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paano mo sasabihin sa bf mo na ayaw mo na nang hindi nya ikakagalit?

advice po...kasi i can't take it anymore...my bf keeps on ignoring me...i keep on texting him pero parang wla ciang nrerecve...ni hindi man lng mkuhang magtext sakin kgit 1 beses lng sa isang araw which is normally nmng gingwa nya b4...i don't know what his problem kasi never cia tlgang nagpaparamdam...magpaparamdam lng cia kung kelan nya gusto and after ilng plitan ng text bigla n lng ciang mwawala as in di n sumasagot...i really don't feel n mhal p nya ako kaya i want to end our relationship right away...i want to tell hin in a rgiht way n di cia maoofend kasi magling tlgang magbaliktad ang taong yun...khit n cia yung mali papalabasin p rin nya n ako...kaya pls po, i need it badly....:) thanks po sa mkkpagbigay ng good advice...
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  • stigrastigra Member PExer
    mahal mo pa ba sya o hindi na?
  • JongaJonga Banned by Admin PExer
    ^heheehe, ibig sabihin dapat di mo iintindihin kung ano mafefeel nya kund di mo na sya mahal :glee:
  • cleslie05ajcleslie05aj VimNiel PExer
    mhal ko p po pero nasasaktan na ako e...gusto ko lng naman ng maayos n uspan...thanks...
  • BiTteR_GoDdEsSBiTteR_GoDdEsS spell SWEET 4me puh-lease PExer
    aba.. siya pa ba magagalit kung makikipag break ka?.. once nagreply sayo, sabihin mo sa kanya na gusto mo siyang kausapin.. then u decide what to do after your conversation with him..
  • 24242424 Guest PExer
    Tanungin mo muna siya kung bakit ganoon ang inaakto niya sa iyo, pagkatapos noon ay saka mo isipin kung dapat kang mkipaghiwalay sa kanya. :)
  • stigrastigra Member PExer
    Jonga wrote: »
    ^heheehe, ibig sabihin dapat di mo iintindihin kung ano mafefeel nya kund di mo na sya mahal :glee:

    exactly..hehe. e yung lalaki kaya may pagkukulang, kaya fair lang. :)
  • ayaneayane Member PExer
    just tell him you want out. simple as that.

    so what if he'll make it look as if it's your fault. you know what really happened. let him make excuses if he wants.

    just tell him as it is. you don't like the way he ignores you and you don't feel that he loves you. simple as that.

    if he will make excuses, just tell him you've made your decision. :D let him suffer. tell him to court you again. :lol:
  • Leih1234Leih1234 Registered User PExer
    I hope you are not planning to break up with him hoping against all hope that he will finally come to his senses and run after you.

    I agree with ayane. Tell him you want out. As simple as that. Usually, hindi advisable sa landline or sa cell makipagbreak, pero in your case, mukhang di kayo nagkikita.... i suggest you do it in whatever means would make it possible at the soonest possible time.

    Listening to what he has to say may be more damaging. You are likely to listen to reason even when his reason doesn't make sense. Girls tend to rationalize. The thing is, you are not getting what you need, and that is all that matters for now. No boyfriend, no matter how busy or even when he is lying on his deathbed, would act that way. Di pedeng pupulutin ka nya kung kelan nya gusto and ignore mode when he doesn't feel like it. (Why am I getting the vibe that he is married?)

    It is difficult to let go of someone you love. But a lot of us went through that. Pagkatapos mo makipagbreak, nanaiisin mo bumalik at makipagbati. Just ask yourself, do you really want to waste time with someone who treats you like crap?

    Good luck.
  • bbbbbbbbbbbb dddddd ✭✭
    i want to tell hin in a rgiht way n di cia maoofend kasi magling tlgang magbaliktad ang taong yun...khit n cia yung mali papalabasin p rin nya n ako...kaya pls po, i need it badly.... thanks po sa mkkpagbigay ng good advice...

    hindi mo problema ang pakikipaghiwalay sa kanya kasi siguradong hindi 'yan maooffend. sabihin mo lang, "break na tayo!" tapos..
    basta lang ah, pag sinabi mo yun walk-out na at wag mo na intayin pa reaksiyon niya. baka magmakaawa lang yun ng konti tikangkang ka na..
  • st.angerst.anger Domo! ✭✭✭
    baka naman globe sya at smart ka.
  • pecanpiepecanpie Member PExer
    st.anger wrote: »
    baka naman globe sya at smart ka.


    ^..:rotflmao: o nga baka nakalimutan nyo lang kung ano mga sim ninyo! .....:lol: anyway, the pexers have advised you the right thing to do. ;)
  • jinkz425jinkz425 Member PExer
    i totally agree with ayane. tell him that you do not like wasting your time and it seems that you are doing that with him. if he really wants to continue the relationship, he should work for it and not rely only on your initiatives for communication. but when you break up with him, be sure that you are not just bluffing him. be ready for possible consequences, like realizing that he does not love you anymore. when you say it's over, be sure you mean it.
  • cleslie05ajcleslie05aj VimNiel PExer
    wow...thanks po...welll knina lng po e nagtext cia...di ko nireplyan kasi im still thinkin' of what im going to say...biruin nyo his last text e nung monday p then ngayon lng ulit magpaparamdam...hay...were both using globe simcard so hindi naman cguro mbigat sa bulsa nya ang isang txt lng a day...nkapagdecide n tlga ako...hindi kmi nagkikita kya sa text ko n lng sasabihing ayaw ko na...salamat po sa advice nyo...nkatulong po yun ng sobra...hindi lng sakin kundi dun sa iba png prehas ng problema ko n mkakabasa sa thread n to...thanks!
  • dreckz12dreckz12 beenlovebeenhurt PExer
    mga lalake talga...!!! ndi marunong maka-appreciate ng mga gingawa natin for them..they usually take us for granted...



