When 2 have sexual intercourse after giving birth?

Hi pwede po ba etong topic ko d2? May gusto lang po ako malaman

mga mommies/housewives, i need your insights please

I just gave birth last June 15 lang po. Nagstop ung bleeding ko mga one month after, then ngkaron ako ng mens last July 25-28.

Question lang, is it still safe if im having sex na agad with my husband (let's say from 29th up to present) pero di nman po araw-araw :D at we're using withdrawal naman.

sa August 13 pa kase ung next check up ko with my OB and un palng ung time na bibigyan nya ko ng pills. Actually ang sabe nya is right after my first period pumunta nko sa knya kaya lang nde pa ko mkpunta kase medyo busy.

Medyo nttkot kase ako na msundan agad si bebi, wala pa shang 2 months..possible ba tlaga un? please give advise!
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  • mommyjovitamommyjovita in despair! PExer
    ako kasi medyo matagal yung first contact namin after i gave birth. my son was born december 29 then nung bumalik ako sa ob ko after 2 wks yata and sabi niya best daw kung hintayin mga 3 - 4 months before kami magtabi uli kasi kahit daw magaling na yung tahi yung sa loob daw (uterus nga ba yung pinagalisan ng placenta) hindi daw agad totally healed yun and this will make me vulnerable to infections kung magcontact agad ng hindi pa totally healed yung loob. tsaka kasi matagal pa ko bago nagkamens uli at bilin kasi ng pinsan ko na wag na wag magtatabi hanggat di pa ko nagkakaron kasi malaki yung risk na mabuntis. since withdrawal naman pala kayo i believe safe naman kung ang worry mo lang e baka mabuntis ka agad.
  • sabaybunotsabaybunot I'm your Daddy!! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    FYI withrawal is NOT a sure fire way not to get pregnant..


    there's such a thing as pre cum.. and you'd never know if he has squirted a bit before pulling it out
  • KuyaDannyKuyaDanny Moderator PEx Moderator
    Have you considered Frenzy?
  • ka_entengka_enteng Banned by Admin PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    sabaybunot wrote:
    FYI withrawal is NOT a sure fire way not to get pregnant..


    there's such a thing as pre cum.. and you'd never know if he has squirted a bit before pulling it out


    luma at gasgas na ang advice na yan.

    kung dati nyu ng ginagawa ang withdrawal at di naman nabuntis si misis e di ituloy nyu. alam nyu na ginagawa nyu pag ganun.

    halos 4 yrs din naming ginamit ni misis yang withdrawal, pero di kami pumalpak.

    pede ng makipag-sex after 6 weeks, pero pag normal ka, at least 8 weeks.
  • moonstermoonster My LiL bEaR PExer
    IMHO, its better to wait until regular na talaga yung period mo para di kayo sumablay sa pagbibilang. (that's if rhythm method gamitin nyo.. Day 1-20 daw ang safe sabi ng OB ko. The first day of your period is considered as Day 1) Kasi dapat sigurado ka na mens mo na talaga yun. Like me, i gave birth June 7. after a month, dinugo nako akala ko yun na. false alarm pala. parang spotting lang. Posibleng masundan agad kung nagcontact na kami ng husband ko! Mas maganda magpa-heal muna physically (yup tama sabi ni mommyjovita, pwede ma-infect) tsaka concentrate muna sa pagalaga kay baby :)

    pero kung di talaga mapigilan, tama use Frenzy hehe :D
  • civicrs2k2civicrs2k2 Member PExer
    go lang ng go. hehehe
  • fatbigfatbig Member PExer
    Sabi ng friend ko who delivered through CS pa, sabi daw ng OB nya, they can start having sex anytime basta hindi na painful yung wound nya... ano ba talaga? Is it really true na very high ang chance to get pregnant kaagad again when you have sex BEFORE you get your period after delivery?
  • mulberry_memulberry_me Member PExer
    For those who can't wait and is not bothered to get pregnant right away, my doctor says actually pwede na 2 weeks after giving birth but expect to experience pain from the wound for those who gave birth via normal delivery pero it would be better to wait until after 2 months (pag regular na uli ang period) to resume normal sexual activities para di na painful and para you can work on a schedule to not get pregnant right away.:D
  • cassanovacassanova Member PExer
    hello po... a lil related din po ang question ko. pde nyo po ba ako ma-enlighten sa ryhthm method. pano ba iyon? i mean pano ung counting & calendaring? ito kc method na naisip ko gamitin. i just gave birth last sept 28, 2006. regular nman po ang period ko pro d pa ako nagkakaroon ulit since napreggy ako. pls advice....thanks in advance
  • avonleaavonlea Moderator PExer
    better wait and ask your OB on your post-pregnancy check-up...
  • sneezysneezy galit sa panget PExer
    ^^yeah. usually at your 6 wk postpartum checkup (where they also do a pap smear), your OB will discuss various forms of contraception.
  • angela_laoangela_lao Member PExer
    I believe tama nga to wait after 3 months... or whenever reglar na period mo and fully healed na yun tahi
  • Ice BurnIce Burn Conflicting Karma PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    KuyaDanny wrote:
    Have you considered Frenzy?

