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reasons why guys don't introduce their gfs to their parents

I've been with this guy na for about a year and half na.....feeling ko serious naman yun relationship....I asked him one time kung kelan nya ko dadalin sa house nila....first sbi nya this summer....i asked again then sabi nya d pa daw cya ready!

D naman sa sobrang atat ako pumunta sa kanila its just that I have never met a single part of his family since naging kami...hehe normal pa ba yun???

Advice naman guys or insights or whatever na makakapagbigay liwanag sa aking isipan! hehe :eyecrazy:
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  • ezeboyezeboy Member PExer
    ginagago ka lang ng bf mo...kung seryoso yan kahit 1 month pa lang kayo dadalhin ka na sa bahay nya...hes just *****NG the bejesus out of you...take my word for it!
  • nikki_mzfnikki_mzf Member PExer
    ezeboy wrote:
    ginagago ka lang ng bf mo...kung seryoso yan kahit 1 month pa lang kayo dadalhin ka na sa bahay nya...hes just *****NG the bejesus out of you...take my word for it!


    naisip ko rin yan actually eh....pero i'm his 1st gf kasi....hehe valid bang reason yun???
  • pokerbuffpokerbuff Recovering Lurker PExer
    Maybe he's just conservative, at kelangan niya yung approval ng parents niya for his GFs... at baka dahil dun, medyo hesitant siya. O baka naman lasinggero tatay niya or something kaya nahihiya siyang makilala mo sila... Lots of reasons...

    Ako naman, it took me a long time bago ko napakilala gf (ex now) sa parents ko. It was because hindi legal :) But when I got more mature, I did it na, dahil wala na namang magagawa yung parents ko sa amin.
  • miaka913miaka913 It's been Monday all week PExer
    Wait for it girl. He'll introduce you to his parents when he's good and ready. ;)

    He's most likely contemplating how, when, and where the "meet the parents" event will go down....
  • jadrobejadrobe Member PExer
    baka hindi pa alam ng parents nya na kayo na kaya hinihintay nya right time or right mood ng parents nya para dalin ka dun...ok lang yan, wag ka magmadali...yung iba nga ayaw makilala yung parents dahil takot sa magiging reactions/comments etc. diba? ayos lang yan, enjoy lang muna kayo...

    2nd reason: baka wala rin palagi sa house nila yung parents nya...

    1.5 years na pala kayo...hehehe...surprise mo na lang siya sa house nya!
  • ezeboyezeboy Member PExer
    nikki_mzf wrote:
    naisip ko rin yan actually eh....pero i'm his 1st gf kasi....hehe valid bang reason yun???

    now youre even providing him with alibis...maybe you love him but do you think hes worth the risk?a few months would be tolerable but a year?or more?!...thats just plain bullsh*t...at the back of your mind you know that hes an a$$ you just dont wanna accept it...why dont you give him an ultimatum?either he introduces you to his parents or youre bouncing...
  • baby_07baby_07 Take me to Paris. PExer
    One of the reasons must be that he's trying to make that moment
    special. :) I'm being hopeless romantic again,I know.

    I don't know about other guys but the guys I've been with were never hesitant to introduce me to their parents (although I never really introduced them to my parents. lol).I've never really had a tough time dealing with them because they were all nice and wacky, just like me. :D Maybe your boyfriend wants you to have the best time with his family so he tries to think of ways to make the moment special. maybe he's planning for a sumptuous dinner, or out of town trip or a simple party, such events that won't really make you feel out of place. Pag masaya kasi, lahat nasa good mood diba? So walang awkward moments. Well, that's just one of the reasons though.

    Maybe he also feels that having you meet his parents this early might be a little too fast. Or he has personal issues with them, not really getting along or that he has a broken family. Why don't you just talk to him about them? Tell him that it would be nice to know his parents or kahit man lang siblings or cousins diba? At least you know what he's like with the people close to him. You can't have a stranger for a boyfriend.

    I remember that commercial, the girl saying in the end su hijo piensa que si. I'm not sure with the Spanish though but you know what I mean. When you get to that moment of meeting his parents, be natural and confident. They'll definitely like you if you won't pretend to be someone you're not. :)
  • kulantrokulantro tirador ng bahaw PExer
    same case kayo ng friend ko. almost one year na sila pero hindi pa rin sya pinapakilala sa family nung bf nya. e di syempre mdyo nag-iisip na yung babae, kaya tanong sya ng tanong. siguro nakulitan yung lalake, sinabi ba naman sa kanya "hindi ka pa karapatdapat".
    ayun, hiwalay na sila.. :glee:
    maluha luha yung friend ko habang nagkukwento. pero no comment lang ako, hiniwalayan na nya eh. pero kung hindi, baka binatukan ko yung kaibigan kong yun..
    astig nung lalaki, cant believe someone could actually say that to his gf. :rolleyes:
  • nikki_mzfnikki_mzf Member PExer
    kulantro wrote:
    same case kayo ng friend ko. almost one year na sila pero hindi pa rin sya pinapakilala sa family nung bf nya. e di syempre mdyo nag-iisip na yung babae, kaya tanong sya ng tanong. siguro nakulitan yung lalake, sinabi ba naman sa kanya "hindi ka pa karapatdapat".
    ayun, hiwalay na sila.. :glee:
    maluha luha yung friend ko habang nagkukwento. pero no comment lang ako, hiniwalayan na nya eh. pero kung hindi, baka binatukan ko yung kaibigan kong yun..
    astig nung lalaki, cant believe someone could actually say that to his gf. :rolleyes:


    grabe naman! how mean....wish ko lang huwag dumating sa point na ganyan din maririnig ko from my bf.....

    but i'm seriously contemplating on leaving him na....kasi parang ala naman kami patutunguhan....maintindihan ko pa kng fling lng ako eh....

    so confusing din....
  • gohattogohatto ephebo PExer
    coz the girls are not the type they can bring home to their parents. in other words, the girl is not worth it.
  • ezeboyezeboy Member PExer
    dont worry nikki,i can take you home anytime.heheheh
  • nikki_mzfnikki_mzf Member PExer
    ezeboy wrote:
    dont worry nikki,i can take you home anytime.heheheh

    :crazytongue: haha buti ka pa....i'll be good....promise!!!
  • nikki_mzfnikki_mzf Member PExer
    just want thank you guys for posting your insights....
  • ezeboyezeboy Member PExer
    nikki_mzf wrote:
    :crazytongue: haha buti ka pa....i'll be good....promise!!!
    ...i believe you will be good... :crazytongue: ...so are you two still together? :naughty:
  • jadrobejadrobe Member PExer
    iwan mo na!

    just wanna comment on that "d ka pa karapat-dapat!"

    ---> wahahahahaha!!! ayun tablado yung babae...kulit kasi eh...nagger!
  • LucKyStriKeLucKyStriKe Bad_Burn PExer
    maybe he's not yet sure kung ikaw na talaga ung karapat dapat nyang ipakilala sa parents nya... baka lang...
  • nikki_mzfnikki_mzf Member PExer
    pero honestly is this guy worth it? kasi for me sobrang pinaglaban ko sya sa family ko coz ayaw nila sa kanya eh....
  • jaklinjaklin ~Singkit Kulit~ PExer
    i dont think serious siya... ako nga wala pang one month dinala na ako sa house nila...
  • ezeboyezeboy Member PExer
    nikki_mzf wrote:
    pero honestly is this guy worth it? kasi for me sobrang pinaglaban ko sya sa family ko coz ayaw nila sa kanya eh....
    ...hes NOT worth it..take my word for it... :)
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