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Ending Courtship

Let's say you courted someone and things were okay. Di lang naging kayo kasi di ka pa nag-aask. Then for some reason, you know you can't afford to be in an intimate relationship anymore. Do you really say it to the other party or do you just fade away?

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  • Ive been in that situation narin, and personally I do the fade away style. Pero The girls usually say its better to say it, than let them feel it. Mas magsu-suffer daw sila pag ganun. Same with guys din.

    Pero tlaga bang nililigawan mo sya, or testing the waters kalang? AKA flirting game
  • naku, mahirap yan man, lalo na pag gusto ka na rin ng girl...pero it's kinda better na parehas mo'ng gawin, sabihin mo and then, magmissing in action ka =)
  • Nahihiya kasi ako talaga... and honestly im not the verbal type....
  • slowly fade away. as in slowly... since you're the silent type. :)
  • clone19 wrote:
    Nahihiya kasi ako talaga... and honestly im not the verbal type....
    ...in short tyope!?
  • im inda same sit. kttpos lng nmin mgtxt knna, mdyo malabo na tlgang mging kmi, so ngaun di ko lam kung pno mglalaho nlng sa sit. nmin, for me cgro mas sanay ako na fading effects nlng kesa sbhin mo, atleast ung fading effects anytym of d moment pg miss mo sya at di mo na mpigil, u can stil txt her, kase la nmn kau closure... tama ba??
  • why not keep the friendship n lang, instead na iwan nyo siya? alam nyo yun, kyo ba? do you have the slightest idea how it feels when ur being left in the lurch???
  • yobiyobi PExer
    for me its better if you would just fade away. alam ko na ang ibig sabihin kapag ndi ka nagparamdam. ndi na kelangan pang marinig ko na ayaw mo na sakin.
  • for me its better if you would just fade away. alam ko na ang ibig sabihin kapag ndi ka nagparamdam. ndi na kelangan pang marinig ko na ayaw mo na sakin.
  • for me its better if you would just fade away. alam ko na ang ibig sabihin kapag ndi ka nagparamdam. ndi na kelangan pang marinig ko na ayaw mo na sakin.
  • Be a man about it, don't just fade away. It pays to say what you feel. You started this, might as well end this nicely. Me pinagsamahan pa din naman kau kahet pano. There's always a first time for everybody and maybe this is your first. Grow up!
  • /\ i totally agree! *okay*

    one of the traits i hate about men is that they love to keep girls hanging when they suddenly realized their feelings ain't enough to commit themselves. that's bullsh*it!

    i think you should tell the girl, you owe her that.
  • winriver wrote:
    Be a man about it, don't just fade away. It pays to say what you feel. You started this, might as well end this nicely. Me pinagsamahan pa din naman kau kahet pano. There's always a first time for everybody and maybe this is your first. Grow up!

    ay halika papakilala kita dun sa kakilala ko tapos SABIHIN mo un sa kanya ha*okay*

    ...sorry pinagtatanggol ko lng friend ko.. not from pex*peace*
  • bbbbbbbbbbbb PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ganto yang feeling na yan e..

    kunwari may outing kayo. excited na excited ka na kaya umuwi ka ng bahay ng maaga galing school, nag cut-class ka pa nga. tapos syempre pagdating mo sa bahay kala mo maaga pa kaya walang tao. so, ginawa mo, nag-empake ka na ng mga gamit mo. tapos intay ka ng intay hanggang sa may nagtext sayo na nakarating na pala yung mga dapat na kasama mo sa outing sa destination nila. in other words, naiwan ka.

    ngayon, alin ang mas masakit...

    ang sabihan kang hindi ka na kasama sa outing o umaasa kang makakasama pero hindi mo alam iniwanan ka na pala??


    think about it..
    pangit ang basta basta na lang nag-eevaporate...
  • definitely agree with you bbbbb. better if you say things out loud atleast things are clear and the girl doesn't need to wonder what the h--- happened.
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