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The famous line..."I NEED TIME FOR MYSELF"

WHAT DO YOU THINK GUYS??? ANO BA ANG GUSTO NG MGA TAONG ITO???? HINDI NAMAN NAKIKIPAG BREAK PERO GANUN ANG SINASABI...ANO BA ITONG LINE NA ITO???:lol:
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  • maybe, that person wants to experience "single life" for some time..maybe, that person is kinda sick and a bit tired of being with someone (in a relationship). a little space, parang "cool off", hindi naman kayo break, pero hindi rin muna kayo. reserved? ewan. :lol:
  • hahahaha..reserved...
  • cairocairo PEx Rookie ⭐
    time for myself = time na wala ka, at take note, ikaw lang! hehehe... seriously, if someone tells you this, it means that ayaw nya pang maging seryoso...
  • RIGORRIGOR PExer
    question lang,pano kung nagdecide lang sya all of a sudden,like paggising nya isang araw yan ang gusto nyang mangyari? normal ba ito . e sa 4.5 years namin ngayon lang nangyari to..
  • he needs time to *****?

    wth....what kind of excuse is that????
  • Sinabi niya ito pero hindi nakipag break?? ?Ang alam ko kasi this is another version of the dialogue "It is not you, it is me" drama. Pero di siya nakipagbreak?

    I can give him the benefit of the doubt. Minsan sa dami ng iniisip ko rin kasi, I want time for myself. Yung gusto mo lang mag isip talga.... when you are surrounded by people, you hardly have time to think kasi. But it shouldn't take that long. A week at most.

    Unless, to be blunt about it, sobrang nasasakal mo siya at lagi kayo magkasama.... then it is a nicest way of saying, "nasasakal ako."
  • Sinabi niya ito pero hindi nakipag break?? ?Ang alam ko kasi this is another version of the dialogue "It is not you, it is me" drama. Pero di siya nakipagbreak?

    I can give him the benefit of the doubt. Minsan sa dami ng iniisip ko rin kasi, I want time for myself. Yung gusto mo lang mag isip talga.... when you are surrounded by people, you hardly have time to think kasi. But it shouldn't take that long. A week at most.

    Unless, to be blunt about it, sobrang nasasakal mo siya at lagi kayo magkasama.... then it is the nicest way of saying, "nasasakal ako."
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    by experience, this line,i need time for myself, is almost always a prelude to a breakup or ending.

    ironical 'no.. kadalasan, sa babae, they would always crave for that time from their bfs/husbands.. tapos, biglang birit na i need some time or (space?)..

    this often leads to 'cool-off'.. yung iba, nagkakabalikan. yung iba naman, tuloy-tuloy na.

    kasi, yung line na yan, pang pre-conditioning na yan sa minds natin, na ang ending ay malapit-lapit na.
  • by experience, this line,i need time for myself, is almost always a prelude to a breakup or ending.

    ironical 'no.. kadalasan, sa babae, they would always crave for that time from their bfs/husbands.. tapos, biglang birit na i need some time or (space?)..

    this often leads to 'cool-off'.. yung iba, nagkakabalikan. yung iba naman, tuloy-tuloy na.

    kasi, yung line na yan, pang pre-conditioning na yan sa minds natin, na ang ending ay malapit-lapit na.

    Agree...
  • Leih1234 wrote: »
    Sinabi niya ito pero hindi nakipag break?? ?Ang alam ko kasi this is another version of the dialogue "It is not you, it is me" drama. Pero di siya nakipagbreak?

    I can give him the benefit of the doubt. Minsan sa dami ng iniisip ko rin kasi, I want time for myself. Yung gusto mo lang mag isip talga.... when you are surrounded by people, you hardly have time to think kasi. But it shouldn't take that long. A week at most.

    Unless, to be blunt about it, sobrang nasasakal mo siya at lagi kayo magkasama.... then it is the nicest way of saying, "nasasakal ako."

    hindi naman nakipagbreak,sabi nya magtetext naman daw sya,pero nung sinilip ko prenster nya e single na at wla na mgapicture namin..tinext ko sya pero ang sagot nya, "i just need more time". its so unfair tlga,all of a sudden lang nagdecide lang sya ng ganun

    ano yun?pag gising nya isang araw sawa na sya? pero mejo guilty ako jan sa nasasakal..sa tingin ko nga ganun,pero anong magagwa ko e ang tigas naman kasi ng ulo nun,di naman sumusunod sakin e paulit ulit naman ang pagkakamali nya.

    chka she po sya, ako po ang HE..
  • grayegcivicgrayegcivic PEx Rookie ⭐
    I need time for myself = I don't love you anymore or I'm done with you!!! ehhh.....thats what I think!!!
  • RIGOR, was referring kasi to the threadstarter.. ang understanding ko babae siya....

