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Help Im Inlove Wid Sumone Else!!

i rili nid help...
this is my story

i have my boyfriend for almost 3 years and were going strong. marami na kaming nadaanang trials but i rili dont know if those trials are for real... younger sya and to tell you ako an gumagastos kasi tlgang walang wala ang family nya. pati pagaaral nya mom ko ang gumagastos. but on the other side pinagsisilbihan nya nmn ang family ko... but september 2004 which i think i have the greatest challenge in my life. i met my old friends and i met my bestfriend in high school... he gave me so much attention, time, money and everything... and I really fol... hindi lang basta basta, i think so much in love ako. hindi ko nga lang alam kung may kulang lang sa present bf ko kaya nangyayari sakin to. but the point is, kung may kulang bakit umabot sa 4 months and lalo akong naiinluv dun sa close frend ko.. hindi ko na talaga alam ang ggwin ko dahil ayokong magsisi bandang huli... wat do you think is wrong with me? ako ba kaya ang mali o may kulang lang???

please help me... malaking tulong talaga and i will appreciate ur reply.
thank you very much.

Comments

  • i'd say what those two boys have in their belts don't really matter, unless you're a practical lady. in which case, choose the one with the munny :glee:

    however, if you have someone whom you already know how to steer the wheel with, then it's best you distance yourself from your best friend. it's not na kulang current boy mo, but it could be that your best friend is different.

    and we all need some variety in our lives :naughty:
  • Try to weigh things, sino at anu ba talaga nakakapagpaligaya sa'yo? Sino at Anu nga ba ang mas mahalaga sa iyo. Ask your mother, or discuss the issue with someone you can trust. Then ask your BestFriend and talk to your BoyFirend.
  • maybe its only that you find things you really want to get from your bf which your friend is giving you and ur bf isnt. but it doesnt automatically mean you love your friend already.

    picture this: nobody leaves their husbands for the sake of their idols diba? (exaggerations)

    like dark angel had mentioned "try to weigh things..."
  • queenkatiequeenkatie PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    bakit may money na involve?

    you're giving your current bf ng money
    your bestfriend is giving you money

    the quessi is, who makes you happier?
  • ^ the money damnit :greed:
  • A quote to ponder:

    " Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. " - Anais Nin
  • LaTtE`MLaTtE`M PEx Rookie ⭐
    Just means your current bf isn't really the one that you want. Coz if he's the one you really want, you'd not cheat on him.
  • inampon na yun bf mo ng family mo ano ba yan?! maybe ur just tired of babysitting. bka naman awa na lng yun nararamdaman mo sa boyfriend mo kya d mo maiwan.
  • I was torn din dati.. I have my bf then bumabalik yung ex ko. Super naconfuse ako, kasi yung ex ko super click kami but he's married now. He was willing to leave his wife for me. Kahit feel ko nun na mas love ko siya, I chose my bf kasi I feel na I would never be happy without security (kasal). and it made me proud kasi for once nakagawa ako ng tama sa life ko.. hehehe. I know in my heart, I still love my ex and he would always have a special palce in my heart pero hanggang dun na lang yun.. Right now, mas love ko na si bf. :)

    So advice ko sa yo, gawin mo yung tama and yung makakapagpasaya sa yo.. :)
  • farkasfarkas PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    i doubt kung tlagang mahal mo tlaga ung "close friend" mo, kc cguro ung mga things na nde nabibigay ng bf mo(money? duh!) ay sya nmang naibibigay ng "close friend" mo.

    or cguro napagod kna sa pagbibigay at nandyan nga ngayon ang "close friend" mo na syang nagbibigay sayo!!

    look.... pag iniwan mo bf mo,,, parang luge ka... try to think of it,, sabi mo "mommy mo gumagastos sa pag-aaral nya"..... kuha mo??? :D
  • thanks for your messages i really appreciate it..

    my boyfriend is studying in a different school while my close friend, we have the same school thats why we see each other many times....
    ung tungkol sa pera na binabanggit ko dun sa boyfriend ko is hindi nya ko magastusan, what i mean to say is kahit pakainin nya ko sa mcdo hindi nya magagawa sa sobrang kulang ang pera nya. laging ako ang gumagastos para sa kanya which i consider as being a sugar mommy kahit nakakahiya...
    kami na ang nagpaaral sa kanya, hindi ko minamaliit ang kakayahan nya pero un ang totoo. hindi ko nmn pwedeng itago sa tao na kami ung gumagastos para sa knya.
    Kung mgttrabaho siya ibiigay nya nmn un sa mom nya panggastos nila... para nga kaming si angel locsin at richard sa let the love begin,... ganun sya kahirap pero hindi ako ganun kayaman... hehehe
    hindi ko tlga alm ggwin ko kasi lalo akong npapamhal sa bestfriend ko.
    ang hirap pala ng ganitong feelings,...
    nywei i really appreciated ol your reply,... thank you talaga ha,

    i will olweis remember : nilagay ang utak na mas mataas kesa sa puso...

    thanks ulit!!
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