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when woman is older than man

for me the ideal is 28 for man and 25 for girl.

my girlfriend is three years older than me, i am 23 and she is 26... at 23 i am still unemployed, no savings and dependent with my parents and i still have plans for my self.

my girlfriend is somehow fulfilled... opposite of what ive mentioned above.

i am sad kapag nakikita ko girl friend ko na gusto na niyang magkababy... wedding, christening and birthday parties... kami wala pa kahit na isa doon... she is patiently waiting for me... siyempre ayaw naman namin ng hindi kami ready...

pero kung ikaw ang girl hanggang kailan ka maghihintay? kasi i am going to us and stay there for two years, part time work and study lang. kailan pa ako makakaipon?
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  • for me the ideal is 28 for man and 25 for girl.

    - --for me sa love kase there's no such thing as an ideal age, as long as you love each other kahit ano pa age gaps nyo....
    pero kung ikaw ang girl hanggang kailan ka maghihintay? kasi i am going to us and stay there for two years, part time work and study lang. kailan pa ako makakaipon?

    kung ako yung gurl hanggat mahal ko pa yung guy makakapaghintay ako, at kung ako yung gurl syempre hihintayin ko muna na maging ready kami emotinaly, spriritualy and financialy bago kami magpakasal at magkababy...
    *okay*
  • be practical about it. you will be going to the U.S., the filipinas there are more liberated and more outgoing. its easier to go out with a filipina from abroad than someone sa pinas. but that depends on how charming you are, or if you can compare to the competition. its guaranteed already that you will have a crush with at least 2 girls in those two years. =)

    then you look at your girlfriend... shes 26 and waiting. will she wait for 2 years? what will she be doing then? would you still really know each other when you two see each other again? your relationship will depend on how strong your bond is with each other. or how about "do you trust each other?" ask and answer questions about each other and then decide whether to continue with the relationship or not.
  • Paano pag ala "Mrs. Robinson" yung dating ng story niyo? hehe! Other guys will find it hot to have an older woman in their life...

    Back to your problem, kawawa naman GF mo aantayin ka. Pero can you handle it? Can she handle it? alam mo bang mahirap din malayo sa loveones mo? Paano kung pareho niyo maout grown yun isat isa and makahanap kayo ng iba.. I'm just giving you scenario which really happens in real life....
  • same situation tayo..im 26 and my bf is 23..im here at dubai and he's in the phils..im established na in my career in the phils but chose to go here to dubai..sa ngayon i don't have work..si bf nman bagong lipat lang sa work nya..and just 4 mos there..wala pa kaming ipon..at sa ngayon di pa established mga careers namin..napag-uusapan ang kasal but that will take 3 years from now...im willing to wait for him..ang kailangan lang talaga open communication..it takes two to tango..so the two of you really has to exert each one's effort..

    in ur situation make sure you always keep in touch..make her as ur inspiration..baka kasi ul be too much absorb by your work,studies plus those girls at the side (nasa US ka pa nman)..always remind to ur girl that u love her so much and that ur keeping her trust..if you really love each other everything will turn out well..and do always pray it will help a lot..
  • Ang hirap neto. Some say na mas emotionally mature ang women by 3-4 years.
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    i could relate period :lol:
  • thats_hot wrote:
    Ang hirap neto. Some say na mas emotionally mature ang women by 3-4 years.

    This is so true! Hindi man tayo man tayo mas mature sa mga guys sa ibang aspects, pero pagdating sa emotional maturity, panalo tayo dyan. madalas lang atayo masabihan ng mga guys na madrama, maarte, etc. Hindi lang kase sila magpakatotoo sa nefefeel nila, they just wanna keep it to themselves... :lol:
  • pero in my case im blessed kasi si bf ko very mature..ako pa ata ang childish..:)
  • agree ako na mas maaga mag mature ang mga babae kaya nga mas prefer ng mga babae na medyo older para alam na nung guy kung ano gusto nya,

    in your case, ready ka na ba talaga sa ganung set up, maraming temptation lalo na nasa ibang bansa ka at kumikita ka, tingin ko ready na talaga ung gf mo, ikaw ready ka na ba talaga? yun na ba talaga ung gusto mo? baka kasi na pre-pressure ka lang
  • Buti nalang girls mature faster than boys... We are blessed ladies!!! haha :bashful:


    *peace*


  • prang di kyo magkatugma sa gusto nyong mangyari. pagdating mo
    sa us... maiba na angyong pananaw at takbo ng buhay. prang
    mapapalayo kyo kaysa sa papalapit sa isa't isa.

    kelan kya ako magka-baby? nagduduwal nako sa umaga noh!

