Well ikaw bahala mag set ng limitations...where to draw the line and you have to make sure your friend knows about this...and UNDERSTANDS this. Just lay out all the cards. Para walang complications later on.
hayyy...cguro nga i might as well drop the idea n lng...in my case kc i still have feelings for the guy...cia un may gus2 ng gnung situation...kawawa nmn ako kung papayag ako s gus2 nyang mngyari...ayaw ko nmn n mging fubu n lng kmi when in fact i still love him...unfair nmn un sa part ko... :(
hmmm friends w/ benefits sounds fun...
pero possible na un? na u start as fubus and eventually nafafall na ung isa or both of u w/ each other...
well, i never had any... and i got a serious GF now... so i think my chances of having a fubu is really slim. haha not unless i find sum1 here at work. nyehehe... keep posting guys.. wanna know more bout these stuffs
well if u think u can handle it why not? pero dpat alam mo lang kung hanggang saan lang dpat.Its really hard sa part mo but u might as well do it with someone you have feelings for d b? rather than wla.Still, u need to keep ur guards up on that matter.Dont be in a hurry for some things,ur still young i guess. Don't be blinded by what you think is right,there will always be time for everything. Stay Happy ok? : )
Feelings can ruin friendships, what more a friendship with benefits?
The situation is actually ideal for a man and a woman who has gone through so much in relationships, do not want to commit at the moment yet wants to enjoy the feeling of having someone physically and emotionally at times when the need arises. Someone you could cry your heart out to with the extra benefit of getting a hug, a kiss and more. . .(I heard it relieves stress, hahahaha). Nice, right? It actually prevents any heartaches since there should be no expectations. It prevents anything that might give you the same feeling of having a committed relationship again. . . one that you cannot probably handle at the moment.
But when you have feelings for the person, friends with benefits will never work. It defies the very foundation that put it into existence and obviously, you wanted more than friendship which in the end, defies the purpose of the "friends with benefits set up" .
Haha, nalito ata ako sa sinabi ko.
Pero masarap siya. If you can really handle it and find a nice person to be with, okay ata siya. I mean I do want a committed relationship, perhaps in the future. But when hearts are bleeding all you ever really need is a friend. . . as for the benefits, make sure you benefit though if he will. Ganun lang yun.
hmmm friends w/ benefits sounds fun...
pero possible na un? na u start as fubus and eventually nafafall na ung isa or both of u w/ each other...
very possible
well, i never had any... and i got a serious GF now... so i think my chances of having a fubu is really slim. haha not unless i find sum1 here at work. nyehehe... keep posting guys.. wanna know more bout these stuffs
haha! may mga kakilala ako na may mga gf at bf na may mga fb's sila! it's a matter of being discreet na lang at parang professional level ang deal nila --- professional talaga ung term eh! :bop: minus the bayad bayad nga lang heheh
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pwede! :rotflmao:
-aYi-, the difference between "friends with benefits" to "ex with benefits" is that when you're friends... you're friends who have sex.
"ex with benefits" is when you have had a relationship before, decided to split up, but you still have sex.
*okay*
pero possible na un? na u start as fubus and eventually nafafall na ung isa or both of u w/ each other...
well, i never had any... and i got a serious GF now... so i think my chances of having a fubu is really slim. haha not unless i find sum1 here at work. nyehehe... keep posting guys.. wanna know more bout these stuffs
The situation is actually ideal for a man and a woman who has gone through so much in relationships, do not want to commit at the moment yet wants to enjoy the feeling of having someone physically and emotionally at times when the need arises. Someone you could cry your heart out to with the extra benefit of getting a hug, a kiss and more. . .(I heard it relieves stress, hahahaha). Nice, right? It actually prevents any heartaches since there should be no expectations. It prevents anything that might give you the same feeling of having a committed relationship again. . . one that you cannot probably handle at the moment.
But when you have feelings for the person, friends with benefits will never work. It defies the very foundation that put it into existence and obviously, you wanted more than friendship which in the end, defies the purpose of the "friends with benefits set up" .
Haha, nalito ata ako sa sinabi ko.
Pero masarap siya. If you can really handle it and find a nice person to be with, okay ata siya. I mean I do want a committed relationship, perhaps in the future. But when hearts are bleeding all you ever really need is a friend. . . as for the benefits, make sure you benefit though if he will. Ganun lang yun.
very possible
haha! may mga kakilala ako na may mga gf at bf na may mga fb's sila! it's a matter of being discreet na lang at parang professional level ang deal nila --- professional talaga ung term eh! :bop: minus the bayad bayad nga lang heheh