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Coincidence by Accident

i'm 22... I'm almost 10 months ng single.. somehow my experience is something freaky so somehow gusto ko i-share.. I really don't want to tell my story here.. pero i want din na malaman nyo yung weird and kinda painful and confusing story of my past.. gusto ko rin malaman views nyo anyway ganito yun.

meron akong 2 Gf's in the past.. i'm 20 non when i first known her.. through mirc pa nga.. then the way naging kami is through online.. though we met lang ng ilang beses.. now alam kong she's sick pero sabi ko nga it doesn't matter basta ako lagi andito for her.. she's chinese.. so maraming against kahit health nya against din.. pero it's ok we continue naman.. she's the first and memorable because marami nangyari.. we ended up 3 months.. because of personal reasons.. and she said mas magiging masaya ako kapag nag let go nalang daw ako.. because yun ang gusto nyo kahit painful.. i let her go.. so kahit papano after that tinatawagan nya parin ako.. ok naman sabi ko nga lagi babalik ako and indi naman nya ako pinipigilan pero i know that time she's inlove na.. deeply inlove with someone.. but.... (premonition comes)

tinawagan nya ako sa bahay(last time na nakapag usap kami) umiiyak cia.. nag break pala cla nung guy.. and the reason.. nalaman yung health problems nung girl kaya sabi nung guy.. paano naman daw siya pag nawala na si gurl(sobrang selfish nung lokong yun! indi naisip yung health nung girl hayy) so i said to her nung nalaman ko.. wag nya ng isipin yun.. niloko ko pa nga.. na kasi ikaw.. ako lagi lang andito tapos ayan... sabi ko pa babalik ako coz ayokong nagiging ganun cia.. pero she said.. yung heart nya andun na daw sa guy na yun(sobrang attach na tlaga yung first gf ko dun sa guy) later on habang nag uusap sa fone.. napapatawa ko na.. then nag joke cia.. "may kasama ka ba sa haus?" sabi ko wala.. then she said "gusto mo makakita ng multo?" sabi ko "ano ka ba? alam mong takot ako dyan" then i said "at sino naman mag mumulto sakin?" sabi nya.. "ako...." sobrang nag taas balahibo ko nung kaka freaky tlaga medyo sinabihan ko na wag ciang ganun... then after that nag usap pa kami... i said.. kung pwede nya ako tulungan malapit na kasi bday ko non and that time wala pa kong na dadate ng bday ko.. since hindi cia pwede i said.. "kung di ka pwede.. gusto ko kamukha mo.. chinita, long hair, medyo matangkad, sexy.. basta kamukha mo." tapos sabi nya sakin " mahirap yan pero sige Promise ko sayo hahanapan kita.."

then after nung usap namin na yon inisip ko yung lagay nya kasi i know depress cia eh about sa break up nila.. so may nakilala ako non sa chat and nag usap kami sa YM the topic is about my 1st ex... the chat went well actually to the point na etong gurl na nakachat ko ininvite nya ako sa haus nila... birthday party nya kasi the next day... so pumayag naman ako...


so the next day dumating.. pumunta ako sa kanila.... nung nakita ko cia nagulat ako kasi resemblance and kamukha ng ex ko ciaaaaa!!!... and i wass errr totally nag click kami that day.... then in the middle of the party tinext ko yung 1st ex ko then nabalitaan ko she committed gradual suicide daw... she has problem na nga sa health nya din ind na kumain indi na uminom ng gamot and nakita na lang nila yung body sa bathroom nya.. and sobrang ano tlaga freaky.. and the things is later that night sa bday party nung nakilala ko na girl... because she invited me sa bday nya.. eventually i asked her out sa bday ko which pumayag...

actually later lang that night ko nabuo yung puzzle na yan na parang tinulungan ako nung 1st GF ko... pero wala din nangyari niligawan ko kasi etong 2nd gf ko for 1 yr.. sinagot nya ako after 1 week nag break kami.. reason... bumalik ex nya.. sabi nya sakin "mahal kita kaso mas mahal ko ex ko.. so mas pipiliin ko cia.."

so somehow medyo painful tlaga in a way pero diba.. medyo na kakapuzzled yung life story ko hehehe
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  • 24242424 PExer
    bro, yung 1st gf mo(eto assesment ko lang ha) maybe she broke-up with you because my nakilala siyang bagong guy..kasi kung talagang love ka niya bale-wala sakanya yung ibang manliligaw...at yung girl ay nagtitimbang din, maybe she found out na mas happy siya dun..kaya she broke-up with you....

    since she and her new bf broke-up but she was emotionally attached to the guy, maybe she really gave her whole heart to the guy, kasi its not easy for her to let it go..it made her so depressed...then eventually she lose her desire to live na...

    then may nakilala ka, pero bumalik ang ex niya at iniwan siya...mahal niya talaga ang ex niya...siyempre grabe na yung pinagsmahan nila at mas pinahahalagahan niya iyon kaysa new acqualintances, malamang malalim na ang pinagsamahan nila..so its good bye for you..

    well the freaky part..somehow she found a way to help you but it is not that permenent, cause saglit lang...

    me too bro ive broke my heart before and it is not that easy..its just that we were not meant for these girls, nauna lang natin sila nakilala pero meron talaga para sa iyo..just dont be sad kasi may natutuhan ka when you meet these girls: emotionally, mentally...we all learn from them, sad to say they cant stay for long...thats life kasi e, nothing last forever..mukhang good guy ka naman e, so its worth the wait bro...mas maganda yung hindi inaasahan, so stop muna yung mga chat kasi sinasadya yun e...love will come unexpectedly, malay mo nakatabi mo sa mrt future wife mo na pala, or watever circumstances, take your adventure bro teh antural way..at siya nga pala basta wag manloloko ng girls ha..kaya mo yan bro. *okay*
  • it would be even freakier kung yung ex pala nung 2nd mo is yung nakipag break dun sa 1st mo :eek:
  • ohh.. oo nga noh.. pero nope mag kaiba cla ng age eh saka may asawa na yung sa 1st
  • about manloloko ng girls haha.. di pumapasok sa isip ko yan.. i don't know indi ko ata kaya gawin.. actually i don't classify myself as a good guy or bad guy.. i'm always in the middle :) bahala na kung ano sabihin ng people kung ano ako.. basta ako i'm being what I am :)
  • bro, yung 1st gf mo(eto assesment ko lang ha) maybe she broke-up with you because my nakilala siyang bagong guy..kasi kung talagang love ka niya bale-wala sakanya yung ibang manliligaw...at yung girl ay nagtitimbang din, maybe she found out na mas happy siya dun..kaya she broke-up with you....

    <<--- or Maybe she realize magiging happy ako once wala na ko sa relationship namin non.. baka feeling nya indi ako masaya because yung sickness nya is becoming a burden for me.. pero indi naman kasi.. i explain it to her na dati na whatever happens.. nasa side nya ko..
  • grabe bday nya sa saturday ah hehehe
  • hmm, nagpakita na ba yung multo? ;)
  • samantha_jonessamantha_jones PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Wow sorry about your first ex's death and your 2nd ex's choice.

    I'm sure you're a great guy and you'll find a girl worthy of your time! Good luck! And I hope di ka niya multuhin kasi katakot yun!
  • nakakatakot naman yan nangyari sa yo.

    eh kamusta ka na now?

    kaya pala thebluemystery ang nickname mo eh..
  • pocket book...
  • ngayon pala yung anniversary ng libing nya lolz
  • lolz? bastos na to
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ^^ sa dami ng thread mo sa pex, di ko na alam kung ano una kong babasahin, at tutugunan...

    iniisip ko na lang na maswerte pa din ako, kase compared sa'yo medyo onti pa rin pala ang iniisip ko :glee:

    feeling ko, kelangan mo na nga talaga ng gf :D
  • hehe indi ah.. dito lang sa PEX yon split personality ako lolz haha jk the truth is indi ako nag hahanap unless that girl would really be someone na basta yun hehe...

    hehe pero this thread is not a problem just wana share what happen in my life.. para kasing pocketbook may mga twist of fate and kung ano ano.. lolz until now confuse ako sa nangyari hehe pero it's nice to go back and isipin somehow marami na rin ako pinag daanan hehe

    the problem lang is.. yung mga nagiging ka relationship ko most of them mag kakamukha and syempre nanggaling sa first gf ko na that past away.. anyway I don't know.. somehow na realize ko din na unfair naman yun dun sa magiging gf ko kasi image nung first Gf ko yung hinahanap ko pa rin.. :)

    pero everything is ok na.. saka tagal na rin.. just happy right now with what's happening..
  • kaantoks grabe...
  • **** bday month ko na. also this is the month where my second ex broke up with me lastyr.. and since then never had any relationship... nag move on na ko.. the problem is i'm always thinking that maybe the girls i'm dating is gagawin din sakin yung ginawa nung ex ko.. and somehow.. na tratrauma ata ako lolz
  • don't be. remember yung mga past relationships mo are just stepping stones para sa future mo.. the important thing is you learn from them! love is a gift by God, mga human beings lng ang may kakayanan nun so wag sayangin ang time. ndi masamang magmahal ule, besides ang sarap sarap magmahal noh! (generally speaking to ha, ndi lang ung love between bf/gf)
  • I just want a day when it's just you and me. I just want a day when my heart can sing true. I pray to God every day that you'll tell me that you want me the same way I want you. I beg every day to an unseen force that you will one day be mine.
  • naalala ko nanaman :)
  • mas freaky if ung 1st gf mo ay ghost nung 2nd gf mo... :rotflmao: hay naku gawin bang ghost story
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