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serious question for the STRAIGHT GUYS

i just need a straight guys' point of view here.. is it possible for a (closet-decent)bi guy and a straight guy to become bestfriends? or atleast (very)close friends man lng??? lets say lagi silang magkasama sa lakwacha.

note: the straight guy knows that hes friend is bi kasi nagconfess itong si bi. na accept naman ni straight si bi so hanggang ngayon close parin sila.

:confused:

girls baka meron din kayong idea. help din :confused:
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  • of course it is possible. unless homophobic or sobrang kitid ng utak nung straight guy for him not to consider being close with someone na tagilid. :)
  • i guess that all depends on how broadminded a person is...
    walang pinipili ang kaibigan...pag naging kaibigan mo, ibig sabihin nun tinatanggap mo yung pagkatao ng kaibigan mo..kaya mo nga naging kaibigan eh...

    parang ganito yan eh...
    kunyari bumili ka ng aso...medyo naging close ka na dun sa pet mo..tapos after couple of months, napansin mo..yung aso mo, eh may pagka weirdo...natutulog ng nakadilat!!!! tapos pag gising eh naka pikit..oh anong gagawin mo ngayon..sasabihin mo ba sa sarili mo- AY Sh1t, hindi ko na magiging bestpren tong aso ko......syempre parang MALI diba?

    Kahit may pagkukulang yung aso mo, kailangan tanggapin mo pa rin sya dahil kahit papano, napasaya ka nya thru his company..hindi dahil weirdo sya...tsaka syempre nag invest ka na rin dun..bumili ka ng dog food...tapos pinakain mo na ng masasarap na pagkain (parehas lang pala yon) tapos iiwan mo..ano bang problema mo?
  • ^ah.. mejo natawa ako sa example mo pero thnx parin! tnx din speeka a *okay*
    i hope the (other) straight guys would give their honest opinions.
  • If a man is secure enough about his identity, it wouldn't matter what the sexual orientation of his friends are. Actually, bading friends I knew back in the past always made me laugh and definitely were interesting and entertaining.
  • one of my best friends in my barkada is gay and it doesnt bother me or my barkada one bit. we even joke about it openly... not in a degrading way but in a lighthearted way. the only thing that differs is that he looks at handsome guys when they pass by and the rest of us looks at pretty girls. aside from that, he is one of the guys.

    so... yes, it is very possible for a straight guy to have a good/best bi/gay guy friend. :)
  • its alright, theres nothing wrong with it . . . as long as the gay guy doesnt have an ulterior motive for befriending you - heheh !!! . . . you can even have a girl pal and theres nothing wrong with . . . friendship knows no boundaries you know . . .

    i have a gay friend . . . this gay guy and i have been friends since grade school, we practically grew up together . . . but hanggang dun lang - in fact, i consider him as a brother (alright, a sister - haha !!! :lol: ) . . . we would hang out and talk about stuffs - he is a very trusted friend who have been there to support me throughout . . . my girl would even consult him about fashion and trends every now and then :)

    FREE TIBET !!!
  • i guess kapag open-minded ka tapos secured ka sa sexuality mo then saka lang pwede.

    may mga iba kasi very guarded at insecure sa sexuality nila kaya ayaw nila maging close sa mga bis or gays e.
  • In the first place hindi sya kaibigan kapag tumalikod sya sa iyo dahil lang sa sexual preference mo. Straight guy na totoong kaibigan eh sasamahan ka kahit saan, dahil ayun ang tunay na kaibigan.
  • yup, take it from me
  • er, yes. pwede.
  • pwede, why not?
  • ^ sa barkada ko kasi lahat ng guys lumayo kasi skin nyung nalaman na closet bi ako e. so yun. pero may isang natira naman.
  • of course, there's nothing wrong with that...
  • yup pwede... may kilala ako n ganyan ang sitwasyon ... *okay*
  • i don't see anything wrong with it. i do have a couple of gay friends and i don't have a problem hanging out with them. *okay*
  • It is really possible cause I've been to that same scenario before. The only thing that the str8t guy wants who is my best, best, best friend is that I should not act gay to him or somebody body else.
  • course, As long as it isn’t followed an open-up that he loves me or something…:lol:
  • ^
    :mecry:
  • 1718 wrote:
    ^ sa barkada ko kasi lahat ng guys lumayo kasi skin nyung nalaman na closet bi ako e. so yun. pero may isang natira naman.

    tadjakan ko yang mga guys na yan ha! kala nila kung sino sila! may mga straight guys tlga n bigots and we cnt do anything about it. at least, someone accepted u as u are kesa accepted k nga pero not as u are.

    as for me, i hate bigot guys up to a certain extent but i also seek their approval at the same time but who nids straight bigot guys wen u can hve accepting and understanding bi and gay guy friends?
  • ok lang noh.... no problem.....
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