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diana_tunadiana_tuna hallerrr... PExer
theres this guy who is soo confused between two girls. one is his gf of 2yrs. absolutely nothing wrong with their relationship. as in. he went abroad then met another girl (his highschool crush daw). naging sila for two weeks lang. that girl has two kids and is separated with her husband.

the original gf fights for their relationship and attempts to follow him abroad. the guy even pays for her ticket. now the girl is with him. the guy got rid of the other girl pero he has feelings pa daw with her.

now he tells the original gf na nabawasan daw feelings nya for her. pero hindi nya kaya sya iwan. he cares and still loves her daw. but still tries to contact the other girl. super gulung gulo daw sya. ugh. man its soo confusing!!

any advices? its a real headache kasi... can anyone explain whats going on?

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  • pruedishpruedish like a warm cup of coffee PExer
    well he only have to choose one. hindi naman pwede na pareho d b, kasi it will be unfair for the two girls. he needs to decide who it will be. siguro layo muna sya sa both girls. kung sino mamiss nya, yun siguro. unfair if he will continue the relationship with his girlfriend(orig) knowing that he loves another woman.

    so he should choose only one, and BE FAITHFUL after that! :)
  • Leih1234Leih1234 Registered User PExer
    Am guessing that the first girl who withdraws from the race will end up the winner.....

    You never know what you have til it is gone.....sabi nga nila.... better yet, it really tends to be confusing when you know you have the option that you can have both.
  • uhlalauhlala Member PExer
    stick with the gf of 2 years. they guy is just lusting over the other girl na HS crush niya, nabitin kasi siya. the crush is a fantasy, the steady gf is real. if he lets go of the HS crush, and gives his real gf his undivided attention, in no time .. he can unlearn to love the other girl. he must make a decision and stick to it. I'm rooting for the gf of 2 years.
  • baby_07baby_07 Take me to Paris. PExer
    I still think that being with his girlfriend for two years is the better deal, logically and feelings-wise. His feelings for his former crush in HS just surfaced when he met her abroad. It doesn't mean, however, that he loves her. Maybe he's just too overwhelmed about seeing her over again after all these years and the fact that they had a two-week thing but in the long run, it'll be just about it.
    Plus the emotional baggage of the crushie is just going to make the situation more complicated.

    With his girlfriend for two years, there's already love there and an even more serious emotional attachment. Even if he admitted that his feelings for her kind of "decreased", he still can't deny the fact that he cannot NOT be with her. What he can do is just try to work their relationship out.

    Sometimes, men want to try new things with new people, with newer thrills and more exciting stuff to discover. But in the end, they always come back to the ones they love.

    Well, almost always.
  • diana_tunadiana_tuna hallerrr... PExer
    geez thanks for your answers guys! :)
  • stepehenyan@12[email protected] haremnojutsu ✭✭
    if i were the original gf there's lotsa guys out their who cares about a better deal. the girl could get a better deal with another guy. the bus stops here.
  • diana_tunadiana_tuna hallerrr... PExer
    well, thats a good suggestion but shempre the girl just couldnt let the other one run away with whats originally hers hahah damot! or maybe she can try to win the guy back then dump him hahah
  • sabaybunotsabaybunot I'm your Daddy!! PExer
    my take on it..


    dude is thinking with his d!ck and is using "love" as an excuse..


    wimp...
  • meteorameteora California Guy PExer
    diana_tuna wrote: »
    theres this guy who is soo confused between two girls. one is his gf of 2yrs. absolutely nothing wrong with their relationship. as in. he went abroad then met another girl (his highschool crush daw). naging sila for two weeks lang. that girl has two kids and is separated with her husband.

    the original gf fights for their relationship and attempts to follow him abroad. the guy even pays for her ticket. now the girl is with him. the guy got rid of the other girl pero he has feelings pa daw with her.

    now he tells the original gf na nabawasan daw feelings nya for her. pero hindi nya kaya sya iwan. he cares and still loves her daw. but still tries to contact the other girl. super gulung gulo daw sya. ugh. man its soo confusing!!

    any advices? its a real headache kasi... can anyone explain whats going on?

    diana_tuna, hindi mo naman nilinaw kung saan ka duon? Ikaw ba yung 2yr gf or yung HS crush?

    why do i smell like there's some tuna?
  • diana_tunadiana_tuna hallerrr... PExer
    wala. im just the friend. heheh. pansin ko nga the guys thinking with his... theyre supposed to be married this may pa naman. til this happened. well, might as well happen now than later diba.

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