    In your case, linawin mo na lang na break up na to. If she erased your pictures and flashed to the whole world na single na siya, time to let her go. She doesn't need more time. She obviously needs freedom.

    You cannot hope nor wait endlessly for nothing. That is one regret you do not want on your shoulders. Set her free, if she comes back to you then she is yours from the start. Give yourself a break. Date, mingle.... I do not know exactly her thoughts but you wouldn't want to appear so miserable with such a situation.
  • I need time for myself, I need space...ANO KA????? ASTRONAUT?!?

    I have a friend..yung girlfriend nya..sinabi ayusin nya buhay nya, like "I need time for myself, we need space..etc." si mokong, inayos yung sarili..ayun, nakita niya sa friendster, may kasama na ibang guy!O diba? ano bang klaseng excuses yan! kahit sabihin mong hindi ka makakhurt ng feelings...after awhile, mahuhuli ka then, lalo ka lang mananakit.I've been there too...grabe...what a famous line!
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐



    naglinis sya sa kulungan ng mga baboy, nagsibak ng kahoy,
    nagwalis sa bangketa at kinuskos ang sahig ng kusina at banyo.

    pinasukan ko sa banyo... mabantot pa sya, naliligo at
    nagsalita, "I need time for myself." tama nga... ang dami pa
    nyang mantsa at libag sa leeg, noh!

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita









  • by experience, this line,i need time for myself, is almost always a prelude to a breakup or ending.

    ironical 'no.. kadalasan, sa babae, they would always crave for that time from their bfs/husbands.. tapos, biglang birit na i need some time or (space?)..

    this often leads to 'cool-off'.. yung iba, nagkakabalikan. yung iba naman, tuloy-tuloy na.

    kasi, yung line na yan, pang pre-conditioning na yan sa minds natin, na ang ending ay malapit-lapit na.

    ^tingin ko rin parang warning. no guy has ever said that line to
    me eh. ako yung nagsabi. :D
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kahit ako'y noong nagaaral pa ng enhinyera sa kolehiyo at lubhang napakahigpit noon ng panahon, idagdag mo pa ang kasintahan, ay tuwiran kung masasabi, na kahit paano ay may panahon pa naman ako sa aking sarili.

    i need time for myself

    this thing happens when you start falling out of love or when the intensity of your feelings toward your bf/gf starts to wane. it is a line often said by many who have already found a new love or have decided to go back to person once they loved.

    unfortunately, it is also used by some who arent that brave enough to say those proper 'exit' words or terminal words or salitang pagtatapos even if that's exactly what they have in mind. hence, the famous line.

    if your current relationship is still stable and if you're still happy with it, even if you only have 3 days a week to look after yourself, you would never utter that famous line.

    but once you start falling for another person that's the time when you intentionally re-calibrate your definition of time.. or may be, also space.

    kahit pa bihira na lang kayo magkita ng bf/gf mo.. gagawa at gagawa ka pa rin ng excuse by saying i need time. ayaw pa kasing diretsahin nang matapos na kung iyon din lang naman pala ang pakay mo: ang magtapos.

    subalit, kailan naman nating dapat ituring na tama lang magsabi ng i need time for myself? marahil, sa aking opinyon, ay nararapat nang magsabi ng i need time for myself kung normal naman ang takbo sana ng relasyon ninyo, nagmamahalan naman kayong dalawa, at wala namang intensiyon ang kahit sino man sa inyo, lamang, ay ikaw naman ay nasasakal na (pati na ang relasyon na mismo) sa bago at kakaiba niyang ugali na ipinapakita.

    kung tunay ngang ganyan lamang ang sitwasyon, ay baka kailangang baguhin ang pamosong linyang yan:

    i need some time for myself. im doing this for us. and when i come back, trust me, it's for good.

    just my two cents. (in phil. currency, of course) :)
  • haha. delikado yan. na-isahan na ako ng linyang yan!
  • luma na yan line na yan... pag sinabi yan sa yo.. ibig sabihin nun pwede mo na syang sipain..... i ready mo na sarili mo... lahat ng pwedeng mong kopyahin na mp3 kunin mo na dahil sandali na lang kukunin na nya yung mga CDs nya at sasabihin sa yo na break na kayo...
  • unti-untiin mo na rin yung mga gamit mo na naiwan mo sa kanila. kung hindi, sige ka... baka masama yan sa bonfire....
  • eto ang sinabi sa akin...

    sa sarili ko nga wala ako time...busy lang talaga...

    bad trip di ba???
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