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bakit ba may mga mistress(kabit)?

hi! anybody, ask ko lang kung bakit may mga tinatawag na home wrecker? Kabit sa madaling salita!Hindi ba nila naiisip na maraming buhay ang nasisira?
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  • they result to that thing coz either the man or the woman was deprived of love/sex/material things from their former husband/wife..

    some people find joy in this activity... wala cla pakialam kung may masira man na pamilya...

    tingin ko lng ha...
  • LaTtE`MLaTtE`M PEx Rookie ⭐
    Sapagkat mayroong mga babaeng hindi naniniwala na sila'y makakahanap ng tunay na pagmamahal at commitment sa isang lalaking single.

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    Hindi rin naman laging kasalanan talaga ng mga tinaguriang "homewrecker" ang sitwasyon:

    Sapagkat may mga lalaking hindi nakukuntento sa isa, at hindi nahuhubog ang kanilang maturidad.

    May iba namang lalaking hindi natatanggap ang nararapat nilang tanggapin sa kanilang asawa; mga pangangailangang emosyonal, respeto sa sarili, atensyon, pangangailangang sekswal, o pangangailangang intelektwal.

    Kasi may mga maybahay na ngawa lang nang ngawa, putak lang nang putak, at satsat lang nang satsat sa pag-aakalang iyon ang pinakamagandang paraan upang kunin ang atensyon ng kanilang asawa. Ang ilan naman ay hindi nirerespeto ang kanilang asawa.

    Kasi may mga mag-asawang nawawalan ng pagmamahal at nagfa-fall-out-of-love, dahil wala silang kakayahang ipagusbong at ipaglaban ang kanilang pagiibigan.
  • zalvajezalvaje PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    dba ratio ng lalaki sa babae.. 1:2 ??? :D
  • LaTtE`M shet. ang lalim. ayaw mo naman magtagalog? :D

    For one thing, the husbands/wives who fool around look for some spice in the relationship, something that is totally deprived by their partners. Coincidentally, there are preys available to satisfy their hunger. Another thing, some people find such warmth and passion in attached people. At least, these people have proven responsibility and stability so as far as dependence and freeloading are concerned, they've hit the jackpot.

