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langit siya, lupa ako

there was this new girl employee in our office and first time i saw and talked to her, i began to like her so much. :love:
i wanted to know her more and make friends...and at the end, i want her to be my girlfriend. i know, di naman siya mahirap mahalin. i wanted to make my move but one thing that makes me think if she's going to like me too. langit siya...lupa ako. parang mahirap isipin na sa real life na maging kayo. :(
do you have the same story? ano ginawa ninyo?
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  • wala namang problema if she doesnt mind the "langit ako, lupa ka" state between you two. pero kung ayaw nya sa yo dahil hampaslupa ka, at sya'y isang matapobreng elitista, wala ka na magagawa. unless kaya mong magpayaman ng husto. kung nde mo maatim na piliting baguhin ang sarili mo para lng maging bagay kayo, humanap ka na lang ng ibang matitipuhan ka. ganya talaga ang pag-ibig, minsan yung gusto mo ayaw sayo, yung may gusto sayo ayaw mo naman... :depressed:
  • no harm in trying.....good luck in your quest...kya mo yan.don't forget your vitamins
  • Oh please, don't play the langit siya, lupa ako card. Hindi ka nakatira sa pinilakang-tabing.

    What really turns me off are guys who give out the "loser" vibe--guys who have really low self-esteem.
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    What really turns me off are guys who give out the "loser" vibe--guys who have really low self-esteem

    hindi naman sa nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa. para kasing malabo. nalaman ko may hatid sundong rich suitor na siya. kaya ko naman ipaglaban what i feel... pero i don't know if it's enough kasi i'm just beginning to know her pa lang. one thing for sure is i like her. it's just that i have nothing compared to that guy.
  • be positive and be yourself...
  • rayzle wrote:
    hindi naman sa nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa. para kasing malabo. nalaman ko may hatid sundong rich suitor na siya. kaya ko naman ipaglaban what i feel... pero i don't know if it's enough kasi i'm just beginning to know her pa lang. one thing for sure is i like her. it's just that i have nothing compared to that guy.

    :rolleyes: if you're going to think that way, you're setting yourself up for failure. you haven't even started the fight, you're already thinking you'll fail... then you most probably will.

    yes, i have the same story. my parents thought i could do better (they probably still do). but i fought for him.

    all he has to do now is to prove to my parents that he could make me happy. and somehow, my parents are starting to believe him that he'll take care of me and that he really makes me happy.

    *whispers* but i have a suspicion that my family won't really embrace him with open arms until he can exceed everything that my parents have done, is doing , could and would do for me. :lol:
  • omengomeng PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    bat di kaya kaya muna magsumikap para umasenso bago ka pumasok sa mga bagay bagay na yan? :D

    kid, kahit na maging kayo niyan at hindi mo maibibigay ang luho.. hindi rin kayo magtatagal niyan.

    ngayon, kung gusto mo lang maka-iskor, sama ako ng lima dyan. :D
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    bat di kaya kaya muna magsumikap para umasenso bago ka pumasok sa mga bagay bagay na yan?

    actually, i'm working and i'm willing to work hard. i want to change my status in life of course.
    kid, kahit na maging kayo niyan at hindi mo maibibigay ang luho.. hindi rin kayo magtatagal niyan.

    pagdating sa luho, i could give naman the best i can. pero minsan ayokong isipin na just because i have no money i'm not qualified to be her suitor. mahirap lang makipagsabayan kung ang karibal mo eh may wheels, money and looks.

    miss ayane, thanks for sharing your story. is he your boyfriend now?
  • farkasfarkas PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    buti nga lupa ka lang.... pasalamat ka at nde ka putik!!!!! hehehe!
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    buti nga lupa ka lang.... pasalamat ka at nde ka putik!!!!! hehehe!

    :lol: that was a good joke. *peace*
  • go ahead and express to her how you feel. there's really no harm in trying. at least, you'll have an answer instead of wondering for the rest of your life if you ever stood a chance with her. good luck. :)
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    hahaha! boyfriend na pala nya ung guy. i thought he's just a suitor.
  • Oooh please get rid of that langit sya lupa ako clich?. Speaking as a girl, nakakainis yan. There is this guy that I like so much. Im just waiting for him to make a move and you bet Im willing to defend him to my parents. Kahit na alam kong madaming kokontra. But he is always telling me, that he doesn?t deserve me. That I deserve someone better. Drats, there is no one who can tell who I deserve. Ako lang makakapagsabi nun. Kaya if you really feel something special for her go ahead.
  • rayzle wrote:
    hahaha! boyfriend na pala nya ung guy. i thought he's just a suitor.


