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selosa pala yung asawa

dunno if this is the right forum but this is my situation:

I'm friends with this married guy...as in, walang malice tlga. I even call him 'kuya ____'. I help him out sa school kasi naaawa ako sa kanya. He's got 4 kids and his eldest is almost going to jail. I haven't seen him for a long time. The last thing he said to me was gusto niya same class kami sa next semester malamang it's because i help him out with his homework. Then, lo and behold, one morning, the wife calls me. Here's the conversation :

Wife: Is this <my name>?
Me: yeah...may i know who's this?
wife: (long silence)
me: hello? hello?
wife: do u know <husband's name>?
me: <husband's name> who? (kasi common yung name niya)
wife : do u know <husband's name+family name>?
me: yes...we're in the same class (cuz he want back to college)
(followed by a very long, uncomfortable silence so i asked again)
me: may i know who's this pls?
wife: this is his wife. (another long pause)
(i didn't know what to say) then she dropped the phone.

geeezzz after that, i was so shocked!!! if only she knew me, she'd know that i am the last person on earth to have an affair (married or otherwise)...dios ko after what happened in my past, i would never dream of hurting another person in that way (golden rule and all that) but this is my dilemma...ano na gagawin ko? classmate pa naman kami next sem

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  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐


    di nman maiwasan ang selos lalo na pag ikinikwento ka sa asawa bilang mahalaga o malaking papel ang ginagampanan. pra di maging kontrabida sa buhay mag-asawa... establish friendship with his wife. this will help resolve any suspicions. still beware... know where your limits are, intiende?

    makabili nanga ng talong, patola, talong ulit, kamote. kamote?

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita


  • baka the guy has a thing for you tapos nahalata ng wife or nakukuwento ka lang sa wife nya... napaka-insecure naman nun! pabayaan mo na lang.. wag mo na isipin, since magiging classmates uli kayo ng guy. pag tinawagan ka uli ng wife nya, tapos binastos ka, unahan mo bagsakan ng phone. siya ang may problema, hindi ikaw.
  • bored2deathbored2death PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    just let it pass.....for now.

    maybe she's just checking you out..(bakit nya alam number mo?)

    and she didn't say anything bad naman. the putting down of the phone? i'm sure kaba to the max din sya on the other line.


    as long as you know wala naman kayong relasyon ng husband nya, let it be.
  • the wife's threatened with your presence kaya tinawagan ka. just as long as wala naman kayong ginagawang off-limits ng asawa nya, hayaan mo na lang. wag ka na lang magreklamo sa lalaki dahil mapapahiya lang yung guy and baka i-confront pa si misis, mas lalong magseselos yun. binabaan ka ng telepono, hayaan mo kung dun sya masaya :D
  • sabaybunotsabaybunot PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    thats the trouble when women fiddle with your cellphone...
  • simoen, no worries .. thre's no need to change or do anything. the wife is the one who has a problem not you.

    i had a similar experience. i used to work with this filipino guy. then i bumped into him with his wife and daughter at a party. he introduced his wife and daughter to me, and i said hi and smiled. after that .. the wife and daughter would wait for my male co-worker at dismissal time,everyday,of course when i saw them i would just say hi. then i started getting calls, when i answered the woman on the other line woudl yell, " malandi! .. sagot ako .." mas malandi ka!" .. but i did not know who it was. then my male co-worker admitted that his wife was jealous of me and was the one making those harrassing calls. yun pala, in the past kasi he had an affair with a Filipino co-worker. l .. i just said, " well, better make her stop harrasing me, or i'll report her to the police .. and .. tell her .. she has no reasons to be jealous of me, i don't call you, we don't go out .. i'm married, in fact i just had a baby a year ago." .. She stopped! aysus! nagseselos siya wala naman siyang ebidensya na me relasyon kami ng husband niya.
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐


    naalala ko laang ang nakita ko ilang taon ang nakaraan. napaaga ang uwi ni mister dahil may biniling sorpresa pra sa asawa. nang binuksan nya ang pintuan ng bahay nilakas nya boses, "sweetheart, I'm home!"

    ilang sandali ay tumawag ulit si mister sa asawa. mga ilang minuto pa ay biglang may humarorot na lalake palabas ng bahay... nakahubad. nakita ni mister ang misis nya na nagmamadaling nagbibihis sa kwarto.

    nakita kong jinajabol ni mister ang lalake sa kalye... hawak ni mister ay itak at balisong sabay sumigaw ng malaswang salita. nakatakas ang kalaguyo pro kung naabutan sya... tyak por kilo ang kalabasan ng kabit.

    kita ng mga usyusero't usyusera ang lalakeng tumatakbo... puno ng tattoo ang katawan, hubad at supot. habang sumisibat... biglang nalaglag ang condom...

    aihihihi!!! :)

    baklita


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