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kinalimutan ka na ng high school best friend mo

masakit talaga ang makalimutan ng tinuringan mong best friend noong high school. lalo pa't nasa Canada na siya. para bang may galit siya sa akin.

i admit may mga nagawa ako sa kanya noon pero nagkaayos na ulit. ang hindi ko lang maintindihan, bakit hindi niya uli ako pinapansin? gusto ko lang sanang maayos ito. wala kasi akong peace of mind kapag alam kong may taong galit sa akin. sana matulungan niyo ako dito. :( :( :(
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  • There are people who can forgive but not necessarily forget. Ganun siguro yung HS bestfriend mo. There are times when friends, after a big fight, could not have the same affection for each other again. It's like a precious object which you cannot bring back to the original form and shape once broken or damaged.

    Or maybe, he's just busy with stuff in school or work that's why s/he doesn't have much time to talk to you. But you guys should talk seriously in the most appropriate time. So you can settle things in a nice way and also for your peace of mind. Call him if you have the resources. This time, you initiate. :)
  • ^ what should i tell? should i tell her sorry again for the things that caused her hurt?
  • my bestfriend in high school thought so...
    but in reality, never did it come to my senses to forget her...
    we may lose out of communication, but she's not gone in my heart...
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ^ what should i tell? should i tell her sorry again for the things that caused her hurt?
    it's hard to accept pero possible may lamat na ung friendship ninyo. mahirap ulit mabuo un but maybe it's not too late... konting panahon pa...
  • masakit talaga ang makalimutan ng tinuringan mong best friend noong high school. lalo pa't nasa Canada na siya. para bang may galit siya sa akin.

    i admit may mga nagawa ako sa kanya noon pero nagkaayos na ulit. ang hindi ko lang maintindihan, bakit hindi niya uli ako pinapansin? gusto ko lang sanang maayos ito. wala kasi akong peace of mind kapag alam kong may taong galit sa akin. sana matulungan niyo ako dito. :( :( :(

    i had a high school friend too... i considered her my bestfriend, pero she did something that i didn't like.

    it's not that i am not able to forgive her... it's just that i can't see myself being friends with someone who could do what she did. i have forgiven her, except that i realized i didn't like her character.

    maybe that's what happened between the two of you...
  • Yeah, maybe you tell her that you're still sorry about what you did that hurt her. Then you also tell her how much your friendship really means to you and you want to save it. Tell her your fears about losing what you had before and how important she really is to you. Things like that and more will make her realize that she's somebody to someone. Malay mo, bumalik ulit yung dati. :)
  • PinoySaKSAPinoySaKSA PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    i couldn't imagine meron palang tao na presently ay kapareho ko ang nararamdaman sa ngayon... you are not alone...

    we were best friends for 20+ yrs na... and so i thought...

    recently i realized how the friendship was starting to be one-sided...

    - ako lang ang laging tumatawag sa kanya at nangangamusta...
    - ako ang nag-uusisa kung ano nangyayari sa kanya and offer the news on what's happening to me as well..
    - i learned from another classmate (not close to us) that he has a new relationship and it is already 7 months na. he told me about this only when i asked him..
    - we are both abroad, in the same country but in different places, the last time i asked him when he is planning to take his yearly vacation and he told me he still has no plan... 5 days later i found out he's back in the Philippines... i learned this when i tried to call his office (long distance call po).
    - he is coming back today and not even a word from him, about why he didn't inform me about his vacation...
    - he doesn't know when exactly my birthday is, and we were best friends for 20 years...

    i really felt bad about losing what i considered to be my best friend... pero syempre, i am also aware that things and people may change... kaya, i am trying to just accept the fact that i just lost a friend and look forward to a chance of meeting a new one... life has to continue... :)
  • masakit talaga ang makalimutan ng tinuringan mong best friend noong high school. lalo pa't nasa Canada na siya. para bang may galit siya sa akin.

    i admit may mga nagawa ako sa kanya noon pero nagkaayos na ulit. ang hindi ko lang maintindihan, bakit hindi niya uli ako pinapansin? gusto ko lang sanang maayos ito. wala kasi akong peace of mind kapag alam kong may taong galit sa akin. sana matulungan niyo ako dito. :( :( :(

    there are times when friends drift away. as much as you want to be close, each sometimes choose a different path.
  • talaga bang wala nagtatagal na high school friend? may friends din ako. yung iba wala na communication, yung iba talaga nagbago ng attitude.ang hirap pla.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    i have my own group back in high school
    we still communicate up to now...
    i consider them my
    "best friends"
    though "minsan lang kami mag-bonding"
    sila kasi yung tipong...
    hanggang ngayon nandyan pa rin...
    may mga friends akong nakilala
    back in college... pero nag-shift ako...
    kaya ayun burned bridges
    ...:mecry:

    tapos puros user-friendly :mecry:
    nakilala ko sa pinaglipatan kong course...:mecry:
    kaya mabibilang ko lang sa isang kamay
    ko ang kakontakan ko pa rin hanggang ngayon...

    pero aside sa group ko...(high school)
    may tinuring akong "bestfriend"
    talaga na tipong pati barkada niya
    close ko din... (common friends with my own group)
    pero after high school nawala na
    yung closeness na yun...
    "no communication/ iba-iba na ng trip sa buhay"

    kung di pa nag---ka friendster... :p

    Naging one-sided :hmm: ako lang pala
    ang nag-value ng friendship namin...


    bale 3 silang tinuring kong bestfriend ko back in
    high school aside sa group ko...

    2 sa kanila ang di ako valued as a friend...:grrr:

    pinakamasakit na mag-let go ng friend
    na tinuring mong "little sister" (30 mins. away lang
    siya at nakikita mo pa siya by chance) at
    yung isa naman ay parang extension
    ng sarili mo... (parehong pareho kayo ng ugali)
    at tipong di ka bored kahit dalawa lang kayo
    magkasama... (optimistic kasi lagi at joker)

    yung isa naman (she's a true friend)
    di ko kasi close set of friends
    niya kaya kahit nakikipagkontakan...kami
    sa isa't isa... di kami magkita kasi siyempre
    mas okay kung di lang kaming dalawa
    ang magkikita...
    at yung nag-iisang common friend namin
    abroad (based)
  • hmmm usually talaga mga kaibigan lumalayo na yan pag asensado na eh,nakakakita na ng mga mas bigating kaibigan eh...

    di man lang tatawag, pinaparamdam na di ka na importante... inaasahan ko na di na kami magiging close uli ng best friend ko... asensado na eh, baka best friends na uli kami pag big time na rin ako...

    till then, we are "best friends"...
  • for me kinalimutan ko na sila...

    it's true madami na silang bigatin at mayayamang nakilala, but during our high school years laging tumatawag, nagte2xt, nagpa2ge(uso pa beaper), e-mail, etc mga friends ko kasi may car na ko that time...

    umansenso na, kalimutan na ika nga...

    To be honest I'm not mad at them, kasi narealize ko sino talaga ang totoo... ang tunay na kaibigan ay di lang sa saya pati sa hirap sasabayan ka...
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    :D

    napansin ko nga na kung sino yung
    mga tigin kong sosyalera (na ngayon)
    kong highschool
    friends .... yun yung di ko na ma-reach

    SA NGAYON....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

    pero yung mga "simple-simplehan lang"

    sila yung "true-blue friends" *okay*

    pero affected ako syempre kasi...
    sa kanila yung pinaka-happy memories
    ko nung high school...
    sila yung pinaka-KALOG...:rolleyes:
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    :D

    napansin ko nga na kung sino yung
    mga tigin kong sosyalera (na ngayon)
    kong highschool
    friends .... yun yung di ko na ma-reach
    SA NGAYON....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

    pero yung mga "simple-simplehan lang"

    sila yung "true-blue friends"
    *okay*

    pero affected ako syempre kasi...
    sa kanila yung pinaka-happy memories
    ko nung high school...
    sila yung pinaka-
    KALOG...:rolleyes:
  • i've lost a few of my best friends back in high school. i still see and talk to my other best friends once in a while. but when we see each other, as if nothing has changed. pero we see each other like 4-5 times a year only.
  • baby_07 wrote: »
    There are people who can forgive but not necessarily forget. Ganun siguro yung HS bestfriend mo. There are times when friends, after a big fight, could not have the same affection for each other again. It's like a precious object which you cannot bring back to the original form and shape once broken or damaged.

    Or maybe, he's just busy with stuff in school or work that's why s/he doesn't have much time to talk to you. But you guys should talk seriously in the most appropriate time. So you can settle things in a nice way and also for your peace of mind. Call him if you have the resources. This time, you initiate. :)

    uhmm.. parang ako yan ah, hehe :lol:
    pareho kami ng bestfriend mo, uhm... well, kasi ganito yan.. may tao talagang ganyan, ung tipong kahit na nag-sorry ka na and she accepted your apology... di na tlga mababalik ung dati. gets mo?
    kasi, nawala na ung "trust" nya sayo.
  • yeah mukhang kinalimutan na niya ako :( di na siya sumusulat sakin, di na rin niya ako binabati sa birthday ko, Xmas, New Year... dati pumupunta siya sa bahay namin sa province, pero ngaun hindi na rin... alam ko naman may kasalanan ako but its not entirely my fault... and we really drifted apart :( nalulungkot lang tlaga ako kasi sa buong high school days ko, siya lang ang tinuring kong kaibigan na tlagang tumanggap sakin tapos mawawala rin pala siya :(

    :mecry:
  • I already heard some of my classmates say, "Yuck, hindi na kita kilala 'pag college!"....like it's just normal to them. And they mean it.
    From what I observed, some people will forget a person if he/she is part of the "lesser" crowd, didn't do something to be remembered for and others...I don't know, that's just how I observe some students in our school.

    To forget almost all of my acquaintances is what I intend to do after HS; though I think, doing that would leave a bad impression of me on them.
  • yeah mukhang kinalimutan na niya ako :( di na siya sumusulat sakin, di na rin niya ako binabati sa birthday ko, Xmas, New Year... dati pumupunta siya sa bahay namin sa province, pero ngaun hindi na rin... alam ko naman may kasalanan ako but its not entirely my fault... and we really drifted apart :( nalulungkot lang tlaga ako kasi sa buong high school days ko, siya lang ang tinuring kong kaibigan na tlagang tumanggap sakin tapos mawawala rin pala siya :(

    :mecry:

    wonder_chaser wag kang malungkot dahil kung talagang best friend mo sya kahit saan pa kayo naroon di nyo makakalimutan ang isa't isa, maybe you may grow apart a bit kasi geographically speaking di na kayo laging magkasama kasi for instance nasa ibang bansa na sya pero, may email, may cellphone, may "friendster". how can you not keep in touch?! Unless.... intended, di ba? Ako yung best friend ko nung HS kahit nasa California na sya, for 13 years di kami nagkikita, sulatan lang at email but still I'm her best friend and she's by best friend. We still share those secrets. Yun ang friendship, no barrier.
    Chin up, you'll meet a true friend better than the one you lost.;)
  • my best friend in hs, we are in the same barkada, rarely says hi to us anymore. we find it wierd really, but try to think nalang na siguro busy and ganon nalang talaga hehe. and to think he lives 7 blocks away lang lol.
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