasabi ng feelings un guy tas magbibigay ng gift, i'd ask why.

    pero pag nagyaya for dinner, etc, i wouldn't mind going out with him, ayoko din mag assume na me gusto kaya nagyaya.

    but of course if aware ako sa feelings nya, then he should also know where he stands. para clear lang lahat at friendship lang kaya ko ipakita.
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