    Most of the time, may mga kabit dahil hindi makuntento ang mga tao. Some believe it's some macho thing, others just plain addiction to the game.
  • Well, sad to say na nakipaghiwalay din ako sa husband ko dahil sa kabit. Ilang beses din akong nakiusap sa girl na yun para lang tigilan na nya husband ko pero matigas talaga mukha. BTW, buntis ako ng mga panahong yun kaya grabeng hirap din inabot ko. Pero 1 yr old na baby ko kaya sya naman habol ng habol sa amin. But still kinakasama pa rin nya yung girl na yun.
  • maybe he just wants to do his responsibility to your kid. yaan mo na sha. un ang buhay na pinili nya eh. ung mga mistresses, usually 2 way naman yan. di sila magiging mistress kung hindi rin sila nilalapitan. may mga lalake talaga na magaling magsalita. and shmpre, we women tend to fall for a guy who's a sweet-talker. tipong will make you believe that he is the right guy for you despite his "sabit". just put all your attention to your kid. malay mo, soon he will realize that he needs you more that he needs the other girl. ang tanong, kung tatanggapin mo pa sha if ever mangyari un. think about it. if he did it to you once, he might do it a couple of times pa thinking that he can get away with it again. good luck!
  • 1. ndi kuntento sa isa
    2. ndi k maiwan for some reason (child,marriage,money etc)
    3. kailangan nya yung mistress (money, sex)
    4. ego thing!? dami ksi dyan kala mo accomplishment pag sinasabihang playboy/playgirl sila e
  • Its a cultural parasite. Malas yan.
  • mistresses... home wreckers... grabe... IMMORAL talaga sila. And i really really hate it when home wreckers defend themselves. They are no different from pedophiles... twisted sense of what love is.
  • maraming desperadong tao sa mundo na ang concept sa love e "selfish" (tipong, "i-don't-care-if-anybody-gets-hurt-as-long-as-it-isn't-me").:(
  • di lang naman sa mistresses dapat magalit e, dun din sa lalake. kagustuhan nya yan, ika nga; walang manloloko kung walang magpapaloko.
  • salamat sa inyo ha!
    actually, matagal na nyang gustong mabuo family namin pero di ko na rin kasi kaya pang makipagbalikan dahil nawala na nga yung trust and respect ko sa kanya. Plus the fact na I realized that I can survive w/o that f****n b**ch! Yun nga lang minsan bigla ko na lang maalala yung panloloko nya tapos nararamdaman ko talaga yung galit kaya naiiyak na lang ako. Sa ngayon, lagi pa rin sya tumatawag at nagtetext na kung pwede ba kami mag usap but I didn't bother to answer his call or text. Grabe, baka kasi kung ano lang mareply ko eh.
  • ^give urself time...it's not an instant thing naman to be okay right after e. process your feelings, when you're ready, that's the only time siguro, but you have to be sure that you are readyto talk, better shempre if there's closure...:)
  • there are some who don't want really want to be a mistress but somehow the circumstances just made her one. let's not be too quick to judge them.
  • I am a from a broken a family my father had a mistress and until now he is living intheir they have 3 kids the oldest is about 20 imagine an I'm 24, but my mother and father is still together kaya nga lang may kaagaw na sa attention kung baga sa amin MWF sa babae nya TTHS Sunday pahinga
    My mom is a martyr type balak ko na nga syang patayuan ng Monument eh... lahi kasi ng father ko na ang mga lalaki sa angkan nila ay mga babaero masakit lalo na't apektadong apektado kami lahat na magkakapatid, pero wala na kong magagawa the Damaged has been done ika nga, what I did is I'm looking this in a positive way, nd ako iyong tipo ng tao na nagrerebelde na lang, but I tried my best to cope up with this family problem...

    Pero nd parin nawawala sakin iyong sisihin ang kabit ng dad ko kasi sya iyong dahilan kaya napariwara/nagasawa ng maaga iyong iba kong kapatid:~(
  • Originally posted by morganrate
    di lang naman sa mistresses dapat magalit e, dun din sa lalake. kagustuhan nya yan, ika nga; walang manloloko kung walang magpapaloko.

    i agree, mas dapat pa nga magalit sa lalake kasi he was the one who made the vows di ba?

    there are many reasons why a guy marries a girl and if it's not primarily because of great love for her, he'll most likely stray. when a woman is the first to bring up the topic of marriage or wedding, there's a bigger chance that the marriage will fail. i know already 4 couples who are separated and it wasn't a surprise to me when i found out that their ex wives were the first to want to be married and the first to talk about it. a man should really want to be married to you from the start than vice versa.
  • Yeah I agree
  • kabit rin ba ang tawag pag hindi pa sila kasal? hehehe... i have a similar situation.

    May boyfriend na yung girl. Pero parang kami. grabe noh? I know mali. Pero napamahal talaga ako. :(
  • i agree re the deprivation... some people who tell their insights to their partners are being brushed off o kaya naman nagtatampo na yun partner kaya some ends up talking with someone else or an outside party... masama nga lang kasi this sometime leads to more than usap esp pag superbait ng project ng mistress.
  • well, on my part kasi naging martyr din naman ako. ilang beses ko ngang kinausap yung kabit na tigilan na kami hanggang sa mabuntis ako, sinabi ko pa sa kanya na gusto kong buo ang pamilya ko pero sya pa ang mataray. Kausapin ko raw ang husband ko at wag sya. Hanggang sa ako na ang sumuko kasi ayoko maapektuhan baby ko kaya mas pinili ko na hayaan ko na lang sila. Ako na ang lumayo! So ngayon, 1 yr na baby ko at si x-hubby naman ang nakikiusap na makita kami. Di ako nagrereply sa lahat ng text nya!

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