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Hinanapan na ata ako ng mali para makipagbreak.

Naging mayaman na girlfriend ko ngayon at independent sya kesa sa akin - lumipat sya sa California Gardens dyan sa Libertad sa Shaw [Mandaluyong] at ako sa probinsya.

Pakiramdam ko hinahanapan ako ng mali at break agad ang sinasabi sa twing magkamali ako. katulad nitong lunes lang ...

Dahil wala akong pangload kaya naman hindi ako nakapagtext sa kanya. kinahapunan ay tumawag agad paglabas ng opisina at binati ako ng malakas na "HOY! hwag kang pumunta-punta dito HA!". tapos may malutong na mura sa pagbaba ng llinya.

Halos maawa na ako sa sarili ko sa twing hinahayaan ko syang sinisigawan ako. Nakakalibre naman ako paminsan-minsan sa kanya kahit papano sa paglalabas-labas namin eh.. pinipilit ko ngang maglabas ng pera sa twing magmemeet kami ng kabatchmate namin. Ganun pa man parang bumababa ang tingin nito sa akin.


Ano ba ang dapat kong gawin sa kanya?

Ayaw ko naman na iwan nya ako dahil mahal ko yun. At wala na sigurong papatol sa akin kung maghahanap ako ng kapalit dahil hindi lang sa mataba na ako, matanda na at wala pang trabahong maayos.

Sinabi ko sa isa kong kaibigan ang sitwasyon ko dahil kinaiingitan pa ako ng nun dahil raw mayaman na ang girlfriend ko tapos malaman laman nya todo pala ang paghihirap ng kalooban ko. :depressed:

Pagkatapos ay napraning ako sa pinayo ng loko na baka mawalan daw ako ng kompyansa sa sarili kay dapat daw pumayag na akong makipaghiwalay at humanap ng iba. ang lokong yun - napaisip tuloy akong baka turotutin nya ako.--:bop:
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  • BlisterBlister chutzpah PExer
    Pagkatapos ay napraning ako sa pinayo ng loko na baka mawalan daw ako ng kompyansa sa sarili kay dapat daw pumayag na akong makipaghiwalay at humanap ng iba. ang lokong yun - napaisip tuloy akong baka turotutin nya ako.--:bop:
    :lol:

    sorry pero natawa lang ako sa sinabi ng friend mo.

    but he's right.

    this is why I say girls should get rich guys.
    thought "rich" may be too harsh, all im saying is that
    kumuha sila ng guys na may mas mataas na kita sa kanila.

    its not bcoz of the money, its about the respect.
    this is what happens whenever the respect is lost.
    im not saying na girls are ALL like this, baka may mag quote na naman sakin dyan :glee:
    there are some, who are willing to understand the situation. but unluckily, that girl is not your gf.

    if she's making you feel like a trash, wake up dude.
    time to look for another one.
    ang dami daming babae dyan :glee:

    never stay with anybody who will make you feel inferior.
    emotional battering na yan no.
  • baklitabaklita taas kilay PExer


    bastos pla angyong gf... at minamaltrato ka pa.
    simple laang ang payo ko... makipag-break ka sa kanya.

    isa di pantay ang pagtingin nya sayo... magaling magmura.
    akala moba kung magkatuluyan kyo... magbabago sya? HINDI!

    makihalobilo ka sa ibang tropa pra may ma-meet kang babaeng
    patas at may respeto sayo. at higit sa lahat ay marunong magmahal
    katulad ng pagmamahal na ibibigay mo sa kanya. lovelife yan, de vaah?

    subukan mo si zorayda, noh!

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita




  • jhonnzjhonnz Member PExer
    hehe kaya nga iniwan ko ung gf ko kc lumaki ulo nung may trabaho na at binigyan ng sasakyan ng magulang nya. hirap yan pre. gagawin kang under-d-saya nyan. hehe. buntisan mo at pakasalan bago pa mkawala sayo yan alam nya kasi kung ganu siya kaimportante sayo. hehe joke lang. pro jokes are half meant.:) alam ko na hindi ka nyan iiwan dahil alam nya kung ganu mo siya kamahal. just have more patience. darating din tayo dyan kung hindi mo na talaga siya macontrol.
  • underbeltfishunderbeltfish Member PExer
    Pag-di ko na talaga matiis malamang hiwalayan na talaga ang kahinatnan kahit pa mabibigo ko yung kabatchmates namin. Nahihiya talaga akong mauwi kami sa ganun dahil sa mga ka-batchmates namin eh. Magkakapitbahay pa naman kaming lahat sa probinsya at expected na ng lahat na kami sa till death.

