hubby working abroad.. anyone?? how do u cope??

whisky

during pregnancy it is really important for the partner to be by her side at all times.. but, how are you going to cope up if your hubby is working abroad.. building the best life for his family..(wife & upcoming baby) mommies, how are going to deal with this kind of situation...

nesic

hi whisky...
when i was pregnant, my husband passed away. its the most difficult situation coz i cannot cry so much because it will affect my baby. i dont even have anyone around me. i have no other family.

having your husband thousands of miles away, its not so bad at all. why not try online messengers and use webcam? show your husband how much the baby has grown on your belly. keep in mind that your husband wants to be a good provider, that he has good intentions and plans for you and your baby.

the most important thing to do is you take care of your health and prepare everything for the "special" day.

whisky

i feel for you nesic.. uve been through alot.. and i am glad that u are way over it..thnks 4 ur comment.. that's exactly what we are doing..pictures, webcams,sms,and phone calls everytime to somehow ease the longings..

just keep the faith nesic..and things will turn the way u want it. nga pala.. i am the husband.. hehe..

purpleheadd07

whisky wrote:

nga pala.. i am the husband.. hehe..

natawa nman ako dto cos i was about to say "buti ka nga may asawa. we have another thread there for single mommies".

leng_r

question ko lang... worth it ba yung pagtatrabaho sa ibang bansa (na hindi kasama ang pamilya) for a "comfortable life" for the family? yung naiwan na family sa philippines may be comfortable, but how about the parent/s working abroad? maaaring nahihirapan siya/sila sa ibang bansa diba?
hindi ba importante rin yung togetherness, companionship, etc.?

whisky

working away from ur family is like hitting ur head on the wall.. iwould have to say that this is the most difficult thing to combat..generally speaking,the only purpose we chose to live and work here is for us to give our family the best life that we can give..and the only reward that we can get is to someday hear from our wives and childrens saying.. THANK YOU DAD... for sacricing your own happiness in order for us to have a better and comfortable future...

rapsatol

internet will somehow help in this kind of situation.
for both partner... just make the most of what u have at the moment (now).
dont scare yourself of the future.

blessedmom912

when i was 7 months preggy my hubby left to work overseas, until i gave birth (CS) it was very hard esp. pagkabuwanan mo na, but then after seeing my son di ko na naisip ang mga hirap being alone, he's coming home next week our baby will be 4 months 12 days.

froshie1

whisky wrote: »

during pregnancy it is really important for the partner to be by her side at all times.. but, how are you going to cope up if your hubby is working abroad.. building the best life for his family..(wife & upcoming baby) mommies, how are going to deal with this kind of situation...

pards, ganun ang Mama ko. pansin ko ginawa nilang mag-asawa nagfocus sila sa dreams nila at naka tatak sa isip nila na ang pagtatrabaho ng tatay ko sa ibang bansa ay hindi pang habang buhay at ito ay isang step para sa isang maginhawang buhay. naging ok naman. Noon nga nung pinanganak ako wala ang tatay ko sa tabi ng mama ko. Pero ok naman kami pare.