    Shamless plug! :rotflmao:
  • flimmeryrose741flimmeryrose741 Banned by Admin PExer
    why is pinoyexchange advertising "Frenzy" condoms?
    It's kind of inappropriate since some of the pexers are actually - not adults yet. And we are filipinos, our culture is about being conservative.
  • GolliwogGolliwog Banned by Admin PExer
    Flimmery, anong ginagawa mo sa forum na to? Basahin mo ng maigi ha. PARENTING 101 tapos ang titulo ng thread ay When 2 have sexual intercourse after giving birth? Para sa mga magulang, para sa mga nagkaanak na. Hinde pang bata or pang retarded na gaya mo.

    At ang Frenzy nag-bayad ng Ad space na kailangan ng PEX. Wag mo ngang ipag-pilitan na conservative mga pinoy. Para condom lang nagpapaka-moralista ka eh tibo ka naman.
  • Princess_17Princess_17 Member PExer
    May tanong po ako kapapanganak ko plang po netong sept 17,2016 tapos after 2 weeks may ng yari samin ng asawa ko. Possible po bang mabuntis ulit ako?
  • stingray1059stingray1059 15 year pexer, break that! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    di pa nga gumapang si baby, gumagapang na si daddy.
  • i just gave birth last sept 7.
    then its normal na dnudugo pa dba for almost a month.
    then mga bandang aug. 10 dnugo ult ako hanggang 15 then nwala ult. aftr 3 days ngkaron ult ako.

    tapos bago mag 2 months *** baby ko nagcontact kami ng asawa ko, we used widthrawal method.may possibility ba na mabuntis ako??
    d pa ako nagkakamens til now. im worried, pls response.thankyou
  • ask ko lang po. july 9 po ako nanganak via cesarian, and 1month na si baby. pwede na po ba ako makipag contact kay hubby? safe rin po ba gumamit ng condom?
  • lordlapulapulordlapulapu PEx Rookie ⭐
    ask ko lang po. july 9 po ako nanganak via cesarian, and 1month na si baby. pwede na po ba ako makipag contact kay hubby? safe rin po ba gumamit ng condom?

    Ito po sana makatulong sa katanungan ninyo:

    When Can You Have Sex After a C-Section?


    Why Wait Before Having Sex?

    After having a cesarean you will still need to wait about six weeks before having sex. You will have your six-week postpartum check-up at this time. Your doctor or midwife will want to ensure that your incision is healing well and that your postpartum bleeding has stopped.

    Many women and their partners believe that they will be able to have sex right away since they had a c-section. They believe erroneously that the blood has been removed and that there won't be any bleeding after a surgical birth. However, this bleeding comes from inside the uterus, at the site where the placenta was located. This bleeding happens to all mothers, regardless of how they gave birth.

    It takes your body about six weeks to heal the inside of the uterus and for the cervix to fully close back up. This is why all postpartum women are told to avoid intercourse and use tampons until they have had their six-week check-up.

    Sexual Positions to Avoid

    When you are given the go-ahead for sex, typically at your postpartum visit at six weeks, you need to consider some other factors before deciding that now is the right time for you and your partner. For example, if your incision is still tender, you may be worried that positions like the missionary position will put too much pressure on the incision and will hurt. You may wish to use a position where you have the woman on top, or a side or rear entry position to avoid direct contact with your incision.​

    While the incision is healed around the six-week mark in most women, there is still a chance that you are sensitive to pressure on it. You may also note that you have some numbness or tingling. This is normal. However, pain should be reported to your practitioner immediately.

    Vaginal Lubrication

    You may also want to check into vaginal lubricants to assist you in making this experience as pleasant as possible. Most moms have some issues with lubrication, particularly if they are breastfeeding or taking hormonal birth control. This is due to hormones and happens regardless of how you gave birth.

    In addition to using store-bought lubrication, remember that foreplay can help increase the amount of lubrication that your body naturally makes. Try to be sure to include the time for lots of hugging, kissing, massage, and more.

    While time is a precious commodity when having a new baby, try to incorporate touching your partner throughout the day. This can include things like holding hands when walking, playing footsies at dinner, or even snuggling on the couch while you feed the baby and watch television. These small things help with your feelings of love and support and can help increase the lubrication.



    https://www.verywellfamily.com/sex-after-a-c-section-2759420

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