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Any Pinoy Males married to white women (or any other foreign group)?

This question has been bugging me for the longest time. But I notice their numbers are way fewer than the pinay women who marry foreigners. I do want to marry a foreign girl (a caucasian in particular, a group that I have a weak spot for). Its not that I don't like Filipinas or am ashamed of my Pinoyness or anything but they just don't interest me that much unlike the caucasian chicks. Make no mistake about it I am proudly Pinoy.

If anyone happens to be posting on this thread, please tell me where your wife comes from so I can know where my chances are strongest. And please tell me of your experiences so I know what to expect when I start looking and dating. Thanks...
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  • georgie dgeorgie d Member PExer
    Hi there

    I'm a white (Caucasian) English girl/woman. I'm not married to a Pinoy but I did meet a really nice guy when I came over for a trip over Christmas and New Year. We're constantly in touch by text and phone call and I'm coming back to see him for a couple of weeks in April and then coming over to live for 6 months in October. I don't know what to expect at all because I've never been attracted to any guys that weren't white. I live in London so its not like I don't get to meet loads of guys from different places but something struck me about him. So - not married to him (yet) but you never know!! Got to be realistic though - its not exactly going to be easy...

    I'm intrigued as to why you want a white wife. You have to bear in mind that white can mean all different things - do you mean English, or American or German or French or ... Just because we're white it doesn't mean we all have the same tendancies/temperaments etc.

    There seem to be a few Pinoys whose fantasy is to have a relationship with a white girl - but not many who would marry one - apart from you, and the guy I know!

    Check out this thread for some more 'insights' into Caucasian girls http://www.pinoyexchange.com/forums/showthread.php?p=13221888#post13221888

    By the way - if you want to meet one I'd suggest you get over to Europe, Australia or the US as we're in abundance over this side of the world!!

    G
  • maeve27maeve27 Member PExer
    not me..... but another client of my caterer.... she's British, he's Filipino. They got married last December. I think it's cute, because you don't see a white woman/pinoy often.
  • b_9904b_9904 The one and only PExer
    *BUMP*

    hmmm... i'd like to marry one but i still prefer to marry asian women... particularly filipina.
  • I wanna bump this up! If it can be moved to Buhay Pinoy, then by all means move this there! :D

    PEX needs a thread where Pinoy males can talk all about their experiences dating or getting married to Western women! If any of you Pinoy males out there have had experiences being with Western women, feel free to discuss it here in this thread! Thanks! *okay*
  • AzulbanirpalAzulbanirpal Member PEx Rookie ⭐
    Caucasian women are easier to go out on a date than pinays, sorry to say this. Pinays dami arte, hirap pang ligawan. I regret not entertaining foreign women before, even if they are the ones approaching me because I was pig headed in thinking that pinays are the only ones I should entertain.
    Oh yeah, may mga Hong Kong chinese din nagpakita interest but did not entertain them too.
  • fefsfefs Your Puppet and Clowm PExer
    may mga site ba na pwedeng makahanap ng mga ganyan?
  • Caucasian women are easier to go out on a date than pinays, sorry to say this. Pinays dami arte, hirap pang ligawan. I regret not entertaining foreign women before, even if they are the ones approaching me because I was pig headed in thinking that pinays are the only ones I should entertain.
    Oh yeah, may mga Hong Kong chinese din nagpakita interest but did not entertain them too.

    Never too late to start! I for one would rather have a foreign lady (open to any though I'm more attracted to Caucasian women - have been so ever since I was a kid) as the one who I'd settle down and begin a family with! Pinays, I just can't see them as anything more than friends, FUBU/casual sex, or one-night stand material! I'd love to encourage other Pinoy males to try dating foreign women and realize there are other options out there! It's a global world and Pinays know this! It's time that the rest of our fellow Pinoy menfolk do as well... :D
  • fefs wrote: »
    may mga site ba na pwedeng makahanap ng mga ganyan?

    Search for websites catering to AM/WF couples for starters via Google! You can go to websites like AZNLover.com if you need help in getting started! :)
  • AzulbanirpalAzulbanirpal Member PEx Rookie ⭐
    Never too late to start! I for one would rather have a foreign lady (open to any though I'm more attracted to Caucasian women - have been so ever since I was a kid) as the one who I'd settle down and begin a family with! Pinays, I just can't see them as anything more than friends, FUBU/casual sex, or one-night stand material! I'd love to encourage other Pinoy males to try dating foreign women and realize there are other options out there! It's a global world and Pinays know this! It's time that the rest of our fellow Pinoy menfolk do as well... :D

    Have a good friend of mine got married to a spanish girl, they even sent me an invitation to their wedding in spain which I did not attend due to hectic sched and could not afford a ticket. They just met online and up to now are happily married. *okay*