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita


  • not much of a problem really.
    my "de-facto" wife is 5 years older than me and sometimes I find it amusing that I'm the more "mature" person.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    alam mo... LOVERBOY depende sa personality
    mo... ikaw ba yung tipong LAPITIN NG
    CHICKS...HABULIN... or yung tipong MANYAKIS...
    na di manakali... anu ba yung CHARM factor mo sa
    CHICKS?? ( tinatanong ko kasi depende rin sa iyo..
    kasi tingin ko... matino naman GF mo )


    or ikaw ba yung laidback.. na tipong stick to one...
    at mas prefer mo yung QUALITY RELATIONSHIP kesa
    QUANTITY...


    kasi kung sa tingin mo yung pinagsamahan niyo
    ng GF... mo yung tipong ginagalang at vinavalue mo...
    na tipong di mo makikita sa ibang babae, or marami
    siyang kabuluhan at lessons sa buhay ka na natutunan
    dahil sa kaniya... na di mo yata makukuha sa iba...
    or matututunan sa iba...


    SHE'S WORTH YOU'RE PATIENCE & DEVOTION.

    maraming adjustments/ sacrifices na kailangan
    gawin... we can't have it all... pero
    REAL LOVE
    WINS IT ALL...

    depende nga sa BONDING niyo...
    tanong mo rin sa
    kaniya kung okay lang LONG DISTANCE sa kaniya...
    saka... 2years *mabilis lang yun*

    kahit naman 30+age na kayo bumuo ng family...
    atleast (may TRUE LOVE ka na ... stable pa financially)
  • I have an officemate - 38 yun girl with 2 kids (pero single siya) and the guy is 28 --- pero it did not work out
  • i'm a 15 year girl and i now live here in england. noon isang araw lang, my friend ako na i've been close friends almost a year now but i've known him for few years; he asked me out, as in tinanong nya ako kung pwede akong maging gf nya. his in the year below me. i said no cos syempre pag nasa skool pa kayo medyo talk of the town kayo kapag you go out with some one different age from you.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    honestly i'm considering younger men.. :lol:
    they're not just appealing physically/ galing pumorma
    and most of them
    (yata) hopeless romantic like I AM... saka simple
    lang kaligayahan (pa-naive/ pa-sweet)... fun-loving...
    baby---hin ka talaga... mas marunong makinig....

    plus the older guys its either daming BAGGAGE...
    and STANDARDS... or MASUNGIT usually...
    pero they go for really younger women...
    :lol:
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    but i don't know pero sa tingin ko...
    younger guys... know when to be serious...
    they're childish pero... they just know in their heart...
    when to treat a girl SERIOUSLY...
    pero they can be distracted easily... with all the
    attractive women... their eyes can view....

    men na older naman... can't figure them
    much?! :confused:
    they love the hunt/chase...& most of them they're
    not that sensitive enough & they're caught up with
    work...
    plus most of them are egoistic...

    & they want someone na "yaya" figure... :lol:
    sunud-sunuran sa kanila...
    at ang kasungitan nila hindi matawaran!!!
    then again di lahat masungit... mostly
    THEY'RE MORE IMMATURE THAN THE YOUNGER
    MEN...
    :hmm:
  • ahh .. you're 23 and she's 26 .. and what's the problem? you love each other that is what matters. don't worry too much about your future .. go with the flow, deal with whatever comes when it happens. get past the age thing .. you two understand each other .. age does not matter.
  • quite understandable because the girl is already at that age...


  • tatawagin ko si madam auring... at sya ang sasagot sayong tanong noh!
    sa kainitan ng lovelife ni madam auring sa batang-batang binata... de vaah
    sinabi pa ni madam auring na bka buntis sya? loka-loka sya!

    dakpin si madam auring at dalhin sa mental ospital... pronto, pronto!!

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita



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