    Baka hindi na ako makauwi nito sa probinsya namin kung magkahiwalay kami.

    sana naman yung payo na tipong isang linya na masasabi ko sa kanya upang manumbalik ang pagmamahal nya ng lubusan.
    yung tipong perception na ipapaliwanag ko sa kanya.
  • mwahmwahmwahmwah Member PExer
    underbeltfish, siguro ang pinakamaganda nyan, mag ipon ka muna ng lakas ng loob at tiwala sa sarili mo. Do not underestimate yourself, eh ano kung mataba ka? Wala na bang maganda tungkol sa'yo at pangit na lang ang nakikita mo? Kung ganyan ang tingin mo sa sarili, natural rin na ganyan ang maging tingin sa'yo ng ibang tao.

    Ipakita mo sa gf mo na may pride ka rin. Kapag sinigawan ka nya, sigawan mo rin (ahahhaha). Mas kilala mo yang gf mo, kaya ikaw ang may alam ng mas mabuting paraan kung pano mapapaamo yan.

    Ngayon,mauwi man ito sa hiwalayan, naku, tanggapin mo ang katotohanan, may mga bagay talaga na kailangan magwakas.

    Wag kang masyadong insecure, makakita ka rin ng kapalit nya. Just don't lose hope!

    At isa pa...ang buhay ay diskarte lang, maghanap ka ng maayos na work, kaya mo yan, pakita mo sa kanya na "mahalaga" ka at may "halaga" ka sa mundo.

    Good luck!

    :)
  • baklitabaklita taas kilay PExer
    Pag-di ko na talaga matiis malamang hiwalayan na talaga...

    Baka hindi na ako makauwi nito sa probinsya namin kung magkahiwalay kami...





    umuwi ka muna sayong probinsya... pra kung magkabuhol-buhol kyong
    dalwa... di ka na magrereklamong di makauwi sa probinsya, noh!

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita




  • shock0shock0 The Boss PExer
    Nobody, not even your gf, will respect you if you have little respect for yourself.

    If you're fat, then do something about it. Exercise, eat less, stop pigging out. You have no stable job? Jeez, then start looking for one if you haven't already. A jobless man is not exactly a major turn on for girls. Although you did not say your age, I would assume that you are not a DOM. There are girls who actually prefer "older" and more mature men because they are well...more "mature" in their behavior. But if you are already "old" and still act like a kid, you need a major overhaul.

    Why are you worrying about the opinion of your batchmates? That should be the least of your problems. The reason you want to stick it out with your gf is because you love her, not because of what your batchmates will say.

    I'm sorry dude, but from your story, my guess is you won't be having her for long. She's planning to move on and leave you behind.
  • underbeltfishunderbeltfish Member PExer
    balak ko na rin pumasok sa companya nya para naman close. sana makapasa.

    i-goodluck nyo ako.

    salamat sa inyo.
  • midsummermoonmidsummermoon mindovervagina PExer
    kung kayo till death eh di magpakamatay ka na nagyon
  • addicted13addicted13 Member PExer
    amen to shock0! and yeah..good luck to you!
  • orangepinkorangepink orange != pink PExer
    mukhang nagbago na tlga gf mo and in my standards, she changed for the worst. so what kung siya na yung mas mapera ngayon? ndi lang niya alam baka mawala din yan lahat.

    it's great that you love her pero tama din yung sinabi ni shock0. that you should respect yourself, too. kaya pala minumura ka ng gf mo kasi you allowed her to do that. stand up and tell her kung gano ka niya sinaktan at kung magbreak kayo, so what?!? some girls like their man a little chubby (wag naman yung obese). go for those girls.

