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ask ko lang kasi twice na ko naka-encounter katext ko pa lang yung guy, di ko pa sya namimeet (although yung isa kita ko na pic nya sa friendster). eto tanong ko bakit kung nakikipagtxt sila kala mo kayo na yung bang parang feeling na kayo na,ex. hi eat ka na, or ingat ka ha pls pls pls. i know its sweet na concerned yung guy,(dont get me wrong gusto ko sa guys na sweet) or kung ano man pero pang ilang text nyo pa lang yun,ni hindi pa nga kayo nakakapag-usap ng maayos like getting to know each other sa fone or kahit man lang sa text. iba kasi dating sa kin in a way medyo natu-turn off kasi ko.. guys pls enlighten me... baka meron lang akong hindi naiitindihan thanx
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  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    so parang big deal sau ung sabihan ka ng ganun?
    natural sa amin ang ganun. actually, ganyan din ako. kumbaga, he finds something interesting about you... that should make him feel that he wants to know more about you. so now, he shows his concern to you...para magustuhan mo rin sya. natutuwa lang kami ng ganun. pa sweet kumbaga, we know it's flattering if someone's gonna tell you "please take care" or "have lunch/dinner na?" it's friendly naman and i can see there's nothing wrong with that. :)
  • aajaoaajao Moderator PEx Moderator
    he wants to know you more than just being a text buddy.
  • hmm depende yun kung gano na kayo katagal magkatext. meron kasi ilang messages pa lang kung anu-ano na sinasabi. i mean, parang hindi totoo.
  • LaTtE`MLaTtE`M PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Are you that naive?

    Or is the proper adjective "dumb"? :glee:
  • hmm depende yun kung gano na kayo katagal magkatext. meron kasi ilang messages pa lang kung anu-ano na sinasabi. i mean, parang hindi totoo.

    we dont text that often as in bigla na lng magtetext tapos puro ganun pa :rolleyes:
  • LaTtE`M wrote:
    Are you that naive?

    Or is the proper adjective "dumb"? :glee:


    kaya nga po nagtatanong eh *peace*

    rayzle: ok thanks
  • sa pagbasa ko dito, parang di ka na-turn off... parang kinilig ka tas naghihintay ka pa ng sweet things na ite-text nya hanggang mapag-isipan mo kung lokohan lang ba kung ano meron kayo o ano. ;)
  • LaTtE`MLaTtE`M PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    chey28 wrote:
    kaya nga po nagtatanong eh *peace*

    rayzle: ok thanks

    There's a difference between asking a question to which you know the answer to but need other people to confirm it for you, and asking a question because you don't really know. ;)

    Besides, kung natu-turn off ka sa kanya, that's the end of the story, as far as any story like that goes. :glee:
  • may time na nakakaturn off.....

    yun bang feeling close na.....

    o kaya patweetums effect......

    maybe pag medyo matagal na kayo magkakilala ganun ang mga txt nya sau, kikiligin ka pa.

    i dunno siguro iba lng dating sa akin, or depende kung paano pagkakatxt :)
  • Chey, depende kasi yan sa personality ng nag te-text..pwedeng wala rin lang talagang masabi yung kakilala mo, or maybe, talagang thoughtful din yung kausap mo.

    Maybe to you, it's a turn-off pero meron din mga girls na naiinis naman kung wala man lang text yung guy nila. So be thankful na kahit papano meron nagte text sa yo.

    why is text-ing such a big deal...it's just one of those communication tools anyway...if you prefer, just talk to them personally or via phone.
  • officemate ko ganun. basta nagkasabay kami umuwi, pag naghiwalay na kami (iba jeep station ko), mamya mamya, expect mo na may text sya na ingat. di naman lagi pero kadalasan. pag nauna naman ako uuwi sa kanya, habang naglalakad ako, may text din galing sa kanya na ingat. siguro concerned lang talaga yung tao kasi alam nya accident prone ako :)
  • jeev wrote:
    officemate ko ganun. basta nagkasabay kami umuwi, pag naghiwalay na kami (iba jeep station ko), mamya mamya, expect mo na may text sya na ingat. di naman lagi pero kadalasan. pag nauna naman ako uuwi sa kanya, habang naglalakad ako, may text din galing sa kanya na ingat. siguro concerned lang talaga yung tao kasi alam nya accident prone ako :)


    walang problema dun kasi kaofficemate mo eh, cguro close kayo. what if ang magtxt sayo eh yung officemate mo na di naman kayo close ano reaction mo? di ba nakakaduda, mapapataas ang kilay mo? :hmm:
  • thanks sa mga insights nyo..

    meteora : meron syang number ko sa office and number sa bahay, twice pa lang sya tumawag sa office tapos i didnt get a decent conversation with him parang puro pa-cute lang ang ginawa nya.. he asked me when kmi magkikita nung nag-set naman ako ng date di naman sya nagconfirm so i just ignored him alangan naman ako ang magtxt, to think sya yung kulit ng kulit na makipagkita, tpos when he txted again to ask when daw kami pwede magkita sabi nya he forgot daw,d ko na prob yun diba? snce sya naman yung nangungulit na makipgkita and not me)

    jheng22 yan ang ibig kong sabihin,di kami magkakilala. cousin sya ng officemate ko before..
  • siguro personality-wise iyan. may mga taong sobrang thoughtful and in the most mundane way, regardless na mamis-interpret sila ng mga assuming na tao they genuinely express their thoughts... depende rin sa motive kasi... kung pacute lang or sobrang concern talaga iyong tao. may mga tao kasi na hindi lang sa isang tao i.e. sa textmates nila ganoon kundi sa lahat ng friends and even sa strangers. just ride on para hindi naman kayo ma-brand na snobbish at feeling mahaba ang hair. if you feel like you are irritated with the gesture, e di slap it unto his face para malinaw... pero be careful din kasi if their intentions are serious, its not their loss, its yours...
  • nagpapacute lng yan. he's just trying to get your attention.
  • jheng22 wrote:
    walang problema dun kasi kaofficemate mo eh, cguro close kayo. what if ang magtxt sayo eh yung officemate mo na di naman kayo close ano reaction mo? di ba nakakaduda, mapapataas ang kilay mo? :hmm:

    di naman kami ganun ka close. di naman tumataas kilay ko :) siguro he just wants to befriend me by showing a little concern.

    sorry kung nakakagulo lang ako pero sa akin tama si jheng na nagpapa cute lang yan... cute ba sya o pa cute lang talaga, chey? peace!
  • up99stud thanks ill keep that in mind :)

    jheng22 :lol: maybe

    jeev di ko pa sya nakikita in person but when i saw his pic sa friendster mukha syang wasted dun so i really dont know ang ang alam ko lang he's tall :glee:
  • ^ kaya naman pala hanggang pacute lng sya eh.

    kasi di ba nakakaturn off ang isang guy na 25 years old up acting like a teenager.
  • ^actually he's already 27 yrs old.. mabuti sana kung never pang nag ka-girlfriend sabi nya nagkagf na daw sya.. but he acts as if its his 1st time.. eto pa nakakainis,he just ym'd me sabi nya he met a friend of mine na daw so i replied ahh talaga... tapos sabay sabihan ba naman ako ng suplada mo pala chey28 di na kita istorbohin blah blah blah... sinagot ko sya ng ano bang problema mo? goodness! anong gusto nyang isagot ko :grrr:
  • hay naku para ngang first timer lang hahaha... dont mind him anymore. and try not to reply sa mga text messages niya... if he is trying for a romantic space in your life, he should have not remarked that. anyway, you wouldnt want to be with someone who hastily judge you to be someone naman di ba... be careful, hindi ka na iistorbohin huh, magtitext pa ulit iyan... and magsosorry...
    but, never stereotype text pals ha, meron naman kasi its their initial way of showing that they care and maybe they have plans of moving on to the next level.
    just always be nice to people, but always keep reason in perspective...

    chey28: just have fun....
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