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Question to parents here who have a teenage daughter.

Let's say your daughter has a boyfriend already.

If one day, the guy visits your place and becomes expressively affectionate to you daughter (e.g., by being cuddly, etc), What would you feel?

Would you feel that the guy is taking advantage of your daughter or is being cuddly on his part just OK with you? Seriously.

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  • yakapan lamang naman ata .. hindi naman nag lalaplapan sa harap mo eh !
    ano bang rules na sinabi mo sa dalaga mo ?
    kaya nga ang hirap pag babae ang anak mo..
    kapag lalaki ang anak you only have to worry about his d1ck
    pag babae - you worry about evebody's d1ck...
  • Kung ang starting thread na ito ay babae or nanay.. ang masasabi ko lang pinag-daan mo na at naranasan ang mga bagay-bagay na tulad ng ganito. So bakit hindi mo bigyan ng chance ang daughter mo, it's her life in the first place.. Now your job is to be there for her and support her all the way lalo na kung dumating s'ya na mabo-broke ang heart n'ya dahil mahal n'ya ang boyfriend..

    Natural naman ang mga ganitong bagay kissing and cuddling buti nga naga-gawa nila ito sa bahay mo at hindi sa private place tulad ng mga Hotel and so on.. Pagka-tiwalan mo silang dalawa sa feeling nila.. Thats the Best you can do. Ngayon naman pag-dumating sila sa punto ng may problema ang relasyon ng daughter mo at BF n'ya just support your own Flesh and blodd huwag mo siyang sisi-sihin or huhusgahan.. Be a good mother and try to understand na In Love sila sa isa't -isa.. Iyun lang!
  • raqxraqx PExer
    wow this is a nice topic. i'm gonna learn here, too! im a teenager and i have a boyfriend. my boyfriend comes here every week when i do not have classes because according to him, importante daw na visible siya dito sa house just so my parents would know na wala naman siyang masamang intention. anyway, sometimes, my mom sees us holding hands, or lying on each other's laps, etc. okay lang naman sa kanya. pero once sinabihan niya ako na wag masyadong showy kapag nasa medyo labas ng bahay. like, once kasi nakita ng mom ko na kiniss ko siya sa may gate, just before he went home. :) so, yea, she's cool with it, as long as were not goin overboard.
  • By the way, I'm not a parent yet.

    In the situation I described, I am the boyfriend. :)
  • raqx wrote:
    wow this is a nice topic. i'm gonna learn here, too! im a teenager and i have a boyfriend. my boyfriend comes here every week when i do not have classes because according to him, importante daw na visible siya dito sa house just so my parents would know na wala naman siyang masamang intention. anyway, sometimes, my mom sees us holding hands, or lying on each other's laps, etc. okay lang naman sa kanya. pero once sinabihan niya ako na wag masyadong showy kapag nasa medyo labas ng bahay. like, once kasi nakita ng mom ko na kiniss ko siya sa may gate, just before he went home. :) so, yea, she's cool with it, as long as were not goin overboard.

    nice.. you got a cool mom too.. I like that!.. ang sa amin naman ay gusto rin namin ng konting-respeto sa mga daughters, kaya sabi niya huwag showy.. kasi iba na ang generation ninyo sa aming naka-lakihan.. kaya kailangan talaga in both parties meet in the middle pag-dating sa respetuhan ng kina-ugalian..

    A good mothers always deserve to have a good daughters too.. gaano man kahirap palakihin ang mga ito..
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