How will u know ur bf/gf is lying?

pinklover

I'm just curious...how will you know if ur gf/bf is lying? sometimes it is hard to tell if ur going to believe him/her, diba? :(

i hope u can help me...thanks

GreatBop

i think you gotta be more specific sa tanong mo.

specifically, anong sinasabi nya na you think is a lie. and why do you think it is?

golden tammaraw

hmmm when he/she denies everything hehehehe

st.anger

body language

LEO24

ACTUALLY MADALING MAGPALUSOT, HULIHIN MO SA AKTO..REMEMBER HIS STATEMENTS..

KUNG NAGPAALAM SIYA SABI NIYA PUPUNTA SIYA NG LIBRARY, THEN PROVE IT..AFTER SOMETIME, CALL HIM TAPOS PAGSAGOT NG CEL "BAKIT MAY VOICE NG BABAE DIYAN, AKALA KO BA PUPUNTA KA NG PARTY?"

OR BETTER YET ACTIVATE HIS LOCATOR ON HIS CELL PHONE, YOU SHOULD DO IT UNNOTICED, KASI DIBA DAPAT PAREHAS KAYONG MAGAAGREE NA IPAACTIVATE YUN?HIRAMIN MO CEL NIYA KUNGWARI MAKIKITEXT KA LANG TAPOS, IACTIVATE MO SA SMART SEND "WIS" TO 288. DAPAT PAREHAS MO PHONE GAMIT.

OR MINSAN PAGAYAW NOYIANG IPAKITA PHONE NIYA BAKA MAY MESSAGES N AHINDI PA NABUBURA NG OTHER GIRLS..

PAG NAGAYA KA NG LAKAD SABI NIYA HINDI SIYA AVAILABLE, CHECK MO SA LOCATOR(KUNG NAKAACTIVATE NA) KUNG NASAAN NA SIYA BETTER YET MASUNDAN MO SILA, TAPOS HULI MO SA AKOT.."AKALA KO BA PUPUNTA KA SA TITO MO?, E BABAE PALA KASAMA MO KAYA AYAW MONG MAKIPAGDATE SAKIN!!"....BLAHABLAHABLAHBLAH

jharrrdy

haha hulihin mo! nangyari na sakin yan madalas.. di ko naman sya bf pero nanliligaw sakin.. hinuhuli ko and successfully nahuhuli ko naman sila if may gf na ba sila tas nanliligaw pa sila sakin!

pinklover

LEO24 - hehe! ok ha...

well anyway, kc lagi sya may excuse pag gusto ko makipagkita... bc sa work o kaya may pupuntahan cla ng pinsan nila or maglilinis ng bahay...kakainis! tapos pag ako naman ang bc sa work o kya sa ibang activities like sa church, nagagalit sa kin...tama ba yun?! syempre lagi kami nag-aaway... we can't avoid not to fight dahil dun...

milk.pink.cosmo

pinklover, it takes trust din naman. give your bf the benefit of the doubt til proven guilty...
bka naman he's not lying, just really not available. let him know he's hurting u by doing those things. keep the communication lines open.

going back to the main question how to find out if the bf is lying (or at least suspect him of lying):
--his stories are very detailed (pinaghandaan). sa sobra dmo pa tnatanong knukwento na buong buo.
--not consistent with his statements

pinklover

thanks milk.pink.cosmo

Quentin

when he or she is not sitting or standing

meteora

pag nagusap kayo..titigan mo sa mata....kung tumingin agad sya sa ibang direction..ibig sabihin nun, nag sisinungaling sya... .pero kung may 5 seconds na tapos tumingin sya sa ibang direction..then tumitig ulit sa yo tapos tumawa. .ibig sabihin nun hindi sya nagsisinungaling...baka may muta ka lang.. .

milk.pink.cosmo

Quentin wrote:

when he or she is not sitting or standing

kulit nito.

bee_tin

in addition to what meteora said, hindi guarantee na your bf's not lying when he can look you straight in the eye...kasi sobrang conscious effort un noh....acdg to my teacher, kapag daw tumingin sa kaliwa aun, most probably your bf's lying...trust your gut feel din

meteora

pag tumingin daw sa kaliwa tapos umikot-ikot parang clockwise...ibig sabihin daw...nagpapatawa lang yung bf mo...

goldhart

hmmm curious ako dito sa mata ah, pano pa ba mga ibang technique regarding this?

baby_07

I think it's easy to know if you really, really know your partner. Sometimes, I am doubtful of the whole women's instincts deal but when I was put in the situation myself a few times, I just found myself in awe everytime my gut feelings turn out to be true.

dylan_gurl

Yeah. I agree. I know my boyfriend so well. Gut feel or intuition lang iba na kagad e. I trust him so much, coz he's got virtues and all.. Kaya siguro mahirap sa kanya mag sinungaling sakin.

But i have this one way to know if he's lying. Esp. to those who have long distance relationship, na twice or thrice a month lang kayo nagkikita.
INTEL STYLE kumbaga.:)
When you're texting, and you ask him where is he or what's he doin..and you feel doubtful, jot down his reasons, place and the time and who's with him. just be casual na as if you don't care.
Then let it pass ng mga 1 week or more, tska mo itanong ulit sa kanya in the middle of your conversations. Check if his answers would be exact sa sinabi nya noon.. Kasi if the person lied, mostly nakakalimutan nya yun e.Hindi consistent kumbaga.
Tested and proven ko na to. )

rachel143

tingnan mo sa mga mata nya.. kung di xa makatingin sa iyo ng diretso it means.. nagsisinungaling siya..

Glebe11

read gestures in clusters..consistency ng mga sinanasabi..eye contact

meteora

kung hindi sya makuha sa tingin...kunyari duling sya... daanin mo na lang sa pagkain...tanungin mo sya kung gutom na sya...pag sinabi nya OO..ibig sabihin nun nagsisinungaling sya ksi gusto nyang maiba agad yung usapan eh..pero pag tinanong nya kung ano yung papakain mo, hindi sya nagsisinungaling.. gusto lang nyang makasigurado na masarap ang ipapakain mo.....

Pero pag sinabi nyang hinde...ibig sabihin nun...matakaw ka lang..hahahahaha

lei_semaj8

salamat sa mga posts ...:)
i think i could use some..... naghihinala na talaga me eh pero di ko alam what to do.