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Bakit girls pwede more than one suitor? Dapat kami ring boys!

Objective tayo boys and girls. State the facts and the issues.
For me, dapat i-level and playing field para sa mga boys. Yan lang muna hanggang wala pang ibang opinyon. :smokin:
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  • :girl: vs. :cool:

    for me, i know it may sounds so unfair or what ever you may guys think about my opinion to this issue..pero para sa akin pwede sa aming mga >>>:girl:<<< to have 1 or 2 suitors kahit na may shota na, kse kaming mga >>>:girl:<<< kaya naman naming ingatan ang on going relationship... hinde tulad ng ibang lalaki (i may say) na nasa on going relationship hinde nilang mapigilang uminit ang isip nila at gumawa ng hindi maganda..may be some girls aren't too pero most of the time on a relationship lalake ang mostly nag me-mess around...like some issue for guys hinde sila satisfied to have one girl kaya masgusto nilang keep the other >>:girl:<< for extra time or incase man na may mangyari... sa madaling salita kaming mga babae ""or some of us**can keep our own words or keep our job for being a gf to our bf kahit na may other suitors pa. kase we always think na mas mahal "KO" ang current bf than this guy who is nang liligaw lang naman...unlike you guys may lumande man sa inyong ibang babae limot na kung merong gf o wala...basta ayan may palay ng lumalapit sa manok!!!:yum: (sabi nila) well this is how i see the situation for my own expression:D:D:D


    >>:girl:<<

  • point taken.. but you see we're talking about courting here.. premise la pang solid relationship. so in effect wala pang commited. :)

    my point. two guys courting a girl. girls say this is perfectly alright. coz they are still making up their minds. :rolleyes: .. we derive a hypothesis that guys could also court two girls at a time coz he may still be making up his mind... :) am i right or am i correct :lol:

  • talking about "point" ofcourse guys have a right to have 2 lady at a time same as girls....to choose, to think, to decide or what ever ways for better or for worse.

    but in my "point" 60% for us and 40% for you guys.

    ano reklamo pa!!!!!!!:grrr:
  • 'lil_me>> Okay, maraming beses mong sinabi ang salitang "some" therefore hindi mo nilalahat ang mga guys... samakatuwid yung dahilan mo kaya dapat ay isa lang ang nililigawan ng guy eh hindi rin dapat umiral sa lahat ng guys!!

  • Originally posted by unified_theory
    'lil_me>> Okay, maraming beses mong sinabi ang salitang "some" therefore hindi mo nilalahat ang mga guys... samakatuwid yung dahilan mo kaya dapat ay isa lang ang nililigawan ng guy eh hindi rin dapat umiral sa lahat ng guys!!


    exactly kse ayokong ma offense yung ibang guys..so i use the adjective =some= words, mahirap na kase eh kung sabihin kong lahat ng lalake eh di laking galit nila sa akin:bop:

    well kung hinde man umiral sa iba eh wala na ako doon basta i said my point after all:D:D:D
  • assuming na letsplay and unified_theory are guys...(please correct me if im wrong =P)i can say na may point kayo.... but unfortunately, society does not allow a guy to court more than one girl at a time... dont ask me why kasi i cant answer that.... maybe because a girl being courted makes her decisions based (in parts) on the faithfulness and truthfulness of the courting guy.....granted na if a girl can accept more than one suitor while she makes up her mind, then this sole reason alone should also be same for the guys, realistically this can be done... personally , i think its too much of a risk to do so.... by doing that, a guy is putting his future relationship with someone that potentially will be his wife on the line... i know i know thats thinking too far ahead... but hey, such is the nature of this so called courting ritual... you want to be with someone who you think will be with you for life rite?!
  • mga baliw! :lol:
    altarboy ano ka ba... ganito lang yan eh, kaya ka nanliligaw kase gusto mong maging committed sa kanya. eh kung ipapakita mo right from the start na hindi ka pala willing magcommit sa kanya at sa kanya lang, eh di papano maiinlove sa iyo si girl? tama ba o mali?

    anong klaseng babae ang gustong makihati ng labs?? di ba?
    :silly:
  • Alam nyo guys should have the right to court more thatn one girl. Here's how it sounds like to me.
    Girls: daming suitors - they choose. relationship turns out
    to be the best. you got the right guy
    kasi.
    ok lang sa guys - challenge daw. thats all your
    fault guys

    Guys: one girl only - find out shes not the one, too late you're stuck na. Puro ka angal ngayon
    daming nililigawan - turn off yung girls. di daw tayo loyal kasi cannot stick to one girl.
    daya no? pero we choose the right girl
    relationship turns out to be the best
    looks at other girls - eh he had no basis on who the best girl is, no comparison. no chance to get to know others kaya kahit may syota na, sa iba napapatingin.

    I dunno if this sums it up. But in order to get the best out of the relationship one must make sure that the girl or guy that you choose is the partner you will get along with. Hindi porquet maganda o pogi yun na yun! Girls, do you feel our hardships now?
  • DELISYUSDELISYUS PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    in courtship as the Filipinos know it....guys woo the girl.....the girl is placed in a position to select. And it's a rule of thumb that a suitor wooing other girls won't exactly have lots of pogipoints under her belt.....he wouldn't be chosen....

    if you guys want to court lots of girls....so be it....just don't expect to be chosen....and don't expect to be believed that you are capable of being faithful....after all, right from the start, you've been serving lotsa masters...

    if you girls accept a guy who you know is courting other girls besides you, then...so be it.....just don't expect loyalty from him.....

    if you guys get chosen by a girl eventho she knows you're courting other girls besides her......so be it.....just don't get angry if she continues to entertain other suitors and woo other guys too...