    kausapin ny0 po sya, ung tipong sasabihin mo sa kanya lahat lahat, tapos sya naman ang pagsalitain mo, para masabi nya ung side nya...


    tapos magcompromise po kay0 sa mga bagay bagy....ung mapagkakasunduan ny0...:okay:
  • JongaJonga Banned by Admin PExer
    pakilala mo sa hottie, tapos contratahin mo yung hottie na agawin sya sayo hehehe

    malinis dba? :D
  • ictict Member PExer
    Hi cleslie05aj, i hope im not stealing d spotlight from you.. pero i have d same problem, may sides nga lang n iba. I have this boyfriend, we see each other everyday. Sinasaktan nya ko ng pisikal pag nagagalit sya. I admit I start the fight minsan, but I dont think kahit gano pa ko kaarte sa kanya, i dont deserve his abuse db?! THis has been going on for months now and i really dont know what to do. Hindi ko sya matakasan o mataguan man lang. Thing is that whenever I ask for space or makipagbreak sa kanya, nagagalit sya at it leads to his pananakit. Love is out of the question. I cannot stand the way he treats me. Please help. I dont know who to talk to. I've thought of million things to do to break up with him, pero hindi ngwwork out sa kanya.

    I like the anonimity on forums to protect my identity, that's why I ended up posting here and asking for advise. Please help anybody...
  • blue17blue17 Blue Palito PExer
    ict wrote: »
    I cannot stand the way he treats me.

    Physical Abuse is never acceptable.
    If hindi ka nya lubayan kahit nakipagbreak ka na sa kanya, maybe you should ask for your parents or friends help? Or pag malala na, a Police blotter.

    There are so many ways to deal with your abusive boyfriend. But staying with him is not an option.

    Take care.
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer soundscapes ✭✭✭
    related sa kabilang thread ang topic ah.. baka wala na siyang lud? :lol:

    agree ako sa mga nag post.. tama.. tama.

    observation ko lang, hindi na healthy ang relasyon ninyo. pag hindi na healthy, dadalawa na lang naman ang solusyon diyan: magusap kayo kung kaya pang i-patch up o repair problema ninyo.. o mag announce ka na ng break-up.

    assuming desidido ka na sa break-up, gawin mo ito ng maayos. mag set ka ng date kung kailan ito. dapat lang, handa-handa ka na sa posisyon mo pagharap mo sa kanya.. kasi, kung hindi.. nakow balik sa pasuyo-suyo.. balik sa pa sorry-sorry... tapos sweetie ulet kunyari.. parang back to normal like okay-na-kami.. tapos, unti-unti sa dulo.. balik na naman ulet sa dating problema mo, like this thread.

    ngayon, sa break-up ninyo, magugulat yun kahit papano. pero, ganyan lang buhay eh.. and please, avoid using that ek-ek line i need time/space for myself. because this isnt what you really want.. he he he.. sabihin mo, hanggang dito na lang tayo. tapos.

    hhhmmm.. kadalasan, heavy scenes ang break-up.. may mga ibang salita na hindi mo masasabi sa harap niya.. maiisip mo lang ito, pag naguwian na kayo.. kung gusto pa niya ulit ng isa pang meeting, eh pag bigyan mo na.. pero pang closure na dapat yun.. yung mga hindi ninyo nasabi sa break-up day, eh last chance na ito.. para masabi.. ehermm.. sasabihin ng iba eh bakit pa, what for..?

    he he he... we are talking about human emotion here. not machines. may momentum pa yan kahit papano. kung ang sasakyan nga kailangan pabagalin o mag decelerate muna bago tumigil sa eksaktong destinasyon nito, ang emotion pa kaya ng tao?

    pero, pagkatapos naman ng closure na yan.. tapos na.. final na. wala ng lingonan pa. yung another meeting after your break-up, depende din naman ito kung may isa sa inyo ang nag-re require niyan. as the word implies, closure na ito. hindi ito para mag reconcile pa kayo. mabuti na yung may maliwanag na usapan, para hindi ka guluhin nitong soon to be ex-bf mo pag nag start ka ulit mag istema ng mga bagong manliligaw..

    goodie goodie lak! :)
  • ako si..ako si.. Headband Girl PExer
    wag mo na isipin if you will offend him.. napaka considerate mo naman.
    sya ang may pagkukulang, and kaya sya magaling magbaliktad kasi yun ang way nya para mapagtakpan ang shortcomings nya

    just tell him straight yun lang.
  • th3_on3th3_on3 dont mess with me PExer
    I'm not sure if you're seeing it, but he's done. You don't need to break up with him anymore coz he already did that. How? By ignoring you. What you need is closure.
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