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pano kung malayo kayo sa isa't-isa? possible ba na mag hanap ka ng iba?

Mag aanim na buwan na kaming magkahiwalay na bf ko pero di kami nag break.Nadito me now sa gen. Santos City. nong nasa Bulacan pa ako sabi ko sakanya ok lang kahit na mag karoon pa sya ng shota basta ang importante ako pa rin ang orignal at gusto ko pag balik ko ako pa rin ang pipiliin nya kahit mayb iba na sya.nag agree naman sya.mahal na mahal ko sya.iniintindi ko lahat lahat.akala ko ganon lang kadali makapag move on dito sa lugar na to.pero nag kamali ako, pag dating ko dito para kong nasa kulungan lagi ko syang naiisip.naging inspirasyon ko sya sa pag aaral ko kasi gusto ko syang tulungan.mahirap lalo kapag mag isa ka lang kasi di mo maiwasan na isipin sya. nag sikap akong malaman ang # nya kasi kinuha ni papa ang cell ko.pero di pala sapat ang makausap lang ang mahal mo sa phone lang. pag nag uusap kami parang kinukurut ang dib dib ko lalo na pag sinasabi nya na mis nya na ako at gumuwi na daw ako :mecry:.pero iniicip ko minsan totoo ba talaga na mis nya na ako? masakit sakit nong malaman ko na meron n syang shota!!! :( :angry: marami nag sasabi saken bakit ko daw kasi kinukonsinte!!ok lang naman saken eh kasi wala naman ako don.ang nakakainis lang imbis na ako ang magparamdam sakanya ng love eh iba ang gumagawa. s tingin mon di kaya sya main love sa shota nya ngayon???

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  • hay love talag bakit kaya pag dating dyan lunok lahat ng pride?????
  • alam mo iha...mai inlove yon sa syota nya ngayon at kakalimutan ka na..marami kapang kakainin na fish ball so wag kang magalala..marami pang darating sa yong problema..kaya mo yan....
  • i dont want judge your bf hastily but i want to assume that we are susceptible to all sort of temptation. we may believe that before we leave that person with a promise that you will be together despite the distance, there will be a slight chance that this person may eventually miss you and look for somebody to fill up the emptiness... they may say that it is just for past time, but sometimes it doenst end that way and they fall for that person whom they just considered as "past time".

    i want you to believe that if you are meant for each other then you should not worry about your realtionship .... dont worry dear.. think of the positive things,,,,
  • its sad to know na pumayag sya sa ganung set up. if he really loves u ket inopen mo s knya na payag ka magkaron sya ng past time habang wla ka...he shouldn't be doin it. hndi necessary magkaron ng other some1 physically just to fill up ur absence. besides he could do the same thing, pwede nya gamitin ang tym nya wisely pra paghandaan ang pagbalik mo.

    kun nakuha nyang magpast time, were not sure what they're doin, especially now that u're apart... ket "syota" lang yan, pwede prin nla gawin ang mga bagay na pang-real lovers lyk gettin-to-know, liking each other, and sex hanggang sa madevelop cla sa isat isa...so ang sagot sa question mo...YES, ITS POSSIBLE, lalo n with ur permission.

    alexandrea, u're such a great person. u'll do whatever it takes, even if it hurts u, just to make ur special some1 happy, which shows a deep love. pro hndi lahat nkadepende sa love. think about ur pride, urself, ur happiness. its not fair... dont let urself worry that much, lalo na malayo ka. kaw nman kc e, bakt mo b cnabi na pwede sya magpast time habang wla ka? anlabo mo nman e. it's really obvious na hndi ka comfortable sa ganitong set up, so y did u allow it? (magalit daw ba syo?) sowee ha, carried away lng sa story mo...

    tingin ko kc u ang gumawa ng ghost kya ka natatakot ngayon...now let's think of the solution...it's YOU na rin ang makakasolve nyan, promise.

    peace out...
  • hello .. xmpre mega reply ako kasi kaka- relate hehehe.. buti ka nga ALEXANDREA andito pa din sa Pinas ang mahal mo di ba?? Ako nga eh million miles away ang layo eh.. Just would like you to know that it is just a matter of trust, love, respect & faith in God.

    I know it's never been easy, lately we are having a hard time.. we cried a lot because of our situation.. it is so helpless.. kahit ma-miss mo sya and you want to do something sweet, romantic etc.. but you can't coz you are bounded by so many things such as distance, time (di kayo pareho ng sched.. heheheh araw sa kanila gabi dito) at madami pang iba.. pero you should not feel bad.. okei lang maging sad paminsan- minsan kasi mahirap talaga.. But keep in mind na mahirap din yun sa part nya... You should help each other to fight the loneliness of long distance relationship..

    Anyway, about naman sa situation mo na meron syang "syota".. for me.. kapag ganun wla na yung what we called " respect".. In the first place, if we are treating our BF/GF as a PARTNER we should not allow all those things to happen.. Respect mo din yung sarili mo coz no one will ever do that for you.. If you do not how to respect yourself.. Kung mahal ka nya he'll wait and won't allow other people to intervene.. Well, sana ang kutchi ko eh behave.. yun lang God bless you..
  • hayyyyyyyy
  • rayzlerayzle PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    it's so sad to hear your story. well, minsan akala natin we're prepared for what we expect but mali pala coz u've never been there pa. possible yun na mainlove siya sa syota nya kamo. importante kc sa isang relationship ang physical presence kahit paano. di mo rin siya masisisi di ba dahil wala ka sa tabi nya. pero nakita mo na ngaun na kaya ka nyang ipagpalit di ba? pero kung strong ung relationship ninyo at mahal na mahal ninyo ang bawat isa, both of you will hold on na maging kayo pa hanggang sa huli. i think di kayo pareho ng level ng feelings sa isa't isa coz i could see mas deep ang nararamdaman mo.
    learn to accept na lng ung mga things na pwedeng mawala sau. kaya mo yan, girl and God Bless!
  • basta tandaan mo na lang iha..n
    na once the door closes, a new one opens...

    yun nga lang, wag mong lagyan ng "lock" kasi kawawa naman yung papasok..mauuntog...haha
  • He did not give respect to either you or your relationship. Try to move on no matter how hard it is. He's simply not worth it! You'll find a better man deserving of your love.
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

    prang ako... gigiling-giling sa kaliwa't kanan. paggising ko... iba
    ang nakikita kong muka. sus... nasa kalandian ko laang yan noh!

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
  • You know what, you might not realize it but when you told him that it is okay for him to have a "shota" while you are away, it can be taken that you are willing to let him go and you are free to do the same. Explore new possibilities, that is.

    If that is the case kasi , better to break it off, at least walang sumbatan. No question about who respected the relationship, who didn't etc. I am not saying that it won't hurt, but I believe it is the lesser evil.
    di kaya sya main love sa shota nya ngayon???
    Only God knows.

    I know one who survived this. Isa lang yun.
  • so hirap naman yung situation mo, but you were the one who put yourself into it. ineng, before you love someone, love yourself muna. If you love yourself enough, you wouldn't decide to share somebody you love and hurt your self in the process.
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

    ilang beses akong napagawi sa ganitong eksena... magkalayo kami...
    eh di sinagot ko ang isa... at ang isa pa... mabuti na yung may
    reserba noh!

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
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