    :) case closed!
  • Originally posted by DELISYUS

    if you girls accept a guy who you know is courting other girls besides you, then...so be it.....just don't expect loyalty from him.....

    Ha! Bakit naman? Hindi ba kapag nanligaw naman yung guy, wala pa namang 'love', proposal pa lang... at magkakaroon lang nang 'love' kapag sila na, at kalakip ng 'love' yung 'loyalty'
  • coz guys r d one doing d courtng, that means he's able to choose d girl he likes, if he does intend to pursue that girl that means he has found d qualities he likes on dat girl...thats y he shld court only 1 girl at a time. as 4 us girls we're not d 1 making d 1st move, we dont have that "power" to pursue d guy we like...that means we jst have to settle 4 wats available 4 us. do u c my point?
  • Originally posted by qwerty78

    anong klaseng babae ang gustong makihati ng labs?? di ba?
    :silly:


    nakooo korek ka dyan...syempre kung man ligaw man ang lalaki isa lang at the time((dibale na lang kung kaya nyang itago how many girls ang court nya)), gaya ng sabi ng iba turn off agad ang girls kapag maraming nililigawan ang lalaki kse labas ni babae paglalaruan lang sya((if she think that way)) and while the girl on the other hand having this suitors around to make a right move para piliin kung sino man kay lalake ang dapat na mapasakanya, diba!!??
  • So that's how society goes on... then this is another 'bias' of the society?

    ...at ano ang ginagawa sa mga 'bias', we have to eradicate them, we have to be liberated, we have to become EQUAL!

    Hindi kaya mas mabuti kung 'one suitor at a time' din ang tinatanggap ng girl, ngayon kung hindi niya type, then busted na yung guy, then tsaka pa lang puwedeng manligaw yung iba pa... kung gusto niyong one at a time... dapat ganito.
  • I think it happens naman eh, when you say maraming magco-court sa guy, ibig sabihin, maraming admirers yung guy. Girls just don't court the same way as guys I guess.

    The way girls 'court' guys is by talking to them often and calling them. I guess girls can't be as open to admit they're attracted to guys as guys are to girls. Iba lang kasi talaga naturally.

    As for continuous courtship during a relationship, dun siguro mate-test yung fidelity ng isa't isa. The admirers will always be there and it's a matter of trust and loyalty that will keep the relationship.

  • walang masama! edi mag-madami din ang boys. :D
  • depende na yon sa girl kung papayag sya na 2 silang kinocourt....

    i mean, kung skin mangyari yon, magdadalawang isip ako... kasi i can't trust that guy... syempre nililigawan pa nga lang 2 na pano kung kami na.

    and how can you say that the guy is sincere? e di lahat ng sinasabi niya sayo sinasabi niya rin don sa isa?

    ano yon? kung sino ang mauna sumagot, panalo?
  • DELISYUSDELISYUS PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Originally posted by unified_theory
    Ha! Bakit naman? Hindi ba kapag nanligaw naman yung guy, wala pa namang 'love', proposal pa lang... at magkakaroon lang nang 'love' kapag sila na, at kalakip ng 'love' yung 'loyalty'

    yeah.....but part of the wooing is the decision to learn to love the girl.....part of courtship is the process of grooming each other as a possible mate.....

    kung ako ang babaeng tipong maraming nanliligaw....ok lang, dahil basted naman ang katapat ng karamihan eh (kung ako yung tipo ng babaeng matino na talaga namang naghahanap ng nobyo at mapapangasawa....at hindi ng tsokolate, regalo atbp.)......isa lang din naman ang sasagutin ko...yung taong pinakagusto ko pa rin naman ang sasagutin ko....

    pero ang lalakeng maraming nililigawan....pwede nya bang sabihin sa lahat ng nililigawan nya...."hoy babae, gusto kita at nililigawan kita....pero wag mo akong sagutin kasi si Maria ang pinakagusto ko at sya ang nakikita kong mamahalin ko"

    ???????? sowssssssssssss!!!!! pero sabi ko nga, alang pumipigil senyong mga lalake.....kung san kayo liligaya.....sige, arya!!!
  • Originally posted by unified_theory
    So that's how society goes on... then this is another 'bias' of the society?

    ...at ano ang ginagawa sa mga 'bias', we have to eradicate them, we have to be liberated, we have to become EQUAL!

    Hindi kaya mas mabuti kung 'one suitor at a time' din ang tinatanggap ng girl, ngayon kung hindi niya type, then busted na yung guy, then tsaka pa lang puwedeng manligaw yung iba pa... kung gusto niyong one at a time... dapat ganito.
    aysus, kung bias na rin naman ang paguusapan, eh di dapat ieradicate na rin yung notion na lalaki lang puwedeng manligaw!

    aminin mo na UT, sa ating society, hindi pa rin katanggap-tanggap na manligaw ang mga babae sa mga lalaki! see? talk about bias! kayo, you get to choose who you court.. eh ang mga babae ba kaya nilang ligawan yung labs nila? hindeee!!! where's the equality?!?!? papano naman kami?!?!?!

    besides, since you get to court who you want, at least give the ladies the opportunity to choose...
  • wAgKaNgMaKuLiTwAgKaNgMaKuLiT PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

    wala naman nag babawal sa inyo na wag manligaw ng iba habang may nililigawan pa kayong isa... basta wag lang kayo mag expect na sasagutin kayo pag ginawa niyo yun. ;)


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    :D:D:D
  • Tama si Kulit. Hindi naman namin sinabing hindi kayo pwedeng manligaw ng marami. Maraming beses nga lang kayo maba-basted. :D
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