    if you wish to change your image...do it for yourself. you don't owe her a thing. in the first place, naging kayo di ba? it means tinanggap ka niya ng buo tapos ngayon na umangat na siya eh ayaw na niya? unahan mo na lang siya and u break up with her. tell her you deserve better nyahahaha
  • th3_on3th3_on3 dont mess with me PExer
    Ask yourself two questions: (1) Is she more important than your self-respect? (2) If you'd still choose to be together, what's in it for you? G'luck dude!
  • meteorameteora California Guy PExer
    nakakainis talaga yung ganyang klaseng babae..yung once she made up her mind na ayaw ka nya eh gumagawa pa ng palusot instead na sabihin na lang up front... pero wala tayong magagawa dahil kanya kanyang personality lang yan.. ang importante dyan eh unahan mo na sya.. lagyan mo ng bubblegum yung buhok nya tapos pag nagalit, sabihin mo break na...o eh di ikaw ngayon ang nauna... hehehe yung mga ganyang babae, dapat pinapalo sa pwet.
  • Baby_LeechBaby_Leech sycophant PExer
    alam mo na naman pala eh.

    ano pang inaantay mo? pasko? :glee:
  • lyriclyric ReSiDeNt PiMp PExer
    I'm not gonna explain why as many posters here have given you their Ideas but I would say leave her.

    Girls are nothing, there's plenty of them out there who will give you love.

    I hate girls like your GF and they give me the determination to succeed. As down to earth as I am, I can't help but flaunt the fruits of my success in front of girls like that so I can see their jaws drop and drool over it. I don't think it's a bad thing and it's not like i'm looking down on anyone since they started it.

    I meet alot of girls who thinks their Paris Hilton showing off all their material stuff they recieve from parents etc. Most of the time they act like *****es who look down on people like me until they find out what I do for a job, how much money I have, what car I drive then they try to be all friendly.HATERS.

    My advice is make yourself better, you already know your fat so why not do something about it. You think your GF changed because she has more money than you, then try to earn more than her and flaunt it on her face so she knows how it feels being looked down on and if you do seperate don't get back with her.
  • jhonnzjhonnz Member PExer
    hirap talaga noh? loving a person even if you're actually not liking her personality anymore. it's 1 hella heavy burden that you have to carry everyday.
  • LaTtEXLaTtEX Member PExer
    Ayaw ko naman na iwan nya ako dahil mahal ko yun. At wala na sigurong papatol sa akin kung maghahanap ako ng kapalit dahil hindi lang sa mataba na ako, matanda na at wala pang trabahong maayos.

    Baka naman kapag nagkaroon ka ng trabahong maayos at magpapayat ka, hindi mo na siya mahal! :glee:

    Seriously, kung naiinsecure ka sa kanya, eh di gumawa ka ng hakbang para naman maging proud siya sayo. That way, kung iwan ka man niya, pwede ka pa ring mangchicks. Hindi problema yung tanda -- marami akong kilala na lolo na nambababae pa rin! :rotflmao:
  • shychicshychic paradoxical PExer
    Gayahin mo na lang si John, nagsumikap, ayun may bagong show na. :lol: Kailangan mo ata imake-over ng matindi-tindi para magkaron ng konting confidence. sulat tayo sa fab 5!

    Seriously dude, a little (more wouldn't hurt, wag lang over) self-confidence would do wonders. Don't allow her to treat you like that, show her who's the man.
  • orangepinkorangepink orange != pink PExer
    jhonnz wrote: »
    loving a person even if you're actually not liking her personality anymore. it's 1 hella heavy burden that you have to carry everyday.

    parang ndi na ata love yung nararamdaman ng threadstarter. it seems like he's just clinging for some reason other than love. basta sa akin, dapat unahan na niya.
  • batinks13batinks13 Alaktrikal Gingineer PExer
    With that kind of self-esteem dude, malamang na iwanan ka na niya. Stop sulking about your weight or your underpaid job. Imbes na dito ka magreklamo, you should take the initiative. And isipin mo na lang na dapat mas mahalin mo ang sarili mo above anyone else. :)
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