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What would u do if ur gf/bf would let u choice between her/him and ur bestbud. Will u choice her or best bud?: :confused U think it's right ? What would u do? :rolleyes: :confused

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  • aina_crazy_girlaina_crazy_girl PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    bf pa rin1

    he's the one who is supposed to be your best bud, ad your bestfriend should understand
  • if the person really loves you, he/she wouldn't let you choose. (by the way, it's choose not choice :D pls don't get offended) unless of course you did something not acceptable. choosing should never be an option coz it's two different thing. :)
  • LaTtE`MLaTtE`M PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Langyang insecurity yan. Kapag napunta na ang relasyon sa "mamili ka," malaki na problema nung taong nagpapapili.

    Basta ang alam ko, ang gf napapalitan, ang bestbud hindi.

    So ang gawin mo na lang yung bestbud mo ang gawin mong gf :glee:
  • if someone even ever asks me that question, i'd let that person go. either it be my best friend or my boyfriend. sabi nga ni kelly_ganda, if that person really loves you, you shouldn't even ask that question. it's not a matter of that person understanding your choice. what that person should understand is that you are making an effort to balance your time between the friend and the significant other.
  • right on!!!:D
  • kung meron man bf/gf na magtanong kung sino piliin kung sya o ang kaibigan...selfish nya ha!kasi ibig sabihin lang non gusto nya sa kanya lang mapunta yung attention ng bf/gf nya...at hindi naman tama yun kasi ndi lang nman sya yung tao sa buhay nya noh...sus!
  • :wave: kelly_ganda
  • my best friend would be my choice. it's very hard to find a genuine friend. and besides, i've known my friend for a long time.
  • it depends....but in most cases i go with my bf coz i know my bestfriend always undertandn!!! :)

    gnagwa rin kc nya eh...!!! :)
  • my boyfriend once ask me that question, he oftentimes make me choose between my friends and him....I told him that watever happens there are still my friends ika nga bf napaplitan friends andyan parin no matter wat.
    To think ive met them before i ever met him db?

    for me, this question should never be ask in the first place. learn to balance time with him and with your friends. make him feel that his special to you and best of all make him be friends with your friends so he cud get to know them and vice versa.
  • my boyfriend once ask me that question, he oftentimes make me choose between my friends and him....I told him that watever happens there are still my friends ika nga bf napaplitan friends andyan parin no matter wat.
    To think ive met them before i ever met him db?

    for me, this question should never be ask in the first place. learn to balance time with him and with your friends. make him feel that his special to you and best of all make him be friends with your friends so he cud get to know them and vice versa.
  • i've been having this feeling that my bf's been wanting to make me a choice..nde lang cguro ma-derecho. if this happens, i will choose my bf. coz like what most peeps here said, maiintindihan yun ng true friends natin. they will always be there even if our attention is focused on our bf/gf.
    if your friends refuse to accept ur decision or turn their backs on u, then maybe they're not ur real/true friends anyway. :shy:
  • Tinanong na ko ng ex ko niyan dati.

    Ang sabi ko, "Bakit mo naman ako papipiliin?" Sabi nya, "If ever lang, sino pipiliin mo? Ako, o ang bestfriend mo?"

    "Ano ba naman ang pagpipilian ko? Abnormal ka talaga."

    "Sige na... Pretend nga lang, gusto ko lang malaman... Di ko gagawin un, gusto ko lang malaman kung ano ang magiging desisyon mo...?" sabi nya. Ngumiti siya nun, ung ngiting parang natutunaw ang binti mo pag pinagmamasdan mo. God, i miss that smile..

    Ang sabi ko, "Di naman ako kelangang mamili e... Anu ka ba, bestfriend kaya kita...!" Kinurot niya ako pagtapos kong sabihin yun. Ang weird nun, ala naman akong ginawa tapos kinurot niya ko. Kinurot ko nga din, ayun, nagkurutan kami hanggang dun sa kanto malapit sa bahay nila.

    Di applicable sakin ung tanong. Hehehe, ala lang. Ewan ko ba, pag naging kami, o di kaya'y "nililigawan" ko palang siya, dumarating ung point na nagiging magbestfriend kami. So, di ko kelangan mamili.
  • just because true friends do understand your preference for your boyfriend over them doesn't mean that u should take advantage of it.kinda unfair dba? siguro ok lang if u do it sometimes. pero if always na laging bf mo na lang iintindihin mo, masakit naman un for a friend. it's like ur taking advantage of the situation. just my 2 cents...
  • If my BF really loves me, then I can't imagine him asking me that.. But, if my BF was to ask me who I would choose between him and my bestfriend, I'd stick with my bestfriend..
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