    Napansin ko lang madami sa pinay suplada or mataray. The prettier the worse, merun din pangit na, sungit pa. :lol:
    Seriously mas madali pa kausap mga puti, another thing is mas open sila sa interracial relationships even at a young age than pinays. Pinays will only entertain foreigners pag sobrang tanda na sila. :rotflmao:
    Russian women are not bad since they look good and are mostly hard up, they think that PI is greener pasture. :p
  • Have a good friend of mine got married to a spanish girl, they even sent me an invitation to their wedding in spain which I did not attend due to hectic sched and could not afford a ticket. They just met online and up to now are happily married. *okay*

    Napansin ko lang madami sa pinay suplada or mataray. The prettier the worse, merun din pangit na, sungit pa. :lol:
    Seriously mas madali pa kausap mga puti, another thing is mas open sila sa interracial relationships even at a young age than pinays. Pinays will only entertain foreigners pag sobrang tanda na sila. :rotflmao:
    Russian women are not bad since they look good and are mostly hard up, they think that PI is greener pasture. :p

    That's cool! We need more open-minded Pinoy guys to go out there... Anyway hope you got the PM I sent you yesterday though... Thanks... :)
  • sledge2136sledge2136 Member PExer
    Hi Guys,

    I just runned in to this thread and could'nt resist but to throw in my 2 cents, dammit!! I even registered myself to this forum just for this.
    Anyway, I too have been looking for a people having similar experience to mine. I a pure Filipino born in Manila and raised in San Pedro Laguna. I went to Dubai a few years back and there where I met my wife, she is pure Spanish from Madrid, Spain. We now have a wonderful 4 years old son.
    I must admit, It wasn't very easy when we started our relationship (2 years engaged before we got married). There were a lot of adjustmnents and conflicts of culture and interest that some of them almost shattered our relationship to pieces. But I love my wife so much and she loves me even more. So we hanged on tightly and patiently to each other. I guess she really did changed most of my views of the world and I changed hers as well. We learned to compromise our ways and learned to fuse them together in a way that we can both agree. Now we are happily married.
    Bottom line is; skin color doesn't really make much difference in a relationship. In my opinion it's each other's culture which affects the most, though like me and my wife, If you really love each other theres no boundaries on what you can do to keep it..

    I love my wife, if she would have been a Filipina or an African or a German or any other "...ans", I would love her all the same...
  • sledge2136sledge2136 Member PExer
    Some pointers for Filipinos (as in those born and raised in the Philippines) who are dating or about to date Western women:

    1. (The most important)Do not, I repeat DO NOT ask them how many men have they slept with in any point of your relationship. I know most of Filipinos are very particular with their woman being a virgin!!!Grow up!! it doesn't really matter. I bet you are not a virgin yourself!!
    2. Western women doesn't dig macho man type (siga ako sa baryo namin, ASTIG AKO). If you keep on talking about these, you will get dumped and left on the sidewalk.
    3. Act like a man, don't be shy or don't be too careful not to embarasse yourself. Speak up!! They like it when you embarase yourself sometimes for their sake.
    4. Don't be too "gentleman" (Opening a can of soda for her, carrying her handbag, etc.). They don't like these things, it makes them feel like you think they are incapable of doing things themselves. They don't like to be babi'ed, consider them as your equal, and besides, those girly handbags looks sooo freakin lame on you and it just makes you look so stupid.
    5. Dont act like a mad dog trying to protect his ovulating female when people (specially other guys) stares at your mate. It's normal, she is beautiful, let the whole world feel envy of you because you have been given the privileges to be with her and to be loved by her. THEY CAN LOOK BUT IF THEY TOUCH I KILL THEM...
    6. Keep in mind that she is not your's, you don't own her!!She is with you because she likes/loves you. Be CONTENT with that.
    5. Don't you ever try to tell them not to wear their tiny bikini because you think it's too revealing (See pointers 5 and 6). Take off you freakin T-shirt when swimming on the beach, they will feel embarase being with you if you don't.
    6. Forget about those women in ***** films you saw when you were a child, those are pornstars. NOrmal western women are just like any other women who deserves your respect and kindness.
    7. Dont even try to have an affair with other woman, that will be the end of your relationship. Western women may look kind and tolerance but they have such a strong principals when comes to betrayals. I don't even want to start with what I have to go through get my wife's forgivenes, and even so she is now so paranoid.
    8. Don't expect a western wife to always cook for you, clean your house, bath you, massage you, wash your clothes, wake you up in the morning and prepare your breakfast. Iron your clothes, etc..(see pointers 5 and 6). She is your wife/girlfriend and not your freakin maid nor your mother.
    9. THEY LOVE ADOBO!! at least my wife does.

    I guess that's about it, at least in my experience.
  • sledge2136sledge2136 Member PExer
    OH I forgot to mention..Forget about Jimmy Santos, Don't tell your partner that you love her 3X a day. Trust me, it will annoy her. For her, you action speaks for itself!!
  • papi26papi26 Member PExer
    hi georgie thanks for the info me my self also have passion for white girl especially europe have an awewsome day in phils ciao raffy

    georgie d wrote: »
    Hi there

    I'm a white (Caucasian) English girl/woman. I'm not married to a Pinoy but I did meet a really nice guy when I came over for a trip over Christmas and New Year. We're constantly in touch by text and phone call and I'm coming back to see him for a couple of weeks in April and then coming over to live for 6 months in October. I don't know what to expect at all because I've never been attracted to any guys that weren't white. I live in London so its not like I don't get to meet loads of guys from different places but something struck me about him. So - not married to him (yet) but you never know!! Got to be realistic though - its not exactly going to be easy...

    I'm intrigued as to why you want a white wife. You have to bear in mind that white can mean all different things - do you mean English, or American or German or French or ... Just because we're white it doesn't mean we all have the same tendancies/temperaments etc.

    There seem to be a few Pinoys whose fantasy is to have a relationship with a white girl - but not many who would marry one - apart from you, and the guy I know!

    Check out this thread for some more 'insights' into Caucasian girls http://www.pinoyexchange.com/forums/showthread.php?p=13221888#post13221888

    By the way - if you want to meet one I'd suggest you get over to Europe, Australia or the US as we're in abundance over this side of the world!!

    G
  • papi26papi26 Member PExer
    hi sir thanks for the info and a good one hope one day i would found my future wife. ciao raffy
    sledge2136 wrote: »
    Some pointers for Filipinos (as in those born and raised in the Philippines) who are dating or about to date Western women:

    1. (The most important)Do not, I repeat DO NOT ask them how many men have they slept with in any point of your relationship. I know most of Filipinos are very particular with their woman being a virgin!!!Grow up!! it doesn't really matter. I bet you are not a virgin yourself!!
    2. Western women doesn't dig macho man type (siga ako sa baryo namin, ASTIG AKO). If you keep on talking about these, you will get dumped and left on the sidewalk.
    3. Act like a man, don't be shy or don't be too careful not to embarasse yourself. Speak up!! They like it when you embarase yourself sometimes for their sake.
    4. Don't be too "gentleman" (Opening a can of soda for her, carrying her handbag, etc.). They don't like these things, it makes them feel like you think they are incapable of doing things themselves. They don't like to be babi'ed, consider them as your equal, and besides, those girly handbags looks sooo freakin lame on you and it just makes you look so stupid.
    5. Dont act like a mad dog trying to protect his ovulating female when people (specially other guys) stares at your mate. It's normal, she is beautiful, let the whole world feel envy of you because you have been given the privileges to be with her and to be loved by her. THEY CAN LOOK BUT IF THEY TOUCH I KILL THEM...
    6. Keep in mind that she is not your's, you don't own her!!She is with you because she likes/loves you. Be CONTENT with that.
    5. Don't you ever try to tell them not to wear their tiny bikini because you think it's too revealing (See pointers 5 and 6). Take off you freakin T-shirt when swimming on the beach, they will feel embarase being with you if you don't.
    6. Forget about those women in ***** films you saw when you were a child, those are pornstars. NOrmal western women are just like any other women who deserves your respect and kindness.
    7. Dont even try to have an affair with other woman, that will be the end of your relationship. Western women may look kind and tolerance but they have such a strong principals when comes to betrayals. I don't even want to start with what I have to go through get my wife's forgivenes, and even so she is now so paranoid.
    8. Don't expect a western wife to always cook for you, clean your house, bath you, massage you, wash your clothes, wake you up in the morning and prepare your breakfast. Iron your clothes, etc..(see pointers 5 and 6). She is your wife/girlfriend and not your freakin maid nor your mother.
    9. THEY LOVE ADOBO!! at least my wife does.

    I guess that's about it, at least in my experience.
  • JackBrowningJackBrowning Member PExer
    For me Russian and Ukrainian women are the most beautiful. Great way to find beautiful Russian or Ukrainian women its online dating websites like http://honestmarriageagency.com/ I'm sure you can find there your beautiful Russian or Ukrainian bride, hope it will be useful for you. Good luck.
  • gotta lick itgotta lick it Member PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ lolitas :p





    my uncle was married to a foreigner but he paid her just to get his green card. loser noh.
  • aj cuestasaj cuestas Member PExer
    hello my friend I like white woman too. simply because I've met someone before but being busy hinders us to know each other better. If only I had the chance to correct my mistakes before. If you know a white friend who likes a filipino guy 😊 with double eyelids and fair skin tone. Actually I'm half Brazillian and half Filipino
  • MalecBPajaroMalecBPajaro Member PExer
    I am not yet married nor have a gf but I also want a foreign gf/wife, especially a Japanese or also a Caucasian girl. I am 1/4 Japanese but 3/4 Filipino. I am also asking the same question as you :) Although all I know is that my Filipino-Chinese pastor in my church is married to an American woman
  • littlegurllittlegurl Viva La Vida! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    My male cousin is married to a white American lady. The struggle is real coming from his own words but their kids are too adorable. Eye color of his youngest is greenish-brown. So they make wonderful babies together :glee:

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