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How will u ask a guy out?

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In a gym, Have you tried asking a guy out? if yes, any tips? I find him so suplado sometimes cranky, but me x-factor naman....:love: :naughty:
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  • try mo daanin sa joke pero meron naman guys na mas ok kapag direct to the point ung girl...
  • ganito lang style dyan " psssst/oist labas tayo" :lol:
  • pede na un sabi si shey... he wont find it malicious i guess... unless you make any gestures that would give him the idea that u somehow u want more than that....
  • ok lang yun direct to the point ika nga
  • ^shey dapat wholesome ang pag psssttt mo heheh!

    parang di ko yata kaya yun
  • cranky nga e, will you risk being rejected? what will you do afterwards? bat kasi andaming guys na kyut...andami ko nang butterfly in my stomach right now...:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :love:
  • hehehe.. never tried to ask a guy out sa gym.. pero sa ibang lugar like sa office or somewhere, ganto lang yan.. "di ka ba nagugutom? gusto mo akong ilibre? halika kain tayo! hahahaha! sige na nga KKB na!"

    ayun!
  • ^ayaw ko ng cute, gusto ko panget para wala ako ng kaagaw . :)
  • violetbabevioletbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mareng mikoy! teka uu nga... may relevance ba ang gym? anu meron sa gym? hahaha!

    sydney, just be casual in asking him out. that way hindi rin obvious ang rejection at mas madali ihandle. mas okay gamitin ang "hang out" pag inaaya mo sya *okay*
  • pasimple.

    "while talking to him put him on the spot, like an offer he can't refuse... "samahan moko bili sapatos for gym" ayun tapos shempre kakain na kayo nun and everything. :glee:
  • ask him if he's free for that specific day and pasama ka lang...
  • Just ask. :-)
  • Pag payday o shopping day sabihin mo wala kang kasama sa mall. kailangan mo ng kasama. HAHAHAHAHA tapos pasalamatan mo siya by giving him afree meal at a fastfood..... tapos next time imbitahin mo uli tuwing sweldo tapos ilibre mo uli tapos sabihin mo manuod kayo ng movie.....unti-unti harharharahrahar. Hingan mo siya ng opinyon ukol sa mga bibilin mo. Dapat methodical at systematic yung pagsilo at paglandi may timetable...may pattern. Maghanap ka ng common hobbies o past time niyo ...para me excuse ka na hiraman mo siya ng gamit at may excuse ka kung ano ang pwede niyong puntahan sa mall.
  • pag mabait ang guy he won't refuse lalo na pag sagot mo lahat, baka humingi pa ng kasunod un...
  • Remember, maski na hindi ka gaano type nung guy madadaan iyan sa lambing at mai-inlove at magiging addict din sa iyo yung guy.

    Ililibre mo naman siya ng kain/fastfood. Di me excuse ka na as something in return for accompanying you. Pa-simple iyan pero effective.

    TIP: Gumawa ka ng listahan sa papel kung paano mo siya ma-e-engage sa mga long conversations. Conversations that will enable you to probe deeop into the person's values and character without him knowing that you are peering into the guys's character.
  • Remember, maski na hindi ka gaano type nung guy madadaan iyan sa lambing at mai-inlove at magiging addict din sa iyo yung guy.

    Ililibre mo naman siya ng kain/fastfood. Di me excuse ka na as something in return for accompanying you. Pa-simple iyan pero effective.

    TIP: Gumawa ka ng listahan sa papel kung paano mo siya ma-e-engage sa mga long conversations. Conversations that will enable you to probe deeop into the person's values and character without him knowing that you are peering into the guys's character.

    from the expert...
  • Yan kasi ang nangyari sa akin, ginawa nung girl sa akin....dati.

    Meron rin kasi akong mga books kung paano manligaw ang mga babae at lalaki.

    Pati ang trip to the supermarket on paydays can be manipulated for you to snare the guy.

    Tip: Kung may common friends kayo pwede mo rin hingan ng tulong as "emissaries"; they could also be "deployed" to create situations for you to be together. Just beware of guys who are sexual predators.
  • pinoynetwit ano naman tip mo for girls who are "torpe" takot sa rejection
  • violetbabevioletbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Remember, maski na hindi ka gaano type nung guy madadaan iyan sa lambing at mai-inlove at magiging addict din sa iyo yung guy.

    Ililibre mo naman siya ng kain/fastfood. Di me excuse ka na as something in return for accompanying you. Pa-simple iyan pero effective.

    actually hindi rin lagi nagwowork yan. trust me. *okay* madami rin mautak na guys and hindi papabihag sa ganyang strategy and some would just use you. ;)
  • chey28 wrote: »
    pinoynetwit ano naman tip mo for girls who are "torpe" takot sa rejection


    Ang tingin ko dyan, karapatan niyo ring mga kababaihan na pumili ng mate niyo same way na karapatan namin na pumili ng gusto naming chicks. Kung kayo rin kasi maghihintay lang ng manliligaw limitado ang choices niyo at baka yung mga "admirers" niyo kulang sa specifications/character traits na hinahanap niyo. Kaya kung ang chick takot sa rejection maghanap siya ng mga libro sa mga bookstores...sa Psychology section concerning the differences between man and woman in a relationsgip similar to the book "men are from mars women are from venus". sa Powerbooks Glorietta may nakita akong several books with the same topic. Makikita niyo dun kung paano "naka-program" ang mga utak ng babae at lalaki and how to adjust to the opposite sex's inherent character traits. Lalakas ang self-confidence niyo kung alam niyo kung paano mag-isip ang mga lalaki.

    As an example:

    Women treat meal times as a way of bonding and strengthening their friendship with their colleagues. Its not just a time for nourishment. Kaya normal to see women chatting with their friends during meal times

    Men are programned to treat mealtimes in a utilitarian manner...nourishment. That is why it is more common to see men eating by themselves. That is why I am usually perplexed when asked by girls[yes, its always the girls who ask me] why I usually eat alone.
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