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What would you do if you found out that your former BF is gay?

BlisterBlister PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
A month ago, nag vanish ang aking bf na parang bubble... :(
And then nag-text siya na may gf na daw siya.
of course mega -cry ako no..
Anyway, then I heared from a very reliable source, (common friend namin na gay den) na feeling niya kabaro niya yung BF ko.
and ang dialog pa niya "Darling, It takes one to know one"
AHHHHHHH!!! :o Bakkklaaaa?????
Kaya pala ganun na lang ang treatment niya sa akin parang walang pakielam!!! 2 months niya akong pinagtaguan!!!
Maloloka ata ako!!!
Help!!!
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  • Maybe he is still confused. I mean kung may i-announce siya na may siyoting na siya, he is somewhat trying to affirm himself na mhin siya. Yun pala mhin ang hanap niya.


    ...to be continued
  • con"t....
    I had a high school friend he was tagged as the school playboy. He justly earned the title because he had girlfriends from left and right. Me and this friend met a few years back I met him at Malate. He was surrounded by guys/gays from left and right. So without thinking or any hesitation I approached him and greeted him. Surprise!! the guys who were with him were his/her ex's. One of actually dared ask if I was one "them", I just smiled and let my friend answered for me( He said no,OK). The reunion was cut short when another friend whom I was originally with called me over to a table. I left him my number and we talked, he asked me if I was surprised, I said yes very surprise. Sabi niya bata pa daw siya tinatanong na niya sarili kung bakit hindi siya natutuwa sa mga GF niya, kaya daw marami siyang GF is because of this reason he found out he was gay way into college and it was his first BF that opened his eyes he felt a strong attraction for the him and it was mutual. strangely enough they were both straight at the time and later .... well yun na. Sila pa rin pero may mga on the side sila mahirap daw kasi malungkot dahil malayo sila sa isa't isa. Then he asked me bakit daw hindi ako natuloy sa pag papari... hehehehehhehehehehehehe siempre ibang kuwento na yun?
  • RöttenMindRöttenMind PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    nakuh ha! ang hirap nyan... pero medyo nakakarelate ako...
    to kseng ex ko, ang tingin sa kanya is gay, as in sa buong building, and even nung hs pa kami... i dunno? maybe coz of d way he acts and he loves to crack jokes, and malinis sya sa katawan. right now me gf sya, and i admit, medyo mahal ko pa sya. pero ang payo ng mga kaibigan: rottenmind, gumising ka nga! sooner or later, bibigay yan. and yun din ang sabi saken ng isang bading sa building namin coz shock sya naging bf ko yun. pero sabi nya, be proud if maging gf ka ng bading co'z that means, maganda ka! so right now, ok lang ako, he's a good friend naman until now and so far lalaki naman sya... and if ever na bumigay sya, well, tapos na naman yun eh, and it means- maganda ko! :)
  • green gringreen grin PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    call him for beauty tips.
  • IraIra PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Well, just put things in perspective: 1. He's not your boyfriend anymore, so even if you're shocked, you don't have a right na to meddle with his decision; 2. At least he's not your husband.

    My brother has a HS classmate who's been married for more than 5 years. The couple recently migrated to Canada and then whoa, pagdating sa Canada, nagladlad ang hitad. It was really a big mess--kawawa talaga yung wife. Count your blessings na lang that this didn't happen to you.
  • This is only "IF":

    I will be very happy that he is now my "EX"
    I will get myself tested for AIDS (one can never be too sure these days).
  • I would thank God he's my EX....then I'll laugh!!! weird ba? :)
  • wAgKaNgMaKuLiTwAgKaNgMaKuLiT PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

    tutal ex ko na siya so ok lang... tatawa nalang...
    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

    ...buti nga... ;)

    badlilme
  • me too...tatawa na lang... :D
    hahahahahaha... *ubo, ubo*...
    nde ko kaya tumawa ng mahaba, sis.
    me sore throat kse ko ngayon eh. :(
  • BlisterBlister PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Reflection :
    Thanks 4 the advice, pero actually wala namang nangyari sa amin 'cause we don't see each other that often kung makita ko naman siya by accident lang.. panay sinasabi niya na he's too busy with his work :( ni hindi nga kami naka-pag dinner or lunch together nun no :( o kaya naman manuod man ng sine.. grabe...

    Sampaguita:
    I almost did ;)
  • blister:
    ngyargh!!! takot tuloy ako... i'd probably become a recluse after...
  • hmmmmm...*isip*isip*
    >; tawa ka na lang.... dami naman guys dyan :) yung totoong lalaki pa ;)
  • from what i heard from my girl friends(mga kaibigang babae k? ;) ), they would rather their bf leave them for a guy than for another girl. sabi nila at least they're assured na hindi sila ang may problema. hahaha :)
  • wagkangmakulit:
    sorry to hear that.. :( think of it this way... at least wala kang sore fingers.... tama ba yun... kaya mo pang mag type... ;) get well soon...
  • ..and if my [future] boyfriend finds out i used to be into gurls...i wonder what he'd do or think of me...
    ..well actually there's this guy who's been making a move on me for years now, and he's always known i prefer my own kind--womyn, right?--he doesn't mind naman. really. sige pa ren sa ligaw! ugh...kulit.
    ..is it always that way with guys? iba 'ata pag ang guy yung gay, and not the gurl...
  • this actually happend to me already! creepy...but actually, it doesn't bother me at all. at first, i felt really nahihiya...biro mo, bf mo, bading pala! ugh! pero as each day passes, you learn to laugh it off. trust me...hehehe! :)
  • BadGiRLBadGiRL PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    yoiks!! hwag naman sana!

    pero if i do, siguro, tatawa nalang ako tapos pasalamat na atleast magaling pa rin ako, d ko sya napangasawa.

    pero kung asawa ko sya, patay sha sa akin. grabe lokohin pa naman ako ng ganon. sino d maiinis d ba?
  • ok lang kasi later on.. he would realize na i'm also a confused creature ... hahahaha...
  • *happy*phantom**happy*phantom* PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    faint!
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