she left u 4 sum1..den she cme bck.u stil luv her.accept her or not?

[darv]

mahal n mahal ko sya pero hndi ako *** pinili nya. tapos ngayon,iniwanan sya nung pinili niya. i still luv her after all.shud i take her agen?im not sure kasi kung anu na mangya2ri sa min kung sakaling maging kami ulit. i know things won't be the same agen.pro i dnt want 2 mourn naman dahil sa pagsisisi kung sakali. u know... pag tiniis ko sya. *** mus i do?

[evilclown]

praise you!!!! pwede ka na isama ni pope sa mga martyr saints...dude...dont be lyk me...a damn martyr...(b4 un...) nwei,kung san ka masaya...love is blind nga...as d saying goes ryt???

[danielson]

pre, kung mahal mo pa rin sya. take her. buti ka pa may bumabalik sa 'yo. sa akin wala na

[rins]

The fact that you love her is not enough for you to take her back.

Does she love you? Or is she coming back to you because she got dumped and you're the fall back? Fight the fights worth fighting for. If the feeling won't be mutual, then I think it's not a good idea (or perhaps it's not time yet) to have her.

Yep, if you don't take her back, you'll always wonder what could have happened if you did. On the other hand, if you have her, you'll still always wonder if she'll leave you once she found someone she'll love more. Worst, you'll wonder if ever the guy she chose 1st will come back to her, would she choose him over you the 2nd time around?

Only you can answer these since you're the one who knows her. Don't be too blinded with your emotions. BE SMART!

[bloom]

hi darv! naku! mukhang mahirap yan! pero you try to think ang figure out if you really love her THAT MUCH! i mean do you lvoe her enough for you to take her back and risk losing your pride?? it's a very tough decision to make especially if you still love the person. but... you know what they say...remorse is better than regret.

[Eugene]

Darv,

Give her the benefit of the doubt. She may have realized that
she probably made a big mistake by choosing the other fellow
instead of you. If that's her reason, will you sacrifice your love,
persevere because she didn't choose you in the first place?

But here's a thought for you. If she comes back to you for
personal reasons, be aware that there are two sides of the
story. But whatever explanations there might be, be very
keen on her truthful admission of shortcomings or faults,
sincerity, honesty and true love. This maybe hard to prove
at the start but be prepared for inconsistent outcomes. Yung
bang di ka panakip butas sa paglapit nya sa iyo.

Sa madaling salita, she has to prove to you that she's worth
your love and worth the relationship you're willing to save for
both of you. If this takes time, let it be.

Sometimes, we have to believe that leading to the right one
doesn't always come in blissful way but at times in the most
inconsistent road we never thought of.

As always, the sweetest respond is still mind and heart.

Nakaistambay pa rin sa kanto... Eugene

[martyr]

and what's this... i guess i'm not all alone afterall..

Your situation is something that i dont envy. I mean its really unfair for you. You seem to be pretty sure about your feelings for her unfortunately you cant say the same for her. I mean she did leave you before. So I'm pretty sure you have doubts whether she is for real or not. and I'm pretty sure too that you don't care about it coz you love her so much.. Am i right?

Hay.. ang love nga naman.. There's always risks involved.
Anyway if i were in your position, I'd accept her only because i love her that much. But this time be cautious of her.. Try to analyze the situation.. saka on how she treats you coz you never can tell.... she might have realized that she trully loves you or then again she may be using you as "panakip butas"..

[el_pogito]

i was in the same situation a few years ago. nope, i didn't take her back after the ogre dumped her. obviously, all she needed was a spare tire for her bruised ego. i told her straight not to expect anything from me except my friendship. that's it.

in your part a second chance is in the horizon because you still love her that much. on my case, wala na talaga nun eh. but always bear in mind, IF SHE DID THAT TO YOU ONCE SHE CAN ALWAYS DO IT AGAIN. nothing changes overnight.

[kookang_d_flirt]

congratulations! you're the first man i know who really wants to connect with his emotional side... yun bang hindi puro pride and iniisip...

about your problem, i still think that you should go for it. tama ka dahil you'll just kick yourself in the butt kung alam mong mahal mo siya at mahal ka niya and yet yet you didnt give her a chance.
this time, i-prove mo sa kanya na nagkamali sya nung iwan ka nya the first time, pero dont blame her for doing so, she doesnt need to be reminded nung ginawa niyang yun.

give her what she missed nung una. be more attentive and sweet, the kind of stuff na you think na she wouldnt trade at hahanap-hanapin for anything or anyone.

wish you the best.

[teri1977]

....lol

[rage_within]

ang tibay mo naman kung tutuluyan mo pa.

i mean... have respect for yourself naman.

yes, you do love her still, but don't you love yourself even for once?

na-experience ko na iyan... same thing. i've been too stupid engough to take her again. kaso, nalaman ko sa sarili ko na yung love na 100% para sa kaniya noon ay na-decrease ng 50%. yung pumalit sa other half ay doubt and insecurity, yes i did loved her still that time. but you know, everybody needs to love himself/herself once in a while. we never ended up good. nawala rin siya.

[baby_ta88]

well... alam ko yan...

honestly, ako yung nanloko ng guy. ako yung girl na pumili sa 2.

ngayong nakapili ako... natatakot ako na baka kung d mag-workout *** relationship nmin ay bumalik ako sa dati kong ex.

ngayon natatakot ako kung sakaling bumalik ako sa ex ko ay baka di nya ako tnggapin ulit.

so.. ang payo ko sa yo... kung totoo mahal ka nya kaya sya bumabalik sa iyo... balikan mo..

kung takot lang sya dahil d sya sanay na wala syang guy sa tabi nya, sus... hwah mong balikan.

isipin mo muna ang sarili mo...

[drinny]

kung gagawin ng guy yun sa akin---------NO WAY! ano siya hilo? hindi ako spare tire noh!

[dangerousmind]

done that!!!!!

[bytee]

i will accept the girl . . . . but not for the reason that i love her . . but . . . a spare for sex . . . cheers!

[Khell]

Hey ... after being busted for another guy then crawling back to my feet, I definitely would shove her away. I mean why bother? Sheesh ... Bigay ko na lang back siya sa ex niya ... Libre pa yon. Hahahaha!!!!

[GoriLLa]

for me, kung talagang mahal ko sya n willing akong masaktan ulit just to be with her, then ok lang na take her back.
pero db may nagsasabi na kung nagawa na nya yun ng once, may possibility na ulitin nya? so its upto pa din kung willing kang dumaan ulit sa process na yun.

p.s. btw, naisip ko lang. sa tingin ko may karapatan naman ang guys na mg turn down ng girls kung yaw talaga or yaw na nila dun sa girl. ndi naman natin mapipilit yung guys kung yaw talaga nila e db? ndi ko lam kung bakit pa nila klangang mg pretend na gusto pa nila yung girl kaht di na nila gusto. pareho lang naman yan sa pg basted ng girls sa guys.... yaw ng girls na mahurt yung feelings ng guys pero yun yung way to be honest e. *** kung mg react ng di maganda yung girl pagka basted mo, its ok to feel sad. na fifeel ** ng girls yung sadness na yun pag nam babasted sila. la lang.......

[NoyPits]

Rookie in the house.

If you want to be called a "Man with a sh8t on top of his head" then take her back.
Para sa akin maraming isda sa dagat, why bother.
Use your upper head not the one below your waist!

[dOnnskI]

so tell me, what's the reason she came back?? maybe the reason she came back is that, well, d n nya nagustuhan yung guy na yun .. thinking at first siguro, ok yung guy then later she found out that d naman pala ..