    :lol: bf na nya ? edi yaan mo na. abang ka lang dyan for sure may makikita ka din katapat mo. *okay*
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ganon ang paniwala nya noon.... langit sya, lupa ako.
    nang lumundag sya mula bintana... kunwari sasaluin ko... eh bigla akong umiwas...
    ngayon apat na bwan na syang nakasuot ng leg cast... at naka-wheelchair...

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
  • im on the langit end, and my guy is on the "lupa" end, well if that's how you call it.

    compared to guys ive dated before and to my ex boyfriends who were in same as langit as i were in, this guy is far better in terms of taking care of me and in handling the relationship.

    sa kanya ko lang naramdaman ung talgang inaalala ka, where you are, how you are doin, if you'v taken ur meals na ba, interested in the highs and lows of my life, and all small details... i could say that no other guy ever loved me like he does.. kaya lang... un nga, pag pera na and estado na ang pnaguusapan, hindi sya nawawalan ng self esteem, ipinaglalaban nya ako, what he fears is, kung maipaglalaban ko nga sya. plus the fact that i am fil-chi and he is not.

    i know i should fight for him but just because, and only because, no one ever loved me like he does. but other than that, hmm.. di ko yata kaya.. and i often realize, that we can not live in love alone,
    i mean, how can i be so sure he will be on a "higher status" in a future with me.. gets nyo?

    on our end, we are not being mata pobre or somethin, it's just that, syempre kinalakihan ko na ung ganto ang estado ng life namin and i must admit, i know it's a big shame to admit it, pero yeah.. sabihin mo nang bullsh|t, our family also fears that we'd be the center of all dinnertable topics of our family friends, etc.
  • rayzle wrote:
    hindi naman sa nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa. para kasing malabo. nalaman ko may hatid sundong rich suitor na siya. kaya ko naman ipaglaban what i feel... pero i don't know if it's enough kasi i'm just beginning to know her pa lang. one thing for sure is i like her. it's just that i have nothing compared to that guy.

    the thing is, not all girls are materialistic.
  • ay shucks, bf na niya... aww... just be happy for her na lang! may mahahanap ka pa na iba diyan. yung mamahalin ka talaga. *okay*
  • funzenfunzen PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    sayang! *snaps fingers*
    magagamit ko na sana un, "ilibre mo ng steak sa KFC" line...
    sayang talaga! tsk.. tsk.. tsk.. BF na pala... :D

    happy hunting na lan ulit, rayzle!
  • im on the langit end, and my guy is on the "lupa" end, well if that's how you call it.

    compared to guys ive dated before and to my ex boyfriends who were in same as langit as i were in, this guy is far better in terms of taking care of me and in handling the relationship.

    sa kanya ko lang naramdaman ung talgang inaalala ka, where you are, how you are doin, if you'v taken ur meals na ba, interested in the highs and lows of my life, and all small details... i could say that no other guy ever loved me like he does.. kaya lang... un nga, pag pera na and estado na ang pnaguusapan, hindi sya nawawalan ng self esteem, ipinaglalaban nya ako, what he fears is, kung maipaglalaban ko nga sya. plus the fact that i am fil-chi and he is not.

    i know i should fight for him but just because, and only because, no one ever loved me like he does. but other than that, hmm.. di ko yata kaya.. and i often realize, that we can not live in love alone,
    i mean, how can i be so sure he will be on a "higher status" in a future with me.. gets nyo?

    on our end, we are not being mata pobre or somethin, it's just that, syempre kinalakihan ko na ung ganto ang estado ng life namin and i must admit, i know it's a big shame to admit it, pero yeah.. sabihin mo nang bullsh|t, our family also fears that we'd be the center of all dinnertable topics of our family friends, etc.

    wow, this is a sad story - i pity your bf and i pity you too . . . you should learn to rise above this . . . people are not stuck in certain status you know . . . with hard work, determination and the right breaks people can climb the ladder (and im not talking about social climbers here) - if your bf has these qualities, there is hope . . . your bf might be a diamond in the rough . . . we have family friends (husbands and wives) that sometimes tell us their stories - from rag to riches literally !!! they started with little things but it grew and right now, they are very prosperous . . . why should you be bothered with dinnertable antics ??? it is not the way you start, it is the way you finish it . . . ang yabang ng family friends mo, are they sure that they will be on top all the time ???

    but the at the end of the day, it is your call . . . i hope you find your happiness, PEACE !!!

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