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Once a cheater always a cheater?

Yes or No.
My BF kasi did not actually "cheat" because he had the guts to break up with me and tell that he is attracted to another girl. Then after a month he came back begging on his knees telling that he still loves me so much and would do anything to have me back. He promised never to do that again and told me that he could never find someone like me.

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  • st.angerst.anger PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    i think he should stew in his own juice for a while.
  • for me..it's fair enough to accept him again..if you still love him that much..just make sure it's worth it..but never give your full trust in him..test him first..
  • thanks for the advice.. paano ko sya matetest?
  • 24242424 PExer
    expected niya na tatangapin mo siya...ive known a case like that..yung girl nkipagbreak sa boy kasi madami ang gf niya...after a long time, tinagap ulit ng girl yung boy at tangap din na may iba siya..in short nagpakabulag ang babae sa lalaki..

    advantage ng lalaki yun kasi ok sa iyo na madami kayo....

    in short wag mo na tangapin ulit...never na, uulitin niya iyon..kung mahal ka niya talaga hindi niya gagawin ang mangaliwa.

    wag ka ng paloko diyan..ako nag give ako ng chance before, 3 times at mas lumalala..may lalalaki na ikaw lang ang leading lady at yun ang bagay sa iyo.
  • 24242424 PExer
    bat ka pa magtetesting? he failed the test na nga e..why not give other applicants the test? malay mo mas mataas pa ang iskor? :) at mas worthy pa sa love mo..wag ka ng paloko diyan sa lalaki na yan.
  • hmm.. so totoo ngang pag nag-cheat ang guy cheater na talaga sya forever?

    may guy ba dito na never nagcheat sa gf nya?
  • 24242424 PExer
    ako.. :blush2:
  • Once a cheater always a cheater? I think so.
  • makiramdam kang mabuti... trust ur instinct.. kung sa tingin mo nde na nya uulitin un... eh di go on... kilala mo naman cguro ung guy mo and you know his capabilities same as with his limitations db.... i dnt agree that once a cheater, always a cheater.... my bf cheated me once.... but now faithful na xa... and i know that he will never do that again....
  • how bout the other way around, gurl nman ang fault, pero hindi nya naging bf ung nagustuhan nya, pero she broke up with her current bf kse nagkagusto sya dun sa isang guy, pero di sila nagwork, after a month nagbbeg ang gurl sa dating bf, pro knowing the gurl, she is very simple and faithful nman dati. wat do u think? give the girl another chance?
  • goldhart wrote:
    how bout the other way around, gurl nman ang fault, pero hindi nya naging bf ung nagustuhan nya, pero she broke up with her current bf kse nagkagusto sya dun sa isang guy, pero di sila nagwork, after a month nagbbeg ang gurl sa dating bf, pro knowing the gurl, she is very simple and faithful nman dati. wat do u think? give the girl another chance?

    No.. there's a reason bakit siya umalis sa una - nandoon pa rin hindi umaalis
    maraming babae sa mundo sa pinas lang kadami..
    Sh1t happens for a reason..
  • It all boils down kung mahal mo siya and your willing to take the risk. If you can accept him after what happened and you feel you can no longer live without him.. then go gurl!!! :)
  • ganito lang yan...pag nahuli mong nag-cheat yung partner mo...tapos umalis na sa yo... it doesn't mean na pag bumalik eh cheater pa rin..yeah pwedeng nagbago na sya...PERO...

    bakit mo naman tatanggapin ulit... nasaktan ka na nga eh... unless na OK lang sa yo yung mga second-hand... kasi usually kaya bumabalik yung former lover mo dahil pumalpak na sya sa alternative nya eh....ganon lang yon...

    everybody can change for the better...pero hayaan mo na lang na iba yung ligawan nya ulit...then duon nya ipakita na hindi na sya cheater... kasi pag sa iyo ulit, nakatatak na yon sa memory mo... there's something that will hold you back....and that's not cool..
  • once a cheat, always a cheat.

    even if u decide to take him back kasi luv mo, wala ka ring peace of mind so d bale na lang. mapa praning ka lang.
  • Love is sweeter the second time around. everybody deserves a second chance. To love someone is to love the whole of him. There is no such thing as a perfect bf who never cheats. Depende sa pagmamahal na ibinibigay mo para sa mahal mo. perfect love is to love everything about your loveones even their imperfections. ayos ba? kaya mo yun?
  • I gave him a second chance :) Let's just see.. if he cheats me again.. HELL WILL BREAK LOSE..

    I will post his pictures everywhere with the "WANTED DEAD" sign.. and "BEWARE OF THIS CHEATER"
    bwahahahahah :evilgrin:
  • moremore PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Gentlemen, the truth hurts but i think this one won't slip to the crack. forget about the birds and the bees and the flowers and the trees and the moon up above anything called love. Lets cut the craft, if he walk like a duck and talk like a duck then he must a f..ken DOG.. :clown3: a horn dog. :crazytongue:
  • SoliduS_AlphASoliduS_AlphA PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Yes or No.
    My BF kasi did not actually "cheat" because he had the guts to break up with me and tell that he is attracted to another girl. Then after a month he came back begging on his knees telling that he still loves me so much and would do anything to have me back. He promised never to do that again and told me that he could never find someone like me.

    :(

    He is just makin excuse jut to justify his dirty work. That..........that's not cool!
  • baklitabaklita PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    once a cheater always a cheater?

    may katotohanan at hindi. others are sincere when they mend their
    ways, others seem to repeat their odious ways.

    aihihihi!!!

    baklita
  • i think u don't have to test if he'll cheat again...

    it takes more than just conditioning yourself to trust him again. trust is something regained. accept him for the 2nd time, but once he breaks it again, don't ever think about getting back with him. he's a real cheater!!!!

    but again, he deserves a 2nd chance. take note: SECOND. not third, not fourth, not ever again! hehe... :*)
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