Sex during Pregnancy - Is it BAD?

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Someone I really love is preggy right now (about 4 months already) Now, Is it bad to have sex during pregnancy? I want to be honest.. yes, I'm afraid to be on top because I might "bang" her tummy too much and our baby might get hurt.. is it true?

Any advice? More info you might need: She doesn't have bleeding, no history of miscarriage, and has a blood type of O.
(as if it matters)

Another Question: What does "First Trimester, Second Trimester and Third Trimester" all mean? In which trimester does she belongs to?
(4th month)

What positions you suggest to avoid "banging" the baby?

Thanks in Advance!

Mudbug

Originally posted by :<;THORN>;:
Someone I really love is preggy right now (about 4 months already) Now, Is it bad to have sex during pregnancy? I want to be honest.. yes, I'm afraid to be on top because I might "bang" her tummy too much and our baby might get hurt.. is it true?

Any advice? More info you might need: She doesn't have bleeding, no history of miscarriage, and has a blood type of O.
(as if it matters)

Another Question: What does "First Trimester, Second Trimester and Third Trimester" all mean? In which trimester does she belongs to?
(4th month)

What positions you suggest to avoid "banging" the baby?

Thanks in Advance!

Your friend is on the 2nd trimester. It goes like this: 1 - 3 months it's first trimester, 4 - 6 months second tri, 7 - 9 third tri.

I honestly don't think it's harmful to do the act all the way through the last trimester but if you're concerned about positions, doggy style is safer.

Ira

It's safe to have sex up to the 9th month of pregnancy even with you on top. With a normal pregnancy, you can have sex up to the time the bag of water breaks, depending of course on your partner's comfort na. But check with your ob-gyne first if she's having problems with pregnancy, like history of preterm labor, bleeding, placenta previa or history of miscarriages, presence of contractions. You won't hurt the baby by making love. The mucus plug that seals the cervix helps guard against infection and the amniotic sac and the strong uterine muscles also protect the baby. Though the fetus may thrash around a bit after orgasm, it's because of the mother's pounding heart, not because he knows what's happening or feels pain.

DELISYUS

belat...u can also surf the net....there are so many sites w/c can explain in full detail each trimester....

its ok for couples to have sex as long as the pregnancy isn't high risk

ann

except for the fact that it gets rather uncomfortable to try on different positions, sex during pregnancy is ok ... one thing though, if u're planning on giving her satisfaction the oral-genital way, be sure not to introduce air ... my doc says it could be fatal ...

ingenuesjon

actually it is safe to have sex with ur preggy wife. the only problem may occur is premature birth. which is cause by the intensity of the force . . . u know what i mean.

the_Good_Doctor

Yah, its ok to have sex, but i would suggest to refrain from doing the act when the baby is near term, especially stimulation of the woman's nipples'. Cause this stimulates the release of oxytocin which would result in premature labor!

Quentin

from what i heard, first trimester, you can do it missionary style. second trimester, you do it, doggy style. third trimester, you should do it wolf style.

what is wolf style? you sit beside the hole and howl.

RiDeR

maawa naman kayo sa babae. although pwede pa, try nyo na lang icontrol muna especially if she is in the third trimester. unfair naman yata sa mga girls kasi mahirap ding magbuntis eh. kasi tayong mga guys, yung pagod lang natin eh yung sa love-making, yung mga girls, they carry the babies to full term.

sige kayo baka bawian tayo nila kapag naglihi tapos kung anu-anong weird foods ang ipahanap sa atin.

KingTriton

May nabasa ako dati sa isang medical column na okay nga daw mag sex kahit buntis ang babae at doggy style nga ang recommended na style. Okay pa nga daw iyung mag sex dahil pina paluwag daw iyung vaginal hole at mapapadali ang labas ng bata

bagyoboy

I had sex with my wife when she was 9 months pregnant. She even initiated it. And the baby came out okay.

jopert

siguro wag lang bondage! mewehehehehe!

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RiDer: That's true.. I understand what you mean. Pero what if siya yung nagyayaya?

Mudbug

Originally posted by :<THORN>
RiDer: That's true.. I understand what you mean. Pero what if siya yung nagyayaya?

It's not bad to do "it" till the very end. Couples tend to think that it is bad to do "it" because of the baby. That is not the case. It's not like kids know what the heck is happening to them when that happens. Besides there is a lot of gap within the cervics. The only thing is that you do have to do other positions so as not to harm the baby. DOGGY STYLE!

TNT2bluz

Rodney in birth regression therapy: "Gee doc, I can't help but have these images of some bald dude slipping in and out infront of my face."