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Ganito kasi yun... Meron akong naging crush sa office... Naging friends kami, pareho kaming nasa Sales Team. I was the program's top seller when he started. I started to like him kasi sobrang sweet nitong guy na 'to. We startes hanging out together kasama ng friends namin. Hindi niya alam na gusto ko siya. November 2004, lumipat siya ng site. Minsan lang kami magkita nun kasi nga masyadong malayo yung second site ng office namin. Tapos nung May bumalik ulit siya dito. I was eating my lunch at the pantry nung time na yun. Then may narinig ako na kausap nung guard so tinignan ko, it was him! So sa sobrang excitement ko nayakap ko siya. Of course he hugged me back. Sabi niya "na-miss kita... " I know its normal for friends to miss each other. But this one is different. Iba yung pagka-miss ko sa kanya kasi sobrang pagtatago na ng feelings ko ang ginagawa ko... Nagkakaproblema sila ng gf niya... madalas namin mapagusapan yung girl. Lagi siyang malungkot at masama ang loob dahil binigay daw niya lahat dun sa girl pero binabalewala siya. Balita ko ngayon hiwalay na sila nung girl. Birthday na niya tomorrow. Nagplan ako ng surprise party for him. Dapat ba na sabihin ko na yung feelings ko towards him or should i just keep it to myself? Ano opinion niyo? :confused:
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  • say it na..
    but dont expect na lng na he'll feel same way, basta dont expect anything.
    sabi nga dun sa Best Friend's Wedding,
    dont let the moment pass you by
  • ano nasabi mo n b? kung hindi p sabhin mo n! *okay*
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    sis... hwag masyadong barabarabay... cool ka laang muna.
    the best you can offer is your friendship... lean him your listening
    appeal, your undivided attention and enjoy his company. from this
    approach... let time take its course. paalala laang... be yourself,
    be natural. friendship is the best connection there is for you and him.

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
  • wow.. exciting.. ang sarap abangan.. kung ako sayo.. sabihin mo na.. it's your chance but you have to be ready for the answer. :)
  • wag mun gurl..... baka rebound ang labas nyan...
  • no.

    ikaw ang babae... ikaw ang magpahabol.
  • :confused:

    Birthday na niya tomorrow... I bought him a cake ( yung tiramisu kasi yun ang favorite niya ) Nagpaluto ako ng pasta. My mom made him some sweets ( gift na na daw yun ) yung friends niya may sagot ng inuman after shift...
  • its not a one shot deal. it can wait. just my 2 cents. :)
  • ay oo nga wag muna, kase ikaw pa naman set-up ng surprise party d ba?
    u might feel bad if he'll say he feels otherwise. OR....

    he might be forced to say he feels likewise dahil na rin sa dyahe to
    make you feel bad after all the hassle sa surprise party, gets?

    wait a while... makiramdam ka muna... enjoy mo muna ung friendship
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    tama si 69... ang babae ang dapat hinahabol.
    papel mo laang dapat ay maging friend ka sa kanya.

    kung bakla ka katulad ko... habulin, yapusin at pisilin mo.

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
  • DON'T TELL HIM!!!! You can make him know by giving out signs (the fact na ikaw ang nag-organize ng suprise party)... let him pick it up from there... its a win-win situation, you've expressed your feelings indirectly (you've done your part ika nga) and at the same time protecting yourself. Then you wait from there...

    CSK
  • QuentinQuentin PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Tell him. Spare yourself the guessing game.

    If he's a good man, he can still face you. If he's a better man, you won't feel bad saying it regardless if the feeling is mutual or not.

    Ayan, para maiba naman ang sagot :glee:
  • sometimes sitting down and not doing something makes a person lousy.. so this is all i can say..

    "to accomplish great things you must not only act but dream, not only plan but believe!"
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    tell him, and it would be indeed a surprise he won't be able to forget:D

    keep it, and i won't be surprised if one of these days, you'll have a heart attack:D

    nothing to lose girl, go for it:) if ever, you could always pick up your ego anyway and yell next please loudly.
  • :director: "NEXT!"

    :lol:
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    alam mo para yang VMV eh (vision, mission, values)

    vision without action is merely a dream
    action without vision just passes the time
    vision with action can change your lovelife:D
  • or just depress the hell out of you.. *peace*
  • DON'T TELL HIM!!!! You can make him know by giving out signs (the fact na ikaw ang nag-organize ng suprise party)... let him pick it up from there... its a win-win situation, you've expressed your feelings indirectly (you've done your part ika nga) and at the same time protecting yourself. Then you wait from there...

    CSK


    Thank you so much... this could work for me... :)
  • DON'T TELL HIM!!!! You can make him know by giving out signs (the fact na ikaw ang nag-organize ng suprise party)... let him pick it up from there... its a win-win situation, you've expressed your feelings indirectly (you've done your part ika nga) and at the same time protecting yourself. Then you wait from there...

    CSK

    i agree. this is the best way to do it.
  • *_sinta_* wrote:
    :(
    Ganito kasi yun... Meron akong naging crush sa office... Naging friends kami, pareho kaming nasa Sales Team. I was the program's top seller when he started. I started to like him kasi sobrang sweet nitong guy na 'to. We startes hanging out together kasama ng friends namin. Hindi niya alam na gusto ko siya. November 2004, lumipat siya ng site. Minsan lang kami magkita nun kasi nga masyadong malayo yung second site ng office namin. Tapos nung May bumalik ulit siya dito. I was eating my lunch at the pantry nung time na yun. Then may narinig ako na kausap nung guard so tinignan ko, it was him! So sa sobrang excitement ko nayakap ko siya. Of course he hugged me back. Sabi niya "na-miss kita... " I know its normal for friends to miss each other. But this one is different. Iba yung pagka-miss ko sa kanya kasi sobrang pagtatago na ng feelings ko ang ginagawa ko... Nagkakaproblema sila ng gf niya... madalas namin mapagusapan yung girl. Lagi siyang malungkot at masama ang loob dahil binigay daw niya lahat dun sa girl pero binabalewala siya. Balita ko ngayon hiwalay na sila nung girl. Birthday na niya tomorrow. Nagplan ako ng surprise party for him. Dapat ba na sabihin ko na yung feelings ko towards him or should i just keep it to myself? Ano opinion niyo? :confused:

    i'm not sure if this is too late pero kung hindi pa naman sila break...technically, gf nya pa rin yon. yung mga away, pwede pa nilang i-sort out. Pag sinabi mo, yeah maybe you're giving him options pero parang ang sama ng dating mo nun. paano kung sa yo gawin yon? Hindi mo rin sure kung gusto ng crush mo yon. Pano kung sabihin nya sa yo... sinasabi lang nya yung problema ng gf nila kasi he thinks of you as a friend tapos yun pala sasamantalahin mo yung misery ng relationship nila. think about it.
    Magandang sabihin yan kung alam mong wala na syang gf. Unless na sya ang mag confide sa yo, hindi maganda yung ikaw yung cause ng break up nila. OO nga sasabihin mo lang naman, pero you're offering temptation eh. Syempre nasa guy din yon kung magpapatempt nga sya pero still...it's not fair